2007-02-01 04:54:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be a number of reasons as to why he cheats. He may not respect himself enough to be honorable, he may suffer from self esteem issues and only feels desirable when he has multiple partners or maybe he did not have a good male role model growing up so he does not know what it means to be a man. The only way to know for sure is to ask him, but chances are he has been honest with himself long enough to know why.
2007-02-01 05:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by wonderingwifenga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all say that. The one who cheats. His laying. He don't have the balls to tell you the way he likes it because he scared of him self. Most cheaters will tell the person there having affair with or do things in bed different because he has no real feelings for the person who is cheating with, to be judge. In if that person did say something, it's not going to mean anything. He can walk away from that person much easier then he can his spouse.Don't believe that. What does a cheater mean to you. I know what they are. There lie-rs. Never believe a cheater.There two things in the world that you don't ever want to become is a lire or a thief.You can't trust anyone of them. So if this person saying that to you, he laying. Now don't go in think your a bad lover. You might be good/best to the next person. You might just be a great lover, but this cheater needs more. In don't go blaming yourself because there mess up. You can't help or change what a cheater does. There going to do it regardless. They can have the most pretties girl in they will still cheat. Look at Holly Berry the actress, she real pretty. Her husband cheated on her alot of times. You cannot control the cheater, they have issues.
2007-02-01 13:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are pigs that's why. One piece of booty isn't enough for them. Men will hump anything from ugly and fat to pretty and skinny it doesn't matter to them. Anything that will give booty they will hump so I say just move on. I have often found myself asking myself why don't all us women just become lesbian? Women know what women want and think differently about sex. Wouldn't that just be funny if all women became lesbian? I guess of course God wouldn't let that happen or this pathetic human race would die out. Anyway muster up what self esteem you have left and leave and stop wasting time on this guy.
2007-02-01 13:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex and commitment are decidedly NOT the same thing.
Just because you are good in bed, it does not mean your sexual partner wants to have a monogamous relationship with you.
Find someone who thinks of you not only as a good lover, but also as a great person to settle down with.
2007-02-01 12:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat for one if not all of the following reasons regardless of if they say they are happy w you or not
Not sexually satisfied
Not physically satisfied
Not mentally satisfied
Figure out which one is the problem and fix it or get rid of him. He's cheating even if you stay with him in the back of your mind you'll always wonder and not trust him.
By the way I LOVE how people ask questions like this and when they dont get "the problem isnt you its him" they give them thumbs down. Fact is problem IS with BOTH of you NO ONE and I repeat NO ONE that is 100% happy and satisfied cheats!
2007-02-01 12:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any person that says your the best they ever had then goes and cheats on you they are lying when they say ''your the best'' Men like to tell us what we want to hear. If this guy is cheating on you he never cared for you. If he did he would have kept his pants on and not messed around on you.
2007-02-01 13:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not with you. It is with him. Anyone who cheats is dealing with their own issues of fear, insecurity, and inadequacy. While his actions have consequences for you, his actions are his responsibility. You need to decide if this is the way you want to live. If it is, fine. If not, move on. You deserve better.
2007-02-01 12:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by Brent 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's a Dog!!! All joking aside....Men! have heard that even when a man has a awesome woman, they still have a incredible appetite for more variety..more women.....It's bizzard but it's reality...You either take it or leave it..
2007-02-01 13:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason you don't put the time and effort into your question to make it clear and add a description of your situation.
2007-02-01 12:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Relax Guy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gotta go with most men are dogs. Yes, it's that simple.
2007-02-02 18:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋