My mother is worried about me...cuz I don't have someone special in my life....and keeps telling me that I should run after someone that my friend proposed. But how can I be more active and go after him...when I don't know him at all...I have my own pride....and I don't want to go after someone even if I like him. But my mum says that I should take control of my life.... not life to control me....
Is she right or I'm a right?
2007-01-23 01:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Both of you are right! She is right in her way (trying to find someone to make you happy, and you are right in your way, (you just cant go after someone you dont know). I think you can start talking to the guy first and then see what happens from there. Or you can go out with your friends and try to find someone else out there. Whatever you do, you WILL find that special someone one day!
2007-01-23 01:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, but you should never 'chase' after someone. When you meet someone you find interesting, and you want to know better, you will know it, and you will find ways to find out more about him, whether it's by talking with him, or what ever. Everyone has their own timetable, and it's not up to mum. She wants you to be happy, but you won't be if you take her advice. So take your own course this time. Tell mum she'll be the first to know when you've met 'the one!'
2007-01-23 09:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by minibarton47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and do what feels right for you. If you dont it will always come back and bite ya in some way. Do what feels right for you. You can control your own life by making your own decisions that feels right for you. Not let others control your life by telling you what your should do. Tell her that one..lol
2007-01-23 09:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by wartytoadjody39 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take control of your own fate tat is present in front of u, dont let it slip away w/o even given a try. Once u give it a miss, u wont know when will u have it again or might not even have it at all. Give it a shot, if you like him. Who's knows, he might be your Mr Right.
2007-01-23 09:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well her advise is coming from the heart, however it doesnt sound to me like you're comfortable with the advise she's given you. Relationships happen in a natural and organic way, I don't think you should pursue someone that you don't know. Your mom wants you to be healthy and happy, but only you can decide what exactly is going to make you that way.
2007-01-23 09:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are right when you feel the time has come or feel the right feelings for someone then you will go for it don't rush into anything you are not ready for cause it won't work out. let mom know that this is your life and when the time comes it will
2007-01-23 09:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo should only be with someone who really does it for you. Anything less and you will just make both of you miserable.
2007-01-23 09:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are right but don't let your life control you
2007-01-23 09:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by bette69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is your age?..if your going out on dates,don't worry about what others say.find some one who shares your interest.............
2007-01-23 09:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋