Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two years in january and we have been through alot in our relationship. We both have been cheated on in the past but we are past that point in our lives. He is three years older than me and we were talking about getting married once i turn 18. Do you think it is a wise decision to get married at such a young age. We both are in love with each other. HELP
2007-02-01 04:57:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yess. if you really sure you love him
you should never let him go. what
you wrote to me was rude. and how
im foolish.
2007-02-01 07:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by dibby :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not that great of an idea i am sure your in love but speaking from personal exp i should have waited and wish i would have at your age i don't care how mature you are ther's still alot to learn and experience . i got married at 19 and divorced at 31 but was unhappy for years my step son recently got married at 20 to a girl who is 21 and this is already her second marriage they haven't been married for 6 months and it's going to hell in a hand bag... if your both truely in love there is no reason to rush into marriage just go along as you are and if your still together in 3 to 5 years than get married you should at least try to live together first and learn all about each other marriage isn't a magic answer or total bliss it is if your mature enough to understand that even with lots of love there is also give and take so give it some time and you'll know when the time is right
2007-02-01 13:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by auntie s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, NO, NO. Wait till your like 25 or so. So much can happen in just a few years. You are just getting out of school, you haven't really explored the world yet. You have to find out how you or your partner will react to certain situations. How many people do you honestly know that have had successful marriages that young. I'm talking about people that are not your parents age but closer to your age and have been married for over 10 years. Not a wise choice, there should not be any rush to marriage.
2007-02-01 13:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally got married at the age of 17 and I haven't regretted it but that is a personal decision that you probably won't find the answer to on Yahoo!. Everyone has to make their own decisions, but if you feel like it's the right one for you then go ahead.
2007-02-03 17:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Natalie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say no i have had a couple friends get married when they were younger and now they are divorced they give the same reasons --- they felt like they missed out on a lot in there life....be young have fun now a days people are living longer why not just live life and wait for everything else till later
2007-02-01 13:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooooo, don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Do yourself a BIG favor and live together for at least two years and if you're still happy at that point, then go ahead and get married. LIVE together first that way you know how each other lives and you'll see if you can take it or not.
2007-02-01 13:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not the issue RESPONSIBILITY is. Except for religious farm girls I don't see many people in today's world responsible enough to be married or banging at 18.
2007-02-01 13:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES i would. if the time were right and i felt right about it. then i would. especially since i am over the moon in love with my boyfriend, who is 4 yrs older than me, and i am 17 as well!!!
2007-02-01 13:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is a great idea!...if it is love!!!...i hope you guys live happily ever after..lol...
2007-02-01 13:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by in_L-O-V-E_w/daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋