My bestie is going out with this boy and he's nice an everything. She didn't even know him but her other best friend just went up to him and said will you go out with my friend? and he said yeah. Now they get along really well.
But tday she was telling me she thinks she likes another boy more, but I know that this boy doesn't like her. She is saying she might dump her boyf so she can ask this other boy out.
I can't tell her that the boy doesn't like her, she'll just say 'what do you know?' and go off in a huff with me.
She's almost 13 and has been going out with her boyf for about a month and a half and they get on really well.
I know some people will say that 13 is too young to have boyf's, but if that's all you're going to say there's no point even answering. I don't mean to be rude but I just want to let people know what kind of answer I'm looking for.
Thanks xxx
2007-02-01 04:55:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
let her make her own choices....even though her current boyfriend is great, obviously she doesn't like him that much or else she wouldn't be liking another guy.
if she breaks up with her boyfriend and then asks this other guy out and he says 'no' at least she will know and won't live wondering 'what if?' and she will be single again and much better off...you are young keep your options open
2007-02-01 05:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by skittle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could let her learn the ways of the world, and break up with this guy, then ask the other guy out, and be disappointed.
If she likes the other guy more, she probably doesnt like this guy enough, so does she deserve the guy she is with now.
I might just say, "be sure this other guy is into you before you break up with the guy you are dating now." Kinda warn her but not so she will go off in a huff.
2007-02-01 05:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by stellabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you are 13 this is the time you learn about relationships so let her do what she wants and find out for her self.
Remember - you are a friend - not her keeper.
So don't try and control her - try looking around for a boy for yourself and do a bit of experimenting!
2007-02-01 05:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To continue being a best friend, butt out. Her dating one boy or the other is none of your business and she will not appreciate your getting involved.
2007-02-01 05:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her that the other boy doesn't like her. How about asking why she thinks he likes her ? Maybe she'll work it out for herself.
2007-02-01 05:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i would tell her that the other guy is not really her type and keep telling her how much her b/f loves her and remind her how well they get along ... tell her that you wish you had a man like hers and that if you did you would hold onto him and never let go ... that should help her wanna keep him ...
2007-02-01 05:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahno im 13
and everyone is alwayz saying 13 is too young
im lke on its not
not in these days its not
i fink u shood tell ur friend before its too late!!
2007-02-01 06:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by NoYouHangUp.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its her choice. If she wants to ask another boy out, so be it. I hope she realises he will want sex. Is she ready for this.
2007-02-01 05:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your her best friend u'll have to tel her wat you think . You dont want her end up getting hurt do ya???? just be honest and tel her wat ya tink . tel her in a very polite way . tel her tat wat ya mite say may affect yo relationship but ya cant stand her gettin hurt . If she if your best friend shell understand . If she dosn i don tink thers a point in callin her yo best friend . well thats my opinion hope ya end up takin the right decision . plz do tel me wat ya did n da consequences
2007-02-01 05:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by S O A D FREAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHES TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING BOYFRIENDS
2007-02-01 05:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋