break up question?

Question

the girl i have been dating for 4 months (on and off) has broken up with me 4-5 different times and she always comes back to me the next day asking for me to go out with her again. what can i do to make her stop doing this and how can i help her solve this problem?

Answer 1

She's being immature and playing with your feelings. That's too many times to break up in a 4month period, wow.
Next time, take her word for it and when she wants to get back with you say no! Then mean it. Tell her she plays too many games and you don't want an indecisive girlfriend. Ask her why you should consider being with her if she's just going to break up with you again, make her regret playing those silly games. Good Luck! :)

Answer 2

Man, you have to cut it out one day. Here's how:

You haven't acted fast and now she thinks your her toy. She's MANIPULATING you.

1)To put a stop to it, next time she breaks up and that she tries to come back, tell her that she's not mature enough for this and that you don't accept. Wait a few days then come back to her saying you'll give her a second chance. If she really likes you she'll accept immediately and believe me she won't try again. If she's a total female dog, she,ll probably just say no and go play with another boy.

2) OR you can do the first move. Instead of waiting until she breaks up you, do it. She'll get the point. Again, wait a few days and go back to her. Explain the situation and tell her if she wants this to work, to cut it out.

Hope I helped!

Azanilia

Answer 3

Quit taking her back-if she's afraid of being with you for 4-5 months, then it's not gonna last for much longer. Don't accept her apology and just move on. If she cries and whines, then it's her problem. She needs to learn to move on, too.

Answer 4

as long as you keep accepting her back she will keep breaking up with you!!!next time say no!!!

Answer 5

dude stop going back with her. it'll keep going.. and going.. and going