Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I have no idea what he does to me and I don't wake up while he is doing it and I know he has done things to me that I would not let him do if I was awake! I don't want to sleep in the same bed as him anymore, I feel like he has crossed the line. He began this 9 months ago, I've ask him to stop. Now I'm mad and I don't know what to do about it or who to talk to about it. He dosen't think he is doing anything wrong.

2007-01-23 01:06:55 · 41 answers · asked by tammi n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 01:06:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i call him he always says he has to do something he will call me back in 15 min. then he wont an i have to call him. sometimes he wont call me back because he falls asleep. but when im with him hes all nice to me. whenever he ask me whats wrong with me and i tell him its because of the way he acts he gets mad about what i say..is he not interested in me anymore?

2007-01-23 01:05:06 · 17 answers · asked by KDUB100 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother is worried about me...cuz I don't have someone special in my life....and keeps telling me that I should run after someone that my friend proposed. But how can I be more active and go after him...when I don't know him at all...I have my own pride....and I don't want to go after someone even if I like him. But my mum says that I should take control of my life.... not life to control me....

Is she right or I'm a right?

2007-01-23 01:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was with a guy who wouldnt settle for the title but we did everything as a bf and gf k inda we were together but not i was "off limits but not taken" quote on quote of him. we had some serious fire and when things were good with us they were great. when they were bad they were miserable.
So one night when things were bad I went out with some girls and met this guy that was seriously instantaneous attractiion and every night we have sat and had tea and talk for hours i can see a huge future with this man possibly THE man.
and the old guy comes around this morning saying how much he loves me and that he will settle for commitment as long as I come back....?

go back to an old flame
or hurt the old flame and stay with the new?

2007-01-23 01:04:34 · 16 answers · asked by canthearu12 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so today we live in a world of equal rights yeah? I disagree. I think the pendulum has swung the other way and now women have more than men.
For example, alot of women are offended if they're expected to pay for half of a meal at a restaurant.
Have you ever seen a girl hit a guy on the street? I have loads of times, and yet she isn't hopped on by every other girl in visible range for doing it, as would happen if a guy hit a girl. (Of course I deplore violence of ANY kind).

What do you think? Anything to add?

2007-01-23 01:03:23 · 16 answers · asked by T M 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 and I'm currently living with my mom along with my 2 brothers and sister.If it was up to my mom she would want us to live with her FOREVER. Well the thing is I have been thinking of getting my own place and I have been thinking about this for a while now. I have been looking through the internet I got an apartment guide booklet. I found these apartments that I was really interested in so Saturday I went to go check them out. Well I absolutly fell IN LOVE with the apartments and ended up putting down the deposit so the apartment will be ready for me on the 1st of next month. The problem is I haven't told my mom I knew I was gonna be nervous to tell her but I didn't think I would be this SCARED!! It's already Tuesday and still haven't gotten the guts to tell her. My mom isn't the easiest person to talk to. So I don't know how to approach her with this. How should I tell her?

2007-01-23 01:02:22 · 8 answers · asked by mari 2 in Family

He away on a Navy boat nd email me because he bored, I am single and a little lonely...we aren't hurting no body...what do you think

2007-01-23 01:01:47 · 34 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in a bad situation please help i am 36 and disabled i live with me mom and she calles me name almost every day here r the name she calls me " slut, whore, skank, pig, lazy, retard".......her favs are lazy and whore she control's my money or i would leave i asked her for it to leave she said NO......HELP WHAT DO I DO......to comment on my disability i am just a slow learner i got all my parts and they work i am just slow

2007-01-23 01:01:38 · 11 answers · asked by trina 2 in Family

When I was in high school,the boys in my class said that they could tell if a girl was virgin or not by the way she walked,and I was wondering how could they do that?Some even knew when girls got their peroid!!

2007-01-23 00:58:53 · 28 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

I been trying to get with this guy for quite some time now, but for some reason he goes thru these frequent mood swings. One second he is just a gift from god and so easy to talk to and such a conversationlist and it would last a few days to maybe even a week to a point where he actually makes you feel comfort and warmth and wanted and ready to move to the next level- then BOOM evil, stubborn,defensive, distant and all sorts of foul behavior kicks in and I freak out to a point where I just keep away in the hopes that he tones down ....and sometimes that can take weeks to months. the longest we stood apart from speaking was an entire summer. Now just a few weeks ago we speak now and we been speakin on a regular and just great with it and now BOOM he is his evil again....and mind you this has been going on for over a year.
what is this...is this some kind of bi-polar thing or craziness or what...I swear this brother has me so lost it makes me want to never go out with other men.

2007-01-23 00:58:51 · 11 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

she does everything I ever wanted to do and then more

2007-01-23 00:58:16 · 20 answers · asked by pipe 1 in Singles & Dating

i have learned with this woman to tell only what i want repeated. however, she is so bad she cant stop herself even when asked. example she heard something about my daughter and i came out 5 seconds later @ she was on the phone whispering it. son use to however is changing the learned behavior. i know this is a problem as she had me read her a note one day @ it was the wrong note. it was her sister telling her to keep her gossiping mouth closed and to mind her own affairs. this was a letter 40yrs ago. she trys to stand at the door to hear what we say and do. lovemaking as well. how do you agree with this idea? put lock on bedroom door @ turn up tv or radio just enough so she cannot hear? also she takes my things out of the room @ blames the dog. mind that. dogs cant lift boxes around ect. i went to give her, her cloth one day and found a garbage bag of mine in her room. she is much bigger. could she be a kleppdoe? or spite as she feels im taking her son?son wont say a word. i have.help

2007-01-23 00:57:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-23 00:57:23 · 7 answers · asked by Twizler 1 in Singles & Dating

What can I do to get her back?

2007-01-23 00:56:34 · 11 answers · asked by Twizler 1 in Singles & Dating

I need hlep my boyfriend is getting me something but i dont know what to get himm!!

helpp!!

2007-01-23 00:54:50 · 11 answers · asked by gymdogs101 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently found my old high school gf we have not seen or kept in touch in the last 30 years. I am married she is divorced, at first I thought I had some strong feelings for her, but I do not. I just want to be her friend. She told me she was dating a guy, but that they are not close and she is having financial trouble. he has not offered to help. she did not ask me to, but I sent her a little money to help out. now she hasn't spoken to me since?????

2007-01-23 00:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by Mike S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you have a sex dream about someone you NEVER looked at that way, is it a " subconscious" way of your brain telling you to look at them differently?? is it okay??

2007-01-23 00:54:13 · 8 answers · asked by becki t 1 in Singles & Dating

3 kinds of meds ....for cough, stuffiness, fever and other cold side effects .......took it for 3 days and now hard on won't stay hard ??? - is this weird ?? please help fast !! Thanks all

2007-01-23 00:54:12 · 5 answers · asked by Sarahdv7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 00:52:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-23 00:52:06 · 14 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A little background on our situation is that we had been together almost a year, when we broke up cause he felt as if I betrayed him. While broken up I found out that the whole time I was the woman on the side (even though I had asked him was there anyone else, on at least two occasions) So basically, I was hurt because that whole time he had been using me, parading me around in front of his friends when it's possible they all knew that I was not the only one. Of course, I felt foolish so I said some really terrible things out of hurt and anger. Last night he told me that even though he knows he did me wrong, he would never say the things I said. I do feel guilty and I know that I was wrong but I want to make him understand that he lied unnecessarily and made me look like a fool. If he had just been honest, things would have been different. I know that I was wrong, but based off what I've told you, do you think he was hurt by what I said? I am going to formally apologize.

2007-01-23 00:51:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I married about a year ago. Blending families has been tough especially when we have her daughter full time and my 2 kids only a few days a week. I love my wife and would like to have another child with her. However I’m on the hook with child support and we get none in from her daughter’s father (her decision to not complicate things). She has a good job and makes a decent living. My job is decent and it’s a little shaky right now. I’m stuck in not the best area for jobs but have to stay in the area because of my kids and the life I built with my wife so if I lose my job, prospects in this area for me are kind of slim for what I do (Meaning I probably will rely on my wife more if she wants to maintain our standard of living. I could leave the area and make more money but decided to stay for the kids and build a life with my wife). My wife is really pushing for another kid and I’m flattered and would like to have one with her but I’m worried about me being on the hook financially to my ex. and not getting any from her daughter’s father. It doesn’t seem to bother her. She seems to think we’ll be fine and really wants a kid with me. I’m one of those people where all my ducks have to be in a row before I plan something major like that but because I’m divorced I’m thinking maybe they never will be again. I’m a little afraid to have another child (even though I would like to) and trying to figure out if my financial fears from my ex. is causing me to not build a life with the woman I really love. Am I being too cautious?

2007-01-23 00:51:07 · 7 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 00:49:34 · 30 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for little while now and everything is great however hes married and has children. He wants to be with me and has even asked his wife for a divorce but she refuses to give in thinking she can work this out. He dosnt know what to do and in the mean time I can get in trouble for dating him. But I know he wants to be with me and he also knows shes been cheating on him since hes left country. What should we do?

2007-01-23 00:49:31 · 19 answers · asked by angelsweet774 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is living with her gay mother and her gay mothers girlfriend. I need to get full or partial custody of my daughter. She is in a bad situation. From what I hear the girlfriend is beating my baby mothers butt and my mom said she looks horrible. They are in Detroit, and although I live in another state, I need to get things together and get back there to help her. I plan to keep living out of state, but I need to know how this will play out. Please help

2007-01-23 00:48:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Who ever just asked the last question i asked listen up!! Im friends with the guy not the girl!!! and it does matter what i wear because frist empresions are everything!!

2007-01-23 00:48:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he comes my takes me to the movies since my bf dosent

2007-01-23 00:46:50 · 12 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Singles & Dating

Because his activities proved him as a recist.

2007-01-23 00:42:54 · 25 answers · asked by Difi 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

With being pickie or having a physical ideal and just being shallow?

2007-01-23 00:42:34 · 6 answers · asked by Mandie R 1 in Singles & Dating