we were so close, like reli reli close.now its just not the same.i don't no what happened.he recently admitted to liking me recently, and now he doesn't even act like i exist.he was flirting with a girl just recently.i could tell he was falling for her, because i remember when we were together he acted just like that with me. i watched them so whole time, and i even started to cry, so i just ran out of the room.my freinds told me wat happened and apparently they still kept flirting non stop.we were so in love before, but now its not the same.i don't no what happeded!?!? what does this mean?it hurts to always see them together.alot of ppl say shes"the second me" b/c he has this thing for treating his crushes the same all the time.it reli hurts.how can i get over him??should i get over him?what do i do.plz give good advice...
2007-02-02 14:16:16 · 6 answers · asked by CurioslyPerfect 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me remind u WE WERE VERY VERY CLOSE.he tried asking me out, but it was sorta hard to understand what he was saying.and now all of a sudden he doesn't even pay attention to me. were such great friends,we always flirted.everyone could tell.everyone comes up to me and asks me what happened to us?and i always respond "i guess we just moved on" ppl ask me weren't u guys a couple or something, and it hurts to say "well were just friends"
2007-02-02 14:19:06 · update #1
Babes... you seem to be really hurt by all that.
I think you are wasting your time on this guy who seems to be somewhat imature.
It sounds like you are quite young by the way you are expressing yourself, would I be right?
If the case is so, time will teach you how to get over situations like that.
When you really like a guy sometimes you get so caught up in the situation that all you can think of is how wrong things are going, all your energy goes into that but the more you experience that sort of thing the more you realise that life is too short to be wasted on such things because you know what? There will come a day when you will meet a guy who deserves you and treat you so damn right that you won't even have space in your mind to wonder why situations like you have described even exist.
For now all I can say to you is try focusing in other things and all those worries will vanish in a few days, it's just a matter of your mind coming to terms with the fact that you are ready to move on ; )
2007-02-02 14:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Liz S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, lol... That happened to me too. But in my case, it was with a girl (I'm a boy...). It first happened to me when I admitted my feelings for my crush, and she admitted that she liked me too. But several weeks after we admitted our feelings for each other that's when SHE started ignoring me for i don't know what reason...? It really hurts, but then I realized that there are stil allot out there who's better than her. And later on I got over the feeling and now I look at her as if she's a friend no feelings attached. I think you should try to get over your feelings too, learn to let go. I mean, what if you guys really became a couple... Later on, he could start cheating on you if thats the case. My opinion though... ^^
2007-02-02 22:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by ☺ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang girlie i had the same exact prollem...Nd lemme tell you it isn't gonna be easy moving on but you gotta try...if he can't take time to at least talk to you or be considerate of how you feel about him Nd other girlz then he ain't woth ur time at all! take it from me i've been going through this for five months now Nd i'm juz barely getting over him...you juz gotta try to move on i know it hurtz hearing thiz but you gotta at least try...but what you should do firzt iz try Nd talk to hm Nd see what'z up with him acting like that Nd if he doesn't wanna talk then you gotta move on...i hope everything goez good for you!
2007-02-02 22:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by NaNaLiciou$_[[NABS]] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about it. it seems like u should go out with sum friends. have fun. forget about him. lifes still fun even if he;s not in it with u at that exact moment. there r soo many other guys out there, u shouldnt want sum guy that treats all her girls the same.
2007-02-02 22:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont hate me when i say thats exactly what happened. he has moved on and i take it he does that often. but dont torture yourself because he is a moron. what he is doing to you is rude, selfish and uncalled for. dont let him do this to you. forget him and move on with your life. jerks like him will only bring you down and hot girls like you will attract cuter guys and he will be the jealous one. that kind of revenge is priceless. but if he wants to hurt you like that then ignore him. you dont need crap like that.
2007-02-02 22:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the best thing to do is just plain out forget them. if that dosnt help just think payback is comming to him eventualy.
2007-02-02 22:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by ricky . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋