i don't have much friends since i was little but now it is become big problems cos i don't how to make friends now. i made two people from my classes and they are not very out-going and weird and they don't have that much friends. i just don't know what kind of friend to look for?? i want to be out-going like teens and i tried to talk with other people and the conversation become really boring after few minutes cos i can't talk that much. so help me plz...
2007-02-02 08:30:57 · 9 answers · asked by shone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just talk to someone hopefully they will listen and help you..
2007-02-02 08:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound alot like i use to be and its ok really it is.. you just need to be more open dont be afraid to say what is on your mind and dont let people tell you that your thoughts and beliefs are wrong.. its you and thats how you are and if they like you great if not dont worrie about it. i use to be shy and thought i never had anything to talk about but thats because i had no self cofidence.. when a person shows they have cofidence its amazing how different they are treated. it worked for me. also the part about being bored easy i am just guessing but it could be because you are either very smart or because you are more mature then the people you are talking to ... good luck and be mor confident you really are a great person and you should be proud...
2007-02-02 16:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort of had the same problem, believe or not im really self center and selfish, to the point were i drove all my friends away, I never had trouble making friends just keeping them. I would say just look yourself in the mirror realize who you are and try to fix it. If its a problem if not be happy with who you are.
2007-02-02 16:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need friends when you have the internet. We are your friends.
As for the happiness issue try Prozac. Prozac worked for me no joke.
And don't worry about side effects, there is no problem pills create that more pills will not solve.
2007-02-02 16:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first I would say to always be yourself.
Allow yourself to learn and grow by reading and attempting to experience as many varried activities as possible. You might find opportunities at community groups that sponsor local events.
don't be a critical person. Listen to what your potential friends are sharing with you, share what you feel also and learn from the experience.
good luck : )
2007-02-02 16:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by dharp66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not about your quantity of friends, but their quality. Having a few really good friends is better than having a ton that aren't that great...
2007-02-02 16:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by peliglad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try exercise.
2007-02-02 16:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by theswedishfish710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice on chat rooms
2007-02-02 16:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile and all your troubles will fade away
l0l
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brittany**
2007-02-02 16:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋