We've been dating for almost five months and we both talk about having sex, we even discuss when we want to do it, but we just never have gotton around to it. He says he wants to and i want to to, but first of all, we need to find time to do it, being that we're in highschool still. Help!!
2007-02-02 08:30:44 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and let me mention how much i love him, im not just being romantically dramatic, but i feel that im truly ready to take the precautions and care of having sex with him. I know ill use a condom and maybe even birth control, i just wanna be sure if i should wait a little while.
2007-02-02 08:43:52 · update #1
Wait till you're ready, if you don't, you'll regret it.
2007-02-02 08:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Clark Gable <3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rememer that once you give it to someone, you can never get it back!!! You should wait! I promise you WILL regret it!!!!!! Even if you think you are in love with this guy, you will regret having sex with him. Wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is not a woman alive that has had sex at a young age (high school) who didn't live to regret it later!!!! Just be patient - you have your whole life!! If he is pressuring you, that is even more reason NOT to do it!!
Ultimately you have to be the one to make that decision for yourself - and ultimately you will have to deal with the consequences. I'm not talking about STD's or pregnancy. I'm talking about the emotional consequences that WILL be there no matter what you do. Being dumped by the boy that you give your virginity to is devestating!! That is why waiting until you are engaged or married is the best option!
2007-02-02 09:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you are certain that if you get pregnant, you can be financially responsible for raising a child. In the short term, this means doctor visits, thousands of diapers, formula, food, clothes, and babysitting. Do you make at least $30,000 a year at your job? Probably not. Then you can't afford a kid. DON'T do it! The risk is not worth the momentary pleasure.
2007-02-02 08:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll happen when you least expect it. Sex shouldn't be something you 'haven't gotten round to' like part of some schedule. When you're together in the right place it'll happen. Until then, don't worry about getting it over with. Just spend time together and the moment will come naturally.
2007-02-02 08:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk is cheap. You should wait till it's right for the both of you but you'd be better off if you could keep from it until you are married. If you can do that, you have a place in the high order of the few.
2007-02-02 08:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's the rush?
You're only in high school.
You not only need to find the time, you need to find the place.
The first time should be memorable and I don't mean in the back of school yard or a car.
As long as your dating and having fun what's the issue.
2007-02-02 08:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you both no about protection. Unwanted pregnency, or sexually trans. disease. Be careful. Wait till you are at least a senior.
2007-02-02 08:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy answer. On your wedding night. Sex is too precious to be doing with anyone other than the person you are committing the rest of your life to. How precious is the gift you will be giving each other that night. To be able to say that you are each for the other, and only for the other, and ever for the other.
2007-02-02 08:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by Aristarchus 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Maybe i'm old fashend but if i were you i would wait alittle longer maybe he's really not the boy of your Dreams..
2007-02-02 08:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh...i dont think you should do it until you are ready to have children...or are ready to have an abortion. in case something happens.
if you arent ready for either of those, than you shouldnt be sexually active.
2007-02-02 08:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only do it when YOU feel you are ready for it.
Don't forget the condoms.
2007-02-02 08:33:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋