Ever sience i have been with my hubby my mother in law has cause trouble with anyone we have contact with. She has sucssed in getting my sil and i fighting and we havnt talked in over 6 months. Well now that I am friends with my sil sister and mom she is trying to start crap with them she is always telling me that this friend did or said something that she didnt do. Today we were at my friends moms house visiting and when we left we went and did a few things and it took us about an hour to get home. I get this call that 20 minutes after i left my m i l called and said i had called and told her everything that they were saying about her and that i was talking bad about them. I wasnt even home at the time I was supposed to have called and said this i was at the drug store and I dont have a cell Phone. what would all you do?
2007-02-02 14:22:05 · 9 answers · asked by mommy2myboys2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my friends believe me. I have tried to talk to my mil about it and she always has a lie about it or blames it on someone else
2007-02-02 14:28:56 · update #1
Hubby has confronted her , I have confronted her for the longest time we didnt talk. She has mental heath issuse that for sure.
2007-02-02 14:31:27 · update #2
time to get away from her and cut all ties. if you dont want to then dont tell her anything about where you were or where you are going
2007-02-02 15:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by B1958 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your mother in law, exactly what is troubling you. Obviously she has control issues. I highly DOUBT she realizes it though. Possibly a sub-conscious thing? Or maybe she's becomming senial. In addition to telling her. I would speak you your husband about it first and see how he thinks you should handle the problem you see.
There are a few sites and books that tell you proper and considerate ways to deal with confrontation. If none of this then read the "art of war" and let the games begin :)
2007-02-02 22:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman sure has a lot of power over you...how'd you let that happen? Hubby needs to handle this. He needs to talk to her and tell her to back off. If you have already discussed this with him and he hasn't done anything then it's your turn to confront her. Regain control of your life...
2007-02-02 22:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Groovy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok well u need to sit ur mother in law down and tell her what she is doing is wrong...let her know that it isnt right to talk about someone behide their back....
2007-02-02 22:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlilpea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends you are not going to waste your time defending yourself. To either believe she is nuts or you'll find other friends. Don't stoop. Just live and let live.
2007-02-02 22:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn it sounds like ur mothet in law needs to grow the f*ck up!
2007-02-02 22:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she ever wants to see her grandkids to knock off her crap.
2007-02-02 22:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore it. most of the time it isn't worth your time. and let your husband know that he should be standing up for you and let his mom to back off.
2007-02-02 22:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Luvbuz01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her committed to an asylum, quick.
2007-02-02 22:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋