do to the extreme to make your marriage work? It seems that a lot of ladies out there seem to have many questions about how to make their marriage work. How to get their guy to clean the bathroom, and how to please them in bed? Soooo 1,2,3. How do you get your marriage to work, if you don't clean the bathroom what do you do, and, how do you want to be pleased in bed?
If anyone needs to know, My marriage works, I clean the bathroom and I have never said no, but I have said lets take a 24 hour raincheck.
2007-01-28 08:34:56 · 6 answers · asked by coffeegod 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Anyone else care to comment?
2007-01-29 14:01:22 · update #1
You know...Marriage isn't just cleaning the bathroom, nor is it JUST being good in bed. Marriage is two people dedicating themselves to the happiness of each other. You chip in with the house work because regardless of the male macho s... head upbringing some guys had the bottom line is it isn't just her job to clean the house. You read, and learn, and experiment in bed and find out what pleases each other to nurture each other in this intimate physical sense. Making a marriage work isn't just doing one thing in the extreme. It's 24/7/365 making sure each other has the physical, emotional nurturing they need to be happy.
2007-01-28 11:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about this.....................lets say that you have one of them 5 gallon water bottles...and when you meet your significant other both of you start by putting pennies in this bottle...these pennies represent the feelings you have for eachother...as you stay together these pennies add up...as more and more pennies are put in this bottle you grow together...then you find that one day you love eachother...the pennies keep growing..........now somewheres down the road you will have to dip into that bottle and take some of them pennies...this shows that you are in need of a little more love than you normally do...at times in our lives we need this...but at the same time you never forget to put back into the bottle.....................heres what happens when you forget............................your spouse will put more and more in there...and you will take more and more out...and beings they are the only one putting back the bottle will empty slowly...till there is nothing left...you may still love this person...but the love this person had for you may be gone or dwindling rather quickly...if you put back into a relationship more that you get back , then there will be plenty there for the future...if not , well you will be one of the statistics they talk about not making it...cleaning the bathroom is trivial...but nessary...helping out around the house is a sign thea you care that YOU LOVE YOUR SIGNIFIGANT OTHER enough to want to share in that part of there life...it may be some other thing they want...but the important thing is---BE THERE WHEN THEY NEED YOU.....................and about the penny bottle...........never take more that you give......if your in love you should know what that means.........good luck...and i wish you all the blessings in the world......................
2007-01-28 17:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men should chip in and do their chores, its not just a womans job, its both their jobs. Yea its easier to leave your clothes on the floor or clean the bathroom, but its something everyone should do and not expect anything in return. Personally, I am guilty of this sometimes, but it takes no effort, and its better when the woman comes home and smiles and see's things are done, and this way she is not upset and does not close herself to you, this way she is happy and will be more receptive to you and to wahtever you have in mind. Gotta keep them happy,,,,,!!!!
2007-01-28 16:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
co-operation, understanding, and communication is a good start. find out what you mates objections are and take steps to correct them, it not rocket science, it just common sense.
2007-01-28 17:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bruce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most important way is good listening
2007-01-28 17:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Elvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
props to you!! lol lets see how many guys actually answer lol
2007-01-28 16:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋