Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

I am trying to be sweet for Valentines...what can I do?

2007-02-01 05:09:34 · 6 answers · asked by Sammy G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how can you get a women to feel like touching you. or do they do this for an emotional reason.

2007-02-01 05:08:31 · 19 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

My long-distance boyfriend of 2years told me 2 weeks ago how unhappy he is with our long-distance relationship. He's been complaining about it a lot these days. we both agreed that we will try our best to move closer to each other within the next 6 months. He has been having a hard time at work with his boss and because of that he has not been promoted as he had hoped to. He has been telling how upset he is that I cannot be there close enough to him and that he is tired of this and it's upsetting him. He said he has needs that I cannot satisfy since I am not close enough to him. So 2 days ago he told me that he wants be less involved with me and to take a distance. He wants to do this until our situation changes. He said that if I want to continue our relationship, I need to accept this. He says he still loves me and cares for me but he doesnt want to spend his time talking on the phone all the time. I was quite shocked. He said that he needs to take the distance to stand the situation

2007-02-01 05:08:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Generally, I believe that if the trust involved is genuine then the long distance should only facilitate missing each other more so that when both parties are close, every second spent together will be spent in such a way that it will be one to remember.

2007-02-01 05:08:09 · 11 answers · asked by agboola f 2 in Singles & Dating

you know, like if the club is crowded and everyone's on the dance floor and sometimes guys go behind girls and he grabs her hips and starts dancing with her. Do girls actually like that?
I know if a girl did that to me, I would go with it and like it, but guys like it when girls are spontaneous and sexual, but because that never happens to me, does it mean that girls don't like it?

2007-02-01 05:07:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jason 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister got pregnant 15 years ago after only being with this guy 1 time. She was only 17 and the guy was 27 I think so she was too scared to tell him. So for the past couple years my niece has been wanting to meet him. I found the phone number but not the address and I was wondering how you tell someone something like that...she wants my help but I cant figure out how to tell him..She knows to expect that things might not work out and he might not be too happy about it. Please give me some ideas on how to tell him...

2007-02-01 05:07:21 · 11 answers · asked by julie841223 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

O.k so my husband and I have been separated for over 2 years now and at first I had a really hard time dealing with his new girlfriend comeing around our two kids..Well know i don't have any problem with her because i realize it wasn't her falt for the problems we had..We only talk about the kids and nothing more...I i'm really nice to her and she is the same way with me..But problem is with my ex..Everytime he comes by himself to pick up the kids he has a big hickey on his neck..I don't find that to be very respectful towards our kids..I think he should be an example to our kids..I just think hickeys are gross..Anyways my question is should i tell me ex something about it or should i just ingnore it like i have been doing?? I just don't want him to think that i'm jelouse..What should i say to him??? And should i even say something ?Or should i tell his girlfriend something ? HELP!

Thank you for your time =-]

2007-02-01 05:06:24 · 12 answers · asked by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 in Singles & Dating

should she say yes or no ... hes really sweet .... thanks for helping ...

2007-02-01 05:06:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is one of those people that has low self-confidence, and she doesn't like to get her hopes up for fear of disappointment. She likes this guy, and I think the guy likes her back, but she doesn't want to accept my opinion because she doesn't want to be disappointed if it doesn't happen, but I'n pretty sure that he likes her. How do I raise her self-confidence and tell her that the guy likes her?

2007-02-01 05:05:45 · 8 answers · asked by smartchick876 2 in Friends

My grandparents are celebrating their 60th wedding anniversary soon and I am stuck on ideas. The family is getting together to get them something big, but I want to get them something extra. I am very artsy and would love to make something, or at least have a hand in personalizing it.

One idea I had thought of was a photo book (like you can get from shutterfly) with images and memories of the last 60 yrs. But my grandpa doesn't like to have all these "useless photos and photo albums" lying around so that's out. (how anyone could live without photos I have no idea!:) but hey). Does anyone have any other thoughts? I don't mind spending a bit but want it to be something special and unique. Help! Thanks!

2007-02-01 05:04:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-01 05:04:39 · 24 answers · asked by Joyce 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband started listening to Micheal Jackson! it's like i've died and gone to hell! Worst yet, i think he's starting to like boys like MJ too! What should i do? do u think he'll notice if i break all those cds? and do u think he'll stop licking his lips every time a cute boy walks by if i do???

2007-02-01 05:04:34 · 7 answers · asked by kimmycat 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Once my girfriend and I ran out of personal lubricant so I tried to use.... motor oil that I had in the tool shed... Castrol GTX for high mileage vehicles. Everything was just amazing that night and from then on I kept using it for a month or so until she found out what it was! Now she is really upset... She did not get sick or anything and plus she is kind of "high mileage" too, so what is the big deal?

2007-02-01 05:04:21 · 14 answers · asked by Rona9 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 05:03:47 · 12 answers · asked by M.belly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 05:03:12 · 18 answers · asked by WOODROBIN 3 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance' is a musician (rock) & we would like an appropriate song for our first dance (think rock band with a love song). We really like Bruce Springsteen as well as the Police. Any suggestions in this realm of music?

2007-02-01 05:02:12 · 13 answers · asked by Kirsten S 2 in Weddings

My husband is an alcoholic, he's goes to treatment, but doesn't commit. He only does it because I ask him to. He doesn't understand what the problem is - he just goes out with his buddies and drinks a bit (read 20+ beers, at least twice per week).

It makes me so upset and I don't know how to react. If I'm angry with him, it just makes it worse. I can't just accept it. What do I do??

2007-02-01 05:02:06 · 17 answers · asked by happilyunraveled 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-01 05:01:42 · 13 answers · asked by Ramzia r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where is a good place to bring a girl for our first date, Where in college.

2007-02-01 05:01:34 · 12 answers · asked by pap 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i get him to realize im intersted without being, desperate. he already knows i like him and he likes me more, but he's so hesitant and im getting impatient.

2007-02-01 05:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by ms_constance 1 in Singles & Dating

why do people you know for years change everything about themselves just to try and make someone else happy why do they lie to this person about everything are people really that insecure

2007-02-01 04:59:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went on a date with this guy steve. and he was telling me that me and him are a like in every way. and i said ok that must be good then. and he said no when to people like you and me get together we make posion what does that mean?

2007-02-01 04:57:57 · 4 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

What was your 21st like????

2007-02-01 04:57:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I felt that ever since i gave birth to my daughter. My husband dont treat me the same way. We hardly talk and we hardly have any "action". I ma so tired from taking care of my 1 yeard old! He never helps out arounf the house! He never helps with our daughter too! And i feel fat and un sexy!PLEASE HELP EVERYONE!

2007-02-01 04:57:46 · 9 answers · asked by carterjuliet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two years in january and we have been through alot in our relationship. We both have been cheated on in the past but we are past that point in our lives. He is three years older than me and we were talking about getting married once i turn 18. Do you think it is a wise decision to get married at such a young age. We both are in love with each other. HELP

2007-02-01 04:57:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 04:57:04 · 3 answers · asked by Cutiegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 04:56:07 · 7 answers · asked by kim m 1 in Singles & Dating

My bestie is going out with this boy and he's nice an everything. She didn't even know him but her other best friend just went up to him and said will you go out with my friend? and he said yeah. Now they get along really well.

But tday she was telling me she thinks she likes another boy more, but I know that this boy doesn't like her. She is saying she might dump her boyf so she can ask this other boy out.
I can't tell her that the boy doesn't like her, she'll just say 'what do you know?' and go off in a huff with me.

She's almost 13 and has been going out with her boyf for about a month and a half and they get on really well.

I know some people will say that 13 is too young to have boyf's, but if that's all you're going to say there's no point even answering. I don't mean to be rude but I just want to let people know what kind of answer I'm looking for.

Thanks xxx

2007-02-01 04:55:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was engaged about a year ago and have been broken up for about the same time. Though we lost contact for about past 2 months. We were together for about 4 years and he cheated on me during the second to last year of our relationship. After all was acclaimed for and all was forgiven; my fiancé’s mistress would not leave us alone. Every time she would come to pay us a visit I would get these dreams and sometimes even hallucinations. I would dream of some kind of snake attacking me or just dwelling beside me.
Some time before the departure of my relationship a lot of things were going on between my ex-fiancé and I. Back then I had 2 best friends one was a boy and the other was a girl. I was acquainted with the girl much longer then the boy. The boy and I were really close and would often have a day of fun with my fiancé. He was almost like a brother. Whenever my ex fiancé would disappoint me my friend would be there to give me a helping hand. Now after some time my friend and I had a connection which should have never succeeded into a reality. Though it did and after the terrible incident we never spoke to each other again. Now my other best friend became aware of what had happened and gave solemn promise to never discuss this with anyone. Though it wasn’t discussed I was utterly miserable for months and did not know anything other then to cry. Now here the turning point, one day I was sitting on the sofa with my feet extended out towards my best friend’s feet. Then I saw a snake at the corner of my eye, the snake was the color of my friend skin tone, directly hissing in my ear. I immediately screamed with much fear( I thought it was a real snake). We immediately got up and ran and after a while inspected the area. Now till this day we have never found a snake in the house or even a snake skin. Though later on that evening my friend and I had a dispute and she spoke with my fiancé. She told him about the whole thing that had happened with my friend. Now ever since then we have not been able to amend what happened. The snake I saw was a real omen of what was to come into my life. I have never in the entirety of my life have experienced a more devastating year. Just about 4 months ago I had a dream about a snake attacking me. I ended up killing it. My other friend had given me a tiger eye necklace just before I had the dream and said to wear it so that it would protect me. She was pregnant at the time. The dream I had started off with her walking next to me. Then she had left and a snake came to attack me and I killed it. I have never been able to kill any of these snakes and the connections have only been linked with my ex. Not to mention, I never considered the girl a good friend. After that dream I had another one in the same night. In this one I had seen a baby and the baby was situated in a dark area. I had a sense that I had saved the child by killing the snake.. Afterward I discussed this with my friend and she had no clue what to make of it. My friend ended up aborting the child. No here is what I wonder was killing the snake a sign that my ex will come back or was it a connection with my friend. Oh and my ex is with the mistress now. He went with her knowing that it would be the only way to hurt me. I know in the heart of heart that he still loves me, he is just up set. Please give me some kind of understanding on this whole story.
Thank you

2007-02-01 04:55:06 · 8 answers · asked by gutten abend 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-01 04:54:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce