i need some very SERIOUS! advise
my brother he is 16 years old he has a girlfriend and yesterday i invited a girl to my house and he was touching on her and stuff
later when she left i told him y the F#@$ are you doing that?
he know that he has a girlfriend and stuff and yet he plans to have sex with the girl i invited....... why?
he told me everybody cheats so get over it
i know that is not true and i would never cheat on my girlfriend but
y doesn't he care? please i need to know
and i don't know y girls like him more than they like me being a jerk as he is./... please answer.... thanks
2007-02-02 09:21:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
young girls have a hard time seeing quality in a guy they like, he doesn't care because they don't care, if he has an attitude like that, then the girls he's with know, deep down, that he's not worth it, but they make up excuses for him to make themselves feel better. give yourself time and don't act like him and girls will eventually realize that you're the better catch. in the meantime, you should definitely let both girls know that he's cheating. good luck dear.
2007-02-02 09:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by avemaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your brother is an ASShole! Don't fret to much about it hun. You're right, it's not right to cheat. But some people get it into there nature that that is the way society is so why not be that way as well. It's not true. There are people looking for love everywhere. Girl may seem attracted to him more is because he plays hard to get which attracts some girls. He may flirt alot so he could be good at it. Don't worry about why some girls like him more... concentrate on yourself and finding the right person. Not everyone is lucky, but in the end cheaters end up alone... and they wonder why!
2007-02-02 17:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by kcdowling04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I don't understand is why are you keeping this to yourself? You may "love" your brother a lot, but he is playing with people's hearts. What I say you do is tell his girlfriend that he has been cheating on her with another girl that YOU invited over. This may anger your brother, and I mean ANGER, but it's wrong to do that. And to add to that, not everybody gets over someone cheating on them or knowing that someone is cheating on someone else. You know it's wrong, so just say it! Be a hero, hun, you'll never regret it (and you may even get the girl!)
XOXO,
Katherine
2007-02-02 17:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerks like your brother are only appealing to girls because they are hard to tie down. He probably had his heart broken once and this is his way of handling it. Or maybe he was just born that way. Who knows? Just keep your girlfriends away from him and know that you are a better person than your brother. Don't trust him.
2007-02-02 17:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by LISA F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not everyone cheats! he just feels like he's a pimp! at times girls like the bad boys but the nice guys will always get the better girls! wait till he really falls in love and he will change, there's always someone that will make even the wildest beasts to be tamed!
2007-02-02 17:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate it when the person you care about is falling for someone you KNOW will just hurt them. Tell her your brother's record and how much of a jerk he is, and hopefully she'll trust you enough to not go out with/ have sex with him.
2007-02-02 17:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a chat with your so called brother and lay down the law. Tell him to stop violating your space, and to learn some respect for his brother. You also need to find the guts to tell him to not touch you're woman again or else you will kick his azz.
2007-02-02 17:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is a jerk and if the girl you invited allowed him to touch her then they deserve each other.
2007-02-02 17:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL LIKE A NICE GUY ONCE SAID, NICE GUYS FINISH LAST SORRY! BUT IF EVERY1 THINKS OF IT ITS TRUE, SOME GIRLS LIKE GETTING TREATED BAD I DONT NO WHAT IT IS MY BF SAY THE SAME THING WELL BECAUSE HES A NICE GUY AND GIRLS ALWAYS FUKED HIM OVER FOR THE BAD GUY, BUT I NEVER WILL, THATS JUST FUKED UP, I THINK UR BOR THINKS THAT BECAUSE HE HAS NOT REALIZE THE MEANING OF LOVE OR RELATIONSHIP, WELL IF UR A NICE GUY DONT WORRY U WILL FIND THE RIGHT GIRL, AND DONT WORRY BOUT UR BRO, THERE IS A THING CALLED CARMA
2007-02-02 17:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by CANDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're good man and honest man .. and i will answer you .
All girl like you're brother cos his know what any girl want
and his always do like what girl want , and you must ask you're
self his just meet the ***** that is the true.
Don't care about him and you're the man .
2007-02-02 17:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Rasmah.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋