Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

Ever sience i have been with my hubby my mother in law has cause trouble with anyone we have contact with. She has sucssed in getting my sil and i fighting and we havnt talked in over 6 months. Well now that I am friends with my sil sister and mom she is trying to start crap with them she is always telling me that this friend did or said something that she didnt do. Today we were at my friends moms house visiting and when we left we went and did a few things and it took us about an hour to get home. I get this call that 20 minutes after i left my m i l called and said i had called and told her everything that they were saying about her and that i was talking bad about them. I wasnt even home at the time I was supposed to have called and said this i was at the drug store and I dont have a cell Phone. what would all you do?

2007-02-02 14:22:05 · 9 answers · asked by mommy2myboys2000 2 in Family

Okay one minute a guy who's crushing on you is head over heels for you and the next he wants nothing to do with you. Then when you're in a relationship, you love your guy, but as time moves on, you just realize he wasn't as great as he seemed. People keep on going up to you saying this guy likes you and yadda yadda. You get your hopes up and get them crushed the next. They claim to love you then turns out to just to be fooling around. You think they like you but they dont. GUYS ARE JUST SO UGH! IM SICK OF THEM!!

2007-02-02 14:22:00 · 5 answers · asked by Valencia 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I like this boy(this is 7th grade)and he likes me to. The valentines dance is coming up and i want to go with him.......but I dont know how to ask him. Also I want to ask him out(when in middle school to be BF or GF means holding hands,lil kissies on the check,using his hoddie when you "forget"yours,lil things like that) But I have never asked a boy out or to a dance.

So how do I ask him to the dance??
How do I ask him out??

.......and thats all I need to know.....not things likt ur not ready or stcik to ur studies because I have all A+'s.

2007-02-02 14:21:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, If u think im cute, answer. i just want to get to know u better and stuff. plz, i need help!! I dont want to be cold and alone without a guy there that luvs me. It feels lonely and depressing around if I dont have friends or a bf around. But i dont have a bf. I'll get to know you more, just u see!!! ♥
But only cute boys!!! ~.^

2007-02-02 14:21:45 · 8 answers · asked by Axback Hotte♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm engaged to a wonderful women but i'm afraid she maybe pushing herself into the stepmom role to soon.she means well but this drives my ex crazy.for example my gf wants to go to parent/teacher conferences(which i love but my ex hates) with me.my ex is a very bitter vengeful controlling person who made my life hell when i was with her.my gf is totally opposite and i would love her to be involved with my son.the problem is this makes my ex crazy and and i want to do whats best for my son.i have told my gf to back off on the stepmom stuff for now but this has made her upset.she feels i should stand up for her to my ex but i just see it as making it easier for my son by going along with my ex for now.hopefully when she finds a bf things will get better but in the mean time how should i handle this?

2007-02-02 14:21:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-02 14:20:28 · 20 answers · asked by shelbyl016 1 in Singles & Dating

Maybe your mom's the first person you dial with a dating dilemma. Maybe you'd never want her to know the details of your love life. Either way, I bet she has offered you some strong opinions about men — whether you asked for them or not.

Looking back, do you wish you had listened when she told you to never date an artist?

Was she right all along about never going to bed angry?

Did she tell you to "play hard to get" — and do you?

2007-02-02 14:19:20 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Enya♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of three years is nearly 34. We've talked about marriage, but I want kids and he does not. However before he met me he never thought he wanted to get married either. I'm only 25 so I'm not worried about time. Is it possible that he could change his mind? What do you think?
Have you been in a similar situation, and what happened for you?

2007-02-02 14:18:48 · 12 answers · asked by lauren c 3 in Singles & Dating

so there to boys they became like my best friends this year i only like one of them at first but we just don't go together as bf and gf so i never asked him out.Then theres the second boy hes asome i used to think i loved him as a brother but lately ive been getting closer to him.So i wanna ask him out the problem is that him and the first boy are fighting and he would get mad at me if i hang out with him to much and i care about both of them

2007-02-02 14:18:37 · 5 answers · asked by HelloDarling 2 in Singles & Dating

Do u like gurls with blonde hair, or brunette or dark hair? Do u like gurls thin or on the heavyweight side? Do u like grls with big boobs or small ones? Answer! =)

2007-02-02 14:18:11 · 7 answers · asked by Axback Hotte♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm engaged to a wonderful women but i'm afraid she maybe pushing herself into the stepmom role to soon.she means well but this drives my ex crazy.for example my gf wants to go to parent/teacher conferences(which i love but my ex hates) with me.my ex is a very bitter vengeful controlling person who made my life hell when i was with her.my gf is totally opposite and i would love her to be involved with my son.the problem is this makes my ex crazy and and i want to do whats best for my son.i have told my gf to back off on the stepmom stuff for now but this has made her upset.she feels i should stand up for her to my ex but i just see it as making it easier for my son by going along with my ex for now.hopefully when she finds a bf things will get better but in the mean time how should i handle this?

2007-02-02 14:17:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Some of what I am reading about dating has got me thinking that young women want to have multiple sexual partners at the same time to test the waters as they say. I get this idea when I read stuff in studies and reports that say young people (and I'm directing this to women because I'm only really interested in their opinion since I'm a guy) don't know when a relationship is exclusive, even when they are having sex. As far as I'm concerned if it isn't a one night stand it should be exclusive.

2007-02-02 14:16:27 · 19 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

My names Andrew I have a son, hes 19 years old. Im 36, yes I was young when he was born. Hes been dating this girl, Ashley for six months now. Shes 17 but will be 18 in a few months. They like each other alot but im sure theyre not in love. Recently Ive been having feeling for Ashley that I shouldnt be having. I have urges to just grab her and kiss her. But I dont just like her on a physical level, shes a really sweet girl. A while ago I was sick and she was there to help me. And by the way Im not married or seeing anyone else. Im not sure what to do, should I act on the feelings later after she turns 18 or should I just keep quiet about it ? I would never "make a move on her" while theyre together. But I really dont think theyll be together for much longer and I dont know if I should ask her out or something when they do break up...

HELP me please, your advice is greatly needed and appreciated

Thank you, Andrew

2007-02-02 14:16:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were so close, like reli reli close.now its just not the same.i don't no what happened.he recently admitted to liking me recently, and now he doesn't even act like i exist.he was flirting with a girl just recently.i could tell he was falling for her, because i remember when we were together he acted just like that with me. i watched them so whole time, and i even started to cry, so i just ran out of the room.my freinds told me wat happened and apparently they still kept flirting non stop.we were so in love before, but now its not the same.i don't no what happeded!?!? what does this mean?it hurts to always see them together.alot of ppl say shes"the second me" b/c he has this thing for treating his crushes the same all the time.it reli hurts.how can i get over him??should i get over him?what do i do.plz give good advice...

2007-02-02 14:16:16 · 6 answers · asked by CurioslyPerfect 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been married for 7 years with 4 kids 2 from previous relationships ive always tried to be a good father always doing everything i can for my family but problems came up with me and my wife after a loved one on her side paased away since that death our lives have changed very dramatically where we arent the same as we argue constantly and really cant get along as times went on ive gone threw rumors of infidelity regarding my wife and always stuck by her and supported her to this day ive always been there cause i do love my wife and am afraid of losing her we are still gouing threw problems i dont like thinking bad of my wife but i dont know what 2 do i just recently dfound a letter in my bedroom regarding my youngest daughter that she is not mine i am very depressed and angry from the distant feelings from my wife wich made me get close to someone else which i know is wrong but i am angry and need help beofre i do something i will regret please someone i need help i live in ny

2007-02-02 14:15:51 · 11 answers · asked by Francisco C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

thers this girl that likes me and i like hur and i wana ask hur out i nw she will say yes...bt i dnt just wana ask hur out like w.e so i had this idea. like 4 the summer ima go 2 europe so i was like do wana come she was like yes hur momn would let hur so i was thinking of asking hur out on top of the Eiffel tower all romontic u nw what i mean?? so what u ppl think?? my friends think its stupid

2007-02-02 14:15:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cuz thats what i hear... but i don't see how it would be any different from highschool

2007-02-02 14:15:12 · 8 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Singles & Dating

Like in chicks body size, would you prefer thin, mediumish, or a little heavy? And what weight would you say is thin, medium ect. Thanx!

2007-02-02 14:14:47 · 8 answers · asked by CALI2424 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and wanna date him for sex
i know he likes me too, he wont marry me or anything and so far he hasnt called since our last fight.....
i kinda want him back, but i am afraid to make the first step
i text him yesterday "waz up" and he hasnt replayed, so should i call ? or should i forget the whole deal?

2007-02-02 14:14:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"By the way, thanks for the visual."

This is meant in a postive way I think.

2007-02-02 14:14:09 · 21 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Singles & Dating

Matt spends more time with Alley than with me. I sometimes feel jealous of Alley. Does this mean that am crushing on Matt?

2007-02-02 14:14:05 · 9 answers · asked by Prayer Warrior 5 in Friends

how do i get warm and cozy when im usually cold and tired? help!

2007-02-02 14:13:27 · 6 answers · asked by Axback Hotte♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

why can't they just call us@!!!! are they intimidated? I met this guy 2 days ago and he emailed me back saying.... give me a call..
What's up with that? what he just wants to chat? no date?!!

2007-02-02 14:12:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He comes to see me and we always talk everyday and hes really nice to me.. But he talks to girls and some were exs but now he doesnt talk to them. One girl that likes him left him comments on our pictures and his own and said they were ugly and that she should come and take some better ones with him and left a comment on one by his self saying that his body should be all hers. I mean how could i tell f hes not talking to them. I check his name and he letted me delete her off it and she isnt on his space no more and when she adds him back he always denys it but i want to know how i can tell if he really loves me or not. Or if he is just pretending to love me so he can get me to think he loves me and has uno wat with me then leave me.

2007-02-02 14:12:40 · 1 answers · asked by play_boi_bunny_1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

just acquaintances......even though you thought you were friends....But you keep track of the calls...you were the last one to call....

2007-02-02 14:12:37 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

so i live in WA and i have a bf in oregon, but i REALLY REALLY REALLY like this guy at my school. i want to go out with him and i don't really like my bf anymore. how do i ask the guy i like if he likes me and if he'll go out with me????

2007-02-02 14:12:20 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany J 1 in Singles & Dating

Too sappy?

2007-02-02 14:12:03 · 12 answers · asked by fallin64 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been living together for about 6 years. As of late, I feel as if we are 3000 miles apart in the same room. I have been trying to bring her closer by giving her massages and cuddling, but I still feel that we aren't as close as we once were.

There have been times when I get involved in a project, I will ignore her unintentionally. She is trying to write a book and is doing the same thing. I don't know if she is doing this in retaliation or is doing what I do without knowing it.

We haven't had sex in over 4 months and we used to have it once or twice a month. Everytime I try to be romantic, she pushes me away and uses her book as a wedge. Granted she is writing about the war in Iraq, and that thought in itself is unarousing, but the constant rejection is beginning to eat a hole in my heart.

I know that sex isn't everything. I just want to close this distance without forcing her and get back to the couple we used to be.

2007-02-02 14:11:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 14:11:42 · 6 answers · asked by ddog 1 in Weddings

my bf and I were supposed to go to the movies tonight and Ive been waiting for his call and he hasnt called me..... ive tried calling his cell but he didnt answer and i called his house and his dad told me that he went to play ball and that he would be back at 11 pm and he didnt call me to tell me anything..... so i want to go to this party tomorrow with my friends and he doesnt wanna go with me so i told him i wouldnt go and insetead i would spend time with him BUT since he lied to me i dont know if I should just go and do the same thing he did to me or just do what i said i would do???? please help me!?!?!

2007-02-02 14:11:37 · 1 answers · asked by MINNIE 1 in Singles & Dating