Why do dark skinned girls get mad at light skinned black guys when they turn them down for whateverreason?I'm a light skinned black guy and i receive alot of **** from dark skinned black girls all the time.I'm attracted to light skinned girls..in just my preference.I dont know some of them get so pissed...but yet to turn to dark skinned guys as a last option which i think is messed up.If i happen to be out n about walking with a light skinned black girl or dirls from diff races...even if we are not dating i hear dark skinned black girls snickering and just being nasty in general.Most of them doing this tend to be ghetto,ignorant,uneducated,and hideous (very unattractive).
2007-02-02 09:21:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first question to you is, if you acknowledge that the women who make the comments are "ghetto, ignorant, etc.." why do you care what they think?
I don't get mad when I see a light-skinned guy with a white girl or light-skinned girl. I am more surprised because in the past it seemed that light-skinned guys preferred dark-skinned women. I am not sure where this idea came from, but I think it is very prevalent in the black community.
My advice, just do you and don't worry about anyone else!
2007-02-06 04:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by JT 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Why do black men hate being black so much? That's the real concern. They chase after "light" & "red bone" women, and white women. And make it their business to tear down black women. But anyway, fewer and fewer black women get angry about BM dating light women. BW are starting to abandon BM after having been betrayed so many times by them. BM has been acting like an enemy more than even a friend, let alone a partner. Black women don't care where they go now.
2016-03-29 02:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're * up. There are no preferences. I'm a dark skinned guy, my old lady is a dark skinned girl who's been with light skinned guys, dated white guys, whatever. You want the respect of a dark skinned girl, buy you don't respect them. I'm not into light skinned girls, but my mother is light, yet I wouldn't disrespect them they way you do dark skinned girls. Yet there have been plenty of light skinned girls I liked, seem to be attractive to a lot more these days I think it's years of trying to stick to preferences it tends to do that to you. You have to realize that all women have something about them that's pretty; you may find some to be cute and others sexy, but without really getting to know them, you can't judge.
We're attracted to who is attracted to us. If you're anything like me, you simply got along with the light skinned girls better so you think that is what you're attracted to. If the dark skinned girls took you seriously you'd probably gravitate to them too. You may not have what the dark skinned girls want, get over it, you'll be better for it once you've accepted it and moved on ...
2007-02-05 11:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 12⤊ 1⤋
wow what an asshole!! okay first off you cant assume that most dark skinned girls are even interested in you because you havent met them all. me personally - im what ppl call "light skinned" black girl (even though i think im dark as hell) and im just not into black guys. they are just not cute. ive seen like 2-6 black guys i think are cute and they're all half white. so i understand what your saying - its your preference. thats awesome and what not but i still think you're being a jerk. ive been through the same thing with blk guys but i dont sit here and assume that all blk guys get mad. stop being so judgmental and ignorant. l8ter.
2007-02-04 01:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by Gone, Gone, Gone. 4 · 11⤊ 0⤋
that is cold. you should not say things about dark skin girls like that. I am dark skin and could care less who you or anyone else dates. do what you do. but don't come at us like that. And you really should not say you don't like dark skin black girls, cause we are all black and dark to someone else. and I'm sure you have dark skin people, girls or what ever in your family, I wonder how they feel. cause i know my brothers (who are all light skin) would get there butts kicked for saying something like that.
2007-02-03 12:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Nice Aries Girl 2 · 14⤊ 0⤋
All these quarrels about light skin and dark skin is all due to propogander that that white skin is the best so all those people who agruement that relate to this are just ashamed of there skin. As we all know it is a white world every thing promoted about beuty is white features.
2007-02-04 04:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Leo G 1 · 7⤊ 2⤋
They were probably physically unattractive.
That said, let me be clear. Dark or light has zero to do with attractiveness. My ex-wife was very dark, and very beautiful.
2007-02-04 12:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by cordoba1965 1 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is asking this question in spite, because I go through what he goes through.
I get hit on by dark guys all the time (I am beyonce's color but darker than Tyra) and if I tell them I am not interested they get pissed. Also when I walk with a medium colored person or even a tan Indian they get mad.
I think because of history the darker people feel as through life is harder for them and that we (the lighter skinned) get better treatment. But then again, they are the ones always after the lighter person, even if the lighter is not as attractive so maybe they should take a moment and think about their hypocrisies.
2007-02-06 05:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 7⤋
they probably liked you and thought you were a nice guy...then realized soon after you were one of those ignorant disgraceful black guys
2007-02-03 03:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by 1 5 · 28⤊ 1⤋