I felt that ever since i gave birth to my daughter. My husband dont treat me the same way. We hardly talk and we hardly have any "action". I ma so tired from taking care of my 1 yeard old! He never helps out arounf the house! He never helps with our daughter too! And i feel fat and un sexy!PLEASE HELP EVERYONE!
2007-02-01 04:57:46 · 9 answers · asked by carterjuliet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. don't let him make you feel that way, what he might not like other guys would
2. after you have a child with a man they don't feel obligated to do anything for you anymore
3. start to dress sexier and go out for walks with your little girl that will give you some exercise plus fresh air
4. the most important tell him how you feel and how is affecting you ****
2007-02-01 05:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you would appreciate it if he starts talking to you more. He should remind you all the time that your sexy him letting you think that way about yourself is wrong. Alot of men think we are just too insecure blah blah but what they don't know is women who are mothers and married they don't get to do it that often and it will cause insecurity about themselves. Because lack of sex makes a woman wonder if she is good enough. It's only normal to wonder. If you 2 need some time alone get a babysitter lined up and go on a vacation together.
2007-02-01 13:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Momof1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start walking or jogging you can do both of those with baby in a stroller. Or if possible join a gym. He works do you? If you don't then the house and stuff is yours to keep up. If you work too then give him a list of things to do. If he doesn't do them , then only wash your and baby clothes and only fix you and baby something to eat and when he starts asking why tell him you have enough to do so he can do for his self. I think he has some other problem though.
2007-02-01 13:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him and ask him why and communicate to him how you are feeling... Spend time with him doing things that he likes to do... Hire a baby sitter and take him out on a nice romantic date with just you and him! Why is he not helping you with the baby??? Maybe he needs parenting classes and also seek counseling and help for you and for the marriage. Ask your husband why he is acting and treating you differently.
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2007-02-01 13:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sides here, but remember when your body was attractive?
remember whe he was affectonate?. Well, if your grown into an unpleasent un attractive person, Who would desire to make love to you?. Sinse the woman looks at the pretty boy, and the guy looks at the queen. those thoughts are still present in our heads.
Time to do some thing about it, or you can sit, complain, and get fatter
2007-02-01 13:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by duster 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get Doctor Laura's 2 books "the Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marraige"
2007-02-01 13:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by RinaRie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The only person that can make you feel better about yourself is YOU. As for your husband have you tried talking to him about your concerns.
2007-02-01 13:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
vacation where it is only the two of you, then he has to talk
2007-02-01 13:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him how you feel...
2007-02-01 13:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋