Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

Why do dark skinned girls get mad at light skinned black guys when they turn them down for whateverreason?I'm a light skinned black guy and i receive alot of **** from dark skinned black girls all the time.I'm attracted to light skinned girls..in just my preference.I dont know some of them get so pissed...but yet to turn to dark skinned guys as a last option which i think is messed up.If i happen to be out n about walking with a light skinned black girl or dirls from diff races...even if we are not dating i hear dark skinned black girls snickering and just being nasty in general.Most of them doing this tend to be ghetto,ignorant,uneducated,and hideous (very unattractive).

2007-02-02 09:21:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need some very SERIOUS! advise



my brother he is 16 years old he has a girlfriend and yesterday i invited a girl to my house and he was touching on her and stuff

later when she left i told him y the F#@$ are you doing that?

he know that he has a girlfriend and stuff and yet he plans to have sex with the girl i invited....... why?

he told me everybody cheats so get over it

i know that is not true and i would never cheat on my girlfriend but
y doesn't he care? please i need to know

and i don't know y girls like him more than they like me being a jerk as he is./... please answer.... thanks

2007-02-02 09:21:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got really bad news from last night and i know that my life will end up really soon. but there is a guy who i like really really a lot.
but he has girlfriend what to do? he always keeps telling me that i'm beautyful and that he really cares about me. and yes he really cares about me.but he also telling me that he can not break up with her because he need to take care back home. we are both international students .
i dont; understand why he can not break up with her if he likes me a lot i can see that and fill that
we spend a lots of time together .

2007-02-02 09:21:02 · 4 answers · asked by vasiko 1 in Singles & Dating

how you say what's up in a different way from where you stay?

2007-02-02 09:21:00 · 4 answers · asked by talofa lava 2 in Singles & Dating

Does that make the double standard valid?

2007-02-02 09:20:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what i mean is, for me i shop to make myself feel better, not because i need something or want a certain something. when i am in love and happy, i could go for months without needing to go buy something. But when ive been lonely or sad, i try to fill that space with things. If this is the way alot of women think, then their men would know what to do to keep them happy, right? i would rather have a single daisy picked from a field from someone i love rather than a diamond from somebody i didnt.

2007-02-02 09:19:37 · 9 answers · asked by little S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 09:19:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually..........if we are going to start this..how to do it firstly...........i dont wanna spk with ppl who want sex chating..i just want to know abt this......im new to computers...but my hotmail id is litafedricks@hotmail.com..or yahoo litafedricks@yahoo.com

2007-02-02 09:19:04 · 5 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend rachel, who i have known since pre-k, said she was having a b-day party. so this was on aim, she said that she ouldn't talk cause she had peeps over for her b-day party. i have invited her to mine since as long as i can remember. the she goes it is only people in my class, u don't know them it doesn't even matter. after that i was so hurt. then she goes, jk.

what should i do?

2007-02-02 09:18:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-02 09:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by zlunartic 1 in Singles & Dating

we've had phone sex a few times , and she fantasizes about being with some girl she knows in a 3 some with me. But when we get to the real talk , she says that she wouldnt do it at all. Is she jsut emabarassed , n could i get her to have a 3 some with her friend

2007-02-02 09:17:42 · 14 answers · asked by bbb b 1 in Singles & Dating

I got married & my husband is american & due to some details in the imigration bureau I have to wait for my papers to be ready & then join him, & I can't tell u how stressful it is does anyone here have a clue on how long does this procedure take? & how would you advise me to deal with the situation...thanks folks

2007-02-02 09:17:41 · 5 answers · asked by kitycat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-02 09:17:31 · 15 answers · asked by illwilll1989 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 09:16:47 · 5 answers · asked by White Flower 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well there is really nice funny guy an we have been frins since 4th grade but when we got to 5th things felt alittle diffrent i got buttflies an every thing.here are sum hints that he likes me
1. he goofs off with me when i need sum fun
2.he is really sweet to me
3. anytime a guy is mean to me he wil takel him an throw is book sack on him (football player)
4. anytime im sad he cheers me up
5 his lil sister said they hav a pic of me upstares in there houees
6. he pretends to get married to me
7.he sits with me on the bus
8. he lets me go before him in line all the time.
9.he put his arm around me
10.he layed on to of me on the bus(dont ask)
hints that he doent like me
1.he said he like a gurl named evann an ANOTHER GURL(he didnt say)
ya dats bout it
do yall think he likes me?
if so how can tell him i like him 2(like flirtin)
if not how can i get him to like me
im VERY shy around him i dont have good jokes an i dont talk much uless i no them really goodimnotin5th

2007-02-02 09:15:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the girl i have been dating for 4 months (on and off) has broken up with me 4-5 different times and she always comes back to me the next day asking for me to go out with her again. what can i do to make her stop doing this and how can i help her solve this problem?

2007-02-02 09:15:14 · 5 answers · asked by BoSox 007 3 in Singles & Dating

dooes anyone know an actual free site that lests you browse local women that are nothing but horney and is completely free with now credit card ****?

2007-02-02 09:15:06 · 10 answers · asked by Tristan T 2 in Singles & Dating

hi! okay i've talked about this guy before on here, but i'm still super confused! he flirts with me all the time and i flirt back, but he keeps having people over to skate at his house and im not one of them! im soooo confused! does he or doesnt he like me? do you have any advice as to how to deal with this? also, im going to a dance tonight at 7 so if you have any ideas on how to get him there...thanks!

<3

2007-02-02 09:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend brought it to my attention how weird her husband has been acting. He is 33 and things he usually would do he is ding and she also said he is now all of a sudden self concious about himself. This is a man who I saw to be very positive about himself. She brought this to my attention and now my fellow yahooers I am bringing it to YOU!!!

p.s. she said he is driving her crazy with it and affecting the relationship.

2007-02-02 09:14:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex hurt me really bad. He convinved me that we were working things out even after he had a baby with someone else. I was about 2 months pregnant with our 3rd child when she had the baby. Well recently I discovered that he was still seeing her. How long should it take for my broken heart to heal? I am also a little scared to start dating again. I just don't want to get hurt like this again. I am interested in someone though. Should I go for it or wait?

2007-02-02 09:13:58 · 25 answers · asked by jessica c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i think abt my ex all the time. i want to know if it's normal, although we broke up 6 months ago.

2007-02-02 09:13:30 · 20 answers · asked by sunshine 3 in Singles & Dating

i meet this guy online, and we've been talking on the phone for about a month now. i met him after the first week and we seemed to hit it off. we've continued to talk to the phone almost every night. we met a second time and i went to his house ,,where he cooked me dinner. we talked all night. i thought things were going well.
i slept on his couch, because i had had a few and didnt wanna drive home. the next morning we talked over coffee before i left and i thought we were going somewhere. he hugged me goodbye and i left. he says he is attracted to me, but, he never even gave me a kiss. he still calls me most every night for a marathon chat.
is he interested r not?,,,should i move on?,,,i am clueless here.
i told him i really liked him. he told me he really liked me.
should i move on r no? he has asked to see me this weekend, i dont know if i should or not. ive been burned really bad before,,im so afraid i will find out he is lying to me and has a g/f r something.
please help

2007-02-02 09:13:26 · 7 answers · asked by Meghan C 2 in Singles & Dating

me nd my friend are fighting now, hes been bullying me for a while now and just recently we got into a fight, what should i do

2007-02-02 09:13:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

After 9 years, I think it's time I move on. I'm a Firefighter and she's in school to be a police officer. I don't think this is going to work. I think she's cheating on me anyway with another cop. It's not about trust, but I just don't want to hear about police work. She'd be better off with that one cop anyway. What's a good way to break it off? She doesn't wanna let me go but I know she's cheating, and I don't want a cop wife anyway. How do I go about the breakup??

2007-02-02 09:12:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 09:12:07 · 10 answers · asked by melton_misty 2 in Singles & Dating

Someone tells you all of a sudden that have feelings for you...plus the fact that he is a friend for a long time and married with another woman.

2007-02-02 09:11:50 · 22 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Marriage & Divorce

its so unfair 4 my BF! i rlly care about him but i'm startin 2 like my bestfriend who should i pick? plz help me
im srry

2007-02-02 09:11:48 · 5 answers · asked by beautifulgirl♥ 2 in Friends

I am seventeen. I have dark brown hair, green eyes, and a nice personality to go with it. My boyfriend Jason hasnt been very good to me. He doesnt return any calls, emails, or follow through with anything he says. I just found out that my college friend Zach has feelings for me. He told me he doesnt like how my boyfriend is treating me, and keeps telling me i deserve better, and hinting at the fact that he likes me and wants to start something. I have no idea what to do. Help.....

2007-02-02 09:11:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 09:11:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and is often verbally abusive. We have a 4 month old son together. Things just keep getting worse and worse. He has been beaten up quite badly on 2 of his most recent binges. It's hard for me to see him so hurt like this. He tells me he will quit drinking and then lies about going out to party with his friends. After one of his binges I will kick him out and he goes to stay with friends and then he will start calling and saying he misses me and wants to come home. It's hard for me to say no, but every time he comes back nothing ever changes. He refuses to go to rehab or to couples counselling with me. How do I move on without making it seem like I'm abandoning him? I want him to know that I will be here for him but can no longer live this way??

2007-02-02 09:10:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce