I am seeing a guy that is 7 years younger than me.. This guy is such a charmer and I think I'm falling in love with him. However at times he really shows his age. Deep down inside I want things to work out for the both of us. But he is still immature and not ready to take on a serious relationship. Do I cut my losses up front or wait it out to see if anything might change.
2007-02-02 08:36:48 · 16 answers · asked by DDELONEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you still like him, and he hasn't done anything wrong, why would you drop him?
2007-02-02 08:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't drop him like he's hot- drop him 'cause he's not! I really think that if he's seven years younger, then you may be a little desperate. If u think he acts immature at some times, what's to say that he won't always act that way? Get rid of him and get a MAN, someone who is around your age (preferably older by a year or so) and be with him. You'll be MUCH better off.
2007-02-02 16:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are enjoying things right now, keep it. And if something else comes around then take it. You don't want ot have to wait forever for him to grow up and be in the same mental state you are. So why not look around and see if anything else is better for you.
2007-02-02 16:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ashesmum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the downside to dating younger men. Do you want someone who is fun, hot and energetic? Or, do you want someone who is mature, a little slower, but stable? The choice is yours. I don't think the issue is as much him as it is you really not knowing exactly what you want in a man. Figure that out and you're one step ahead of the game.
2007-02-02 16:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of his immaturity level you should just sit him down and tell him the stuff that really bothers you and see if the situation inprooves, then decide. Take care Heather
2007-02-02 16:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are falling for him then cut your losses it will save on the heartache further down the line - then again he may change it depends on how old he is.
2007-02-02 16:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 years younger, that means that u will always feels good during hot moments, but otherwise, u will not be satisfied. Leave him, start finding someone who can gives u everything, not only hot.
2007-02-02 16:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sherif S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him first about him immaturity and tell him that u want him to change and give it about a week but if there's no improvement jux let it go u want a serious relationship i don't think u would hit it and leave it (or do u?)
2007-02-02 16:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 4 me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want a metaphor? Ill give you one anyway...
Hes like a puppy, your gonna have to put up with him shitting all over till he grows up.
There ya go.
2007-02-02 16:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are. If you around age 25 and younger: DUMP!! WAY TO YOUNG MISSY!!!!!! *slap*
If your above 25, go ahead and go for it, dirty dirty girl.
2007-02-02 16:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by John F. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋