I've been with my boyfriend for a while and he's just inconsiderate of other people's (including me) feelings. He's not doing it intentionally he's just oblivious most of the time. Not like forgetting my birthday type of stuff more like not calling to say he's going to be late when we're meeting somewhere (a restaurant or something) etc. I've talked with him about it before and it helped for a few days but then went back to the way things are. Is there anything else besides talking to him again that might help him remember or care more about his actions in relation to other people?
2007-02-02 08:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, there's really nothing else to do if you have already talked to him. Some people just aren't empathetic, they are just selfish. I couldn't stand to be with someone like that. You probably deserve better, too, girl...
2007-02-02 08:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey but he wont change, my b/f is a people pleaser and will forget about my feelings to make them happy cuz im like a huge rock to him im always ganna be there...we fight about this constintly ive broken up with him ive done everything, guys dont change...they grow they have different views on things but there personalties dont change...you have to learn to find a way that works for you to deal with it or leave...
2007-02-02 08:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how your feeling, my girlfriend is that way. the best thing you can do is siriusly sit him down and have a long, sirius, and understanding conversation with him. make sure he understands and that he recodnizes what he is doing ( it workd in my relationship) . oh, and do it IN PERSON ...good luck
2007-02-02 08:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Women Pleaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love him intensily and forgive him for this.All you want will come to you.
2007-02-02 08:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by prashant m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋