i meet this guy online, and we've been talking on the phone for about a month now. i met him after the first week and we seemed to hit it off. we've continued to talk to the phone almost every night. we met a second time and i went to his house ,,where he cooked me dinner. we talked all night. i thought things were going well.
i slept on his couch, because i had had a few and didnt wanna drive home. the next morning we talked over coffee before i left and i thought we were going somewhere. he hugged me goodbye and i left. he says he is attracted to me, but, he never even gave me a kiss. he still calls me most every night for a marathon chat.
is he interested r not?,,,should i move on?,,,i am clueless here.
i told him i really liked him. he told me he really liked me.
should i move on r no? he has asked to see me this weekend, i dont know if i should or not. ive been burned really bad before,,im so afraid i will find out he is lying to me and has a g/f r something.
please help
2007-02-02 09:13:26 · 7 answers · asked by Meghan C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, i do want to take it slow.
but,i did think i would have gotten a kiss goodbye if he really was interested.
2007-02-02 09:29:02 · update #1
he has a g/f leave him alone
2007-02-02 09:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he's interested and if he had a girlfriend I don't think he would have time for a marathon chat or allow you to sleep on the couch unless he was in a long distance relationship. As for him not making a move on you yet could be a good thing because most guys will make a move the first night and we all know what they're after, he sounds respectful to me...and that's what you should want...
2007-02-02 09:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Soccer Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hang in there a while longer. He may not have kissed you out of fear of rejection, or that you may feel he was using you for sex or something. See him again, this time if you want to kiss him, you make the first move. Its ok, the girl can make the first move. I do it all the time LOL> Most guys like it!
2007-02-02 09:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are really shy, and some dont want to make quick moves. I think if hes calling you, then hes just trying to date and take it slow. he probably really likes you, but girls are different, and take some actions the wrong way. peace.
2007-02-02 09:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jesse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nice man .He sounds good ,he is being cautious with the romance side of things.
2007-02-02 09:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey do wetever you feel like it...If you don't want to burn like you say so don't do it...
2007-02-02 09:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no stay a while
2007-02-02 09:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋