Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

Is it doomed to fail if you move too fast? How fast is too fast? What about rebound relationships after divorce? What about people who move on with the person they had an affair with? My question - what is the best way to move in to a new relationship? How do you increase your chances of success?

2007-02-02 08:38:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

People tell me, oh you need someone to love. And they make me really mad and tell me I will find someone sooner than I know, because I won't. I am pretty sure I am living fine without love. I hate love, and I will block every attempt for someone to love me. I have never aksed a girl ot, because I'm ugly. I am tough, and I am like my role models Hitler and Stalin. I am like Hitler, and I wish I could create a Holocaust and kill everyone that loves someone. I used to be nice, then I realized I am ugly, and I will never get a girl, so what is the point of being nice, so I have turned to hating people. Plus, what's the point of loving someone when we're all going to die in a couple years.

2007-02-02 08:38:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was sexually abused as a child, and a violent rape was my first sexual experience. I did not report the rape, and my parents didn't report the sexual abuse, so it was never resolved. Instead, I made up a "normal" sexual history that did not include rape as a coping mechanism for myself. When I met my current boyfriend, I shared with him the imaginary history in order to feel "normal" rather than dirty. Early in the course of my boyfriend's and my relationship, I was raped again. I kept this rape a secret, too, and unwittingly gave my bf Chlamydia. I confessed that I had been raped twice at that point, but did not tell him that the "normal" aspects of my sexual history were lies. This was three years ago. He acted like he had forgiven me, and we continued our relationship. Recently, however, I got pregnant. When I got pregnant, he said that I could either abort the baby or he would leave me. He said that he had only remained with me because I was emotionally fragile.

2007-02-02 08:37:40 · 13 answers · asked by h 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some signs that you ignored that would have changed your mind about getting married to soon (please anwer the question im not looking for people who are perfectly fine in there marriag)

2007-02-02 08:37:29 · 5 answers · asked by Ms. fly gurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were in a serious relationship with a guy who was 16, almost 17, and he might go to juvy until he's 18 for stealing an ipod, but he said he didn't do it, would you break up with him, or stay with him because you love him, and he treats you good?

2007-02-02 08:37:16 · 9 answers · asked by lauren. 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for a while and he's just inconsiderate of other people's (including me) feelings. He's not doing it intentionally he's just oblivious most of the time. Not like forgetting my birthday type of stuff more like not calling to say he's going to be late when we're meeting somewhere (a restaurant or something) etc. I've talked with him about it before and it helped for a few days but then went back to the way things are. Is there anything else besides talking to him again that might help him remember or care more about his actions in relation to other people?

2007-02-02 08:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Singles & Dating

I am living with 3 other people, my boyfriend, one of our guy friends, and his friend with benifits. She is a stripper at a really trashy place (attached to a gas station) and she has done coke, extasy and pot before. She still smokes pot, and practially lives on cigaretts. She drinks water all the time. She will stay up until 6 in the morning, sleep a little bit, and then wake back up and do it all over again. She was suicidal a few months ago, and to my knowledge she is not taking any medicine. (she used to) She acts odd as well: her eyes are often held wide open, she rocks in her chair, at almost a swiveling motion. and she worms her head at you when she is talking. she has no concept of personal space, and shows no inhibitions about anything. She will walk around the house in her work outfits showing off parts that I do not what to see. What are the effects of any and all drugs?

2007-02-02 08:37:01 · 4 answers · asked by Brittany D 2 in Friends

I am seeing a guy that is 7 years younger than me.. This guy is such a charmer and I think I'm falling in love with him. However at times he really shows his age. Deep down inside I want things to work out for the both of us. But he is still immature and not ready to take on a serious relationship. Do I cut my losses up front or wait it out to see if anything might change.

2007-02-02 08:36:48 · 16 answers · asked by DDELONEY 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello,

I wanted to know if anyone can give me some ideas on how win over my boyfriend's parents. He's indian and I'm hispanic (dominican). We have been dating for three years and we love each other and want to get marry. I'm a little scare that his parents won't accept that and don't know what to do. Any one have any ideas on what I can do to win them over????

Thanks a bunch!

2007-02-02 08:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by buttercup 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think that was a good age? What is a good age? Or stage in your life to get married

2007-02-02 08:36:09 · 40 answers · asked by jobruce86 2 in Marriage & Divorce

First of all, I am happily married to a great guy, for a lil over a year now.

Every night my hubby's buddy comes over to our house and every night my hubby is playing on his xbox for hours and hours on end in his recliner, so his buddy and I just sit and drink and talk to each other on the couch and watch my hubby play his video games. My husband is a great person, and I am so blessed to have him, but he never takes me seriously, and we have never in one year had a real conversation, he just jokes around constantly. We hardly ever are romantic w/each other..mainly because he stays up too late playing video games. Well so anyway, his friend, I guess I should say OUR friend, always talks to me and just treats me like I dunno, really nicely and I dunno I think I may have a smallish crush on this guy, and I DON'T WANT to have a crush on him, I don't want to hurt my husband, or him, so don't think I'm like this awful person, I just want to know how to get these feelings out of my head!

2007-02-02 08:35:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for girls especially

2007-02-02 08:35:20 · 31 answers · asked by xXx 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 08:34:41 · 17 answers · asked by illwilll1989 1 in Singles & Dating

he always looks....
like i will pass him and look straight at him , but he doesnt look back.
but then when im at my locker and i look to the side..he is staring at me and walking away.
hes done this numerous times

2007-02-02 08:34:22 · 7 answers · asked by kat 3 in Singles & Dating

so i was going out with this girl but I havent seen her like in 3 weeks I've been at work she is doing her schoolwork and she also works and i dont talk to her anymore when i call her she is busy
do you think we are still BF and GF

2007-02-02 08:34:02 · 11 answers · asked by Felipe 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 08:33:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Does any1 know any website that has ideas for the valentine's day..like home-made gifts and cards and all..
I only got lovingyou.com and adoringyou.com

2007-02-02 08:32:54 · 1 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 08:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by kicker 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Marcia Savary Taylor 39. last known to be in Conover, N.C

2007-02-02 08:32:12 · 1 answers · asked by JOY T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you start being friends with someone where in the beginning you are not compatable...do you think feelings would eventually grow...and people would change...and start to see the light of things......also do you think one person can feel they are compatable, where another person think yall not compatable....or is it that you like that person, and they dont like you...so they assume yall not compatable...which liking someone, and being compatable is two different things in my eyes....plus do you think the only way or, atleast one way to tell if you are compatable is to be around that person to see both likes, and dislikes....

2007-02-02 08:32:01 · 15 answers · asked by lefteye w 2 in Singles & Dating

ok...well theres some guys at my school who i think that like me because they are always looking at me they sometimes talk to me. O yea they also have a nick name for me (my name is Zucely) but they call me zuc is that a sign that they hate me or what?

2007-02-02 08:31:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for a porno... girl on girl, guy/girl, or guy on guy? if u r in a relationship and do watch it, do u mind if ur girl watches guy porn? if so, y?

2007-02-02 08:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost contact with one of my friends I grew up with and I have no idea on how to find her does anyone know of a free website where you can find people

2007-02-02 08:31:31 · 9 answers · asked by new_mommy050706 1 in Friends

because i have a mexican friend and she is so cute

2007-02-02 08:31:31 · 14 answers · asked by Talis 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 08:31:28 · 14 answers · asked by illwilll1989 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-02 08:31:25 · 13 answers · asked by xXx 2 in Singles & Dating

do you like the bad,nasty side of them?i mean,aren't the nice,sweet girls attractive to you any more?
usually guys fall for them,then complain or reject other girls just because they think they're gonna be the same & hurt them.

don't you like the girls who're nice to you,make you laugh,can have a good conversation & will always take care of you?

just having a thought....

2007-02-02 08:31:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't have much friends since i was little but now it is become big problems cos i don't how to make friends now. i made two people from my classes and they are not very out-going and weird and they don't have that much friends. i just don't know what kind of friend to look for?? i want to be out-going like teens and i tried to talk with other people and the conversation become really boring after few minutes cos i can't talk that much. so help me plz...

2007-02-02 08:30:57 · 9 answers · asked by shone 1 in Friends

oral? I mean, is there any guy out there who doesn't?

2007-02-02 08:30:46 · 30 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been dating for almost five months and we both talk about having sex, we even discuss when we want to do it, but we just never have gotton around to it. He says he wants to and i want to to, but first of all, we need to find time to do it, being that we're in highschool still. Help!!

2007-02-02 08:30:44 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating