Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

Well first of all let me explain something.

Every weekend my old best friend from highschool would invite me over to spend the night because she's bored and wants to spend time with me. She lives with her boyfriend and she doesn't drive. Anyway this afternoon she called again and asked me to spend the night because she'll be lonely without her boyfriend around because he has to take his aunt home(that's two hours away and he won't take his girlfriend along).

Well my mom said to watch out because I'm getting involved in a relationship I'm not supposed to because I got college to worry about and blah blah. Is she right? What do you think?

I stay on top of my studies and we're both 22 and 24 and mature.

2007-01-28 08:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by forbidden_love500 1 in Friends

So....it's a year to the day that I broke up with my ex-fiance.
I NEVER believed I would stop hurting, so I'm both happy and relieved to be typing this right now.

I just want people to know that you CAN break free from a loveless relationship because your broken heart WILL heal in time. I am proud of the fact that I haven't slept with him or been back to him since I broke it off, despite his constant calls and texts.

When you fall out of love with someone, or you know it will never work between you, you MUST sever all ties. The "friends" thing just doesn't work. I still miss him sometimes, but I definitely did the right thing for both of us, though it hurt like hell. It took so much courage to make the break after so long, but you should never stay with someone if your heart's not in it.

I got involved with another guy a few months ago and ended up being his "rebound girl" which wasn't nice, but you live and learn.

I'm looking forward to a new chapter in my life!!

2007-01-28 08:48:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it involves 2 boys.One likes me and the other one i really really really like.Can someone help me please,

2007-01-28 08:47:52 · 11 answers · asked by LilMissPriss 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 08:47:19 · 7 answers · asked by jumperman20042000 1 in Singles & Dating

and does money makes a person cool or his moral character?

2007-01-28 08:46:40 · 4 answers · asked by jimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

For the girl to be on top?

2007-01-28 08:45:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad had an affair eight years ago with my auntie. My parents are still together now. My dad doesn't know that I know...

What the hell do I do?

2007-01-28 08:45:07 · 40 answers · asked by Pixy Fish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When He means the world to you and you mean nothing to Him, what does it take to get over Him?


We dated back in 05, now we are friends with benefits BUT I can't get over him. I see him and my heart breaks. I try to hide the fact that I want him but it's getting harder and harder. I tell him I want him and he says he can't trust me.

When He means the world to you and you mean nothing to Him, what does it take to get over Him?

2007-01-28 08:43:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a girl from Romania and i met this guy on the internet. He's from L A. We really connect with each other , actualy I've never met someone, in real life, that i could get along so well with but...I don't even know what I'm asking here because I know that nothing can happen betwen us...But what would someone, who still believes, say about this?

2007-01-28 08:42:24 · 4 answers · asked by lily romania 1 in Friends

if you were married to someone when you were, say, 25, and then your spouse dies when you were both 35, and then you die when you were 96. if you were to be together in heaven again, would you meet as 35 and 96 year olds? or do you stay at the age you most like when you are in heaven???

2007-01-28 08:42:23 · 15 answers · asked by Chaneal-Ushinee` bxtcheszzz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend were going out 4 about 3 month's, and then someone told me that he cheated on me with my friend.Now I love someone else and I just cant trust my old boyfriend any more, after what he did.What do I do?

2007-01-28 08:42:14 · 5 answers · asked by 2jackweedm 1 in Singles & Dating

So I am with this guy that I love, I am pregnant, he is the father. He doesn't want kids. He lied and said that he did when I got pregnant. Now all he does is lay around the house all day and acts like he is sick. I am scared to death of being a single mom. He ignores me too, last night I put on some lingere and tried giving him a nice evening, he acted like he was sick until I went out to the couch, then he was better (imagine that) I want him to be the man he was when I first met him, and I am not getting an abortion. This is a miracle child (I wasn't supposed to be able to get prego) and I am keeping it. He said he was going to propose to me the other day and then he figured out I was keeping the kid. I think he is afraid to leave because he knows he will have to pay child support. He doesn't want a kid because he wants to travel and do other thigns first...what do I do?! Please help! (he said he wanted a baby so we planned this) WHAT can I say to him that would make him think??

2007-01-28 08:41:29 · 34 answers · asked by J B 2 in Singles & Dating

ok their is this girl i realy like in school and i have her myspace. she does not know me and i don't have the guts to start talking with her yet in school. so how should i start talking to her on myspace to see what she thinks about me

2007-01-28 08:40:56 · 14 answers · asked by iih 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 08:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-28 08:39:42 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 08:39:29 · 5 answers · asked by nanuk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a concert on March 17th and I really want to go with my bro and sis. I'll be 18 by then but my parents don't want me to go. They won't stop us but I'm just confused. They say we could get hurt. Any advice? Thanks in advance.

2007-01-28 08:36:56 · 6 answers · asked by Luna 2 in Family

There is a guy I like alot. But he doesnt know I exist. Its very sad..... Well...he knows I exist but we have never spoke. I am trying really hard 2 impress him but I am not very good at finding flirting tips. So I came here. Any advice or tips? The person with the longest list of flirting tips and advice. Gets 10 points. And I am a teen.......remember that

2007-01-28 08:36:51 · 7 answers · asked by *Natalie.* :P 5 in Singles & Dating

I apparently can only handle half of one. Which means I've usually got twice as many as I can handle.

2007-01-28 08:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by Count Acumen 5 in Singles & Dating

When my husband wakes up in a bad mood on the weekend he spends the whole day taking little digs at me. Then when I get upset and say something he says stop being so sensitive or the B word. He says that all he is trying to do is have a little fun and that I ruin everything. I personally do not think little digs at my expense are fun. It hurts my feelings and I tell him that. He still turns it around that I am just trying to start a fight. He always insults me like that in front of the kids. Using little innuendo’s that he says that they don’t understand or aren’t picking up on. I have a 9 and 4 year old. I am pretty sure that they do. How can I convince him that this is wrong?

2007-01-28 08:35:29 · 19 answers · asked by momof2 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friends parents made her brake up wit her boyfriend and she still likes him A LOT but he keeps flirting with me wat do i do i dont flirt back

2007-01-28 08:34:57 · 2 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Singles & Dating

do to the extreme to make your marriage work? It seems that a lot of ladies out there seem to have many questions about how to make their marriage work. How to get their guy to clean the bathroom, and how to please them in bed? Soooo 1,2,3. How do you get your marriage to work, if you don't clean the bathroom what do you do, and, how do you want to be pleased in bed?

If anyone needs to know, My marriage works, I clean the bathroom and I have never said no, but I have said lets take a 24 hour raincheck.

2007-01-28 08:34:56 · 6 answers · asked by coffeegod 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with my boyfriend since four years, and we get along well in almost everything except sex. I know he immensely cares about me and treats me kindly. We spend good times, socializing and doing many other things together, yet he avoids sex, with no health reasons. He refuses to talk about it though I tried many times to bring about this subject, then I gave up trying. I am confused because our sexual relation was wonderful in the first year, then it started to deteriorate, from his side only, and the last year it was almost non existent.
Lately I was physically attracted to another man, with whom I only, secretely, share sex , every now and then. I know this other relation is a passing one, and its only fulfill a physical need.
but I need

2007-01-28 08:33:49 · 56 answers · asked by Joe J 2 in Singles & Dating

In the Bradford area

Fancy a good seeing to.

2007-01-28 08:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when it comes to your friends?

whats your opinion on this?

2007-01-28 08:32:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been in a sexual relationship with someone during the last 5 months. yes we are 16 years apart from each other, but thats okEverything was great, we had lots of fun and no one was getting hurt (i knew that we would never actually become "something" so i kept myself from having feelings for him) Don't get me wrong, i do care for him, and miss him but im now in a mess!At the beginning of the year i learned that he had been seeing someone since July & they were actually serious and together , she is only 1 yr older than me!He said that he never told me in the beginning because he didnt know what was going on between us, but he made the ground rules so i know thats bullshit!She doesn't know about it, & i don't think I will tell her(i know her but not close to her at all) but he still wants to have sex with me & i don't mind it, but should i just leave him alone, or should we continue?I have had the most fun in my life with this man and don't want the fun to stop! what should i do??

2007-01-28 08:32:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

honest answers only please!

Two people work together dont know each other previous to this, only difference is one is a manager and one is an employee, work in a department. Both females, straight, in fact the manager has a husband and kids.
They became close friends, they started meeting up and going for lunch, going out for drinks etc... Talking late to each other on the phone etc...about nothing much just catching up with whats going on in each other lives. When someone asked what they were talking about they both would say nothing really. Both Families dont understand what and why they meet up.People at work started rumours no-one would be brave enough to ask them why they go for lunch etc.
Oh yeah by the way the employee is 18 and the boss is 18 years older.
What i would like to know is what is your opinion on this?
Do you think they are being mis-judged or not.

Thanks Giraffe x

2007-01-28 08:30:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Bestfried has a "momma's boy" for a husband. She says that she does not feel important anymore and he is always comparing her to his sister, telling my bestfriend that she is jealous of his sister. Now i'm not sure what to tell her. He thinks his sister is so "beautiful" but she's more so flaunts herself around trying to act as though she's all that even though this chick is married.

What shuold she do... how can this be solved. Plus he tells his mom everything and she thinks he may even be keeping secrets that he won't tell her that the family talks about ..


now here's the another part...after all the advice i made her read she did talk to him, because i posted this a while ago today... and he wants to let it go, she says that he doesn't talk about it and it passes by until it happens again...what then?

2007-01-28 08:30:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all I have a serious family issue running in my family. I was brought up in the united states as well as my brother and sisters. However, ever since my brother has brought my cousin over from her country in Asia(I won't be too specific as to where) he has fallen in love with her and she feels the same way about him. I totally disagree with them and do not want them together even though I know they love each other. I believe that my brother deserves someone alot better than her and is financially stable likewise. And she is not anywhere close to that as of right now or possibly anytime in the future. My question is this how do I cope with their relationship? They plan to get married one day and settle down. I don't know how to live my life knowing that he is marrying his first cousin. I think it is embarassing not only to me but for other people to know about their marriage. I think my brother can find someone alot better than her. What should I do?

2007-01-28 08:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by Soktheary P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this has happened to my mom

2007-01-28 08:29:15 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family