A little background on our situation is that we had been together almost a year, when we broke up cause he felt as if I betrayed him. While broken up I found out that the whole time I was the woman on the side (even though I had asked him was there anyone else, on at least two occasions) So basically, I was hurt because that whole time he had been using me, parading me around in front of his friends when it's possible they all knew that I was not the only one. Of course, I felt foolish so I said some really terrible things out of hurt and anger. Last night he told me that even though he knows he did me wrong, he would never say the things I said. I do feel guilty and I know that I was wrong but I want to make him understand that he lied unnecessarily and made me look like a fool. If he had just been honest, things would have been different. I know that I was wrong, but based off what I've told you, do you think he was hurt by what I said? I am going to formally apologize.
2007-01-23 00:51:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
apologize for what? come on girl, he cheated, sexually, emotionally and mentally. what you said was out of anger, you had every right, you were played a fool. you feel bad because you are a good person, apologize to make yourself feel better but move on, no need to talk to him. good luck dear.
2007-01-23 00:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well truthfully u had ever right to say what u said. u are the victim.he hurt u first. maybe next time he will learn not to hurt you or anyone else of that matter.and from a mans prospective, u just got played. that's what a lot of men do.we play with women feelings to get what we want and its wrong. tell me this, how can u be wrong? when he is the one that played you. why should u be sorry about what you said when what you said was right at the appropriate time.you can apologize all you want but from experience, that just makes you look stupid. just think about it. i can cheat on you and u say, I'm sorry for getting mad and yelling out things that hurt you. how stupid do u sound. now if your 16,17, or maybe 18 then i can understand because that's how young little girls think and act. and to answer your question, no he was not hurt. if he was he would had shed some tears. if he was a real playa then what you said would not have had any affect. like the old saying goes, you cant hate the playa hate the game.lol
2007-01-23 01:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by black pharoahs of egypt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on. First of all you can't trust this man. If you were a girl on the side, that means he also broke the trust of another woman. People don't change quickly. I would say walk away and in a few years see what he is really doing. Sounds like you both need to work on things and its not a good time. You can apologize for hurting him but I wouldn't go to far, he started the relationship on lies.
2007-01-23 00:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by hulin_sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Formally apologize if you think it is the honorable thing to do, but personally (and not knowing or really caring what you said) I think he's just trying to make you feel guilty when you're the wronged party. Guys do this all the time. Nobody likes to be the bad guy, so to avoid being the bad guy, he's making YOU into the bad guy. Simple as that.
Did you say anything that wasn't true? Did you get his friends to believe things that aren't necessarily the case? That would be unjust, and it could be worth it to set matters straight. However, if you just hurt his feelings...so what? Tell him to suck it up, the whiny bastard!
2007-01-23 00:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Finish Reading Ugly Rennaissance 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he was playing you and had others on the side as well as you......he's nothing but a Player* YOU have NOTHING to appologize for*!~ He deserved everything you said to him and more* And yes...he knows you said it cuz you're hurt and yes it probably Hurt his feelings but do you really care????? He didn't think to "care" how you'd feel when making you the joke of the day/week/month*!~
MOVE ON WITHOUT THE LOSER , you'll be much HAPPIER and BETTER OFF without HIM*~!
2007-01-23 00:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't owe this jerk an apology, he owes you one, but you aren't going to get it. Yes, you spoke out of anger, but that is in the past now. Leave it alone. Walk away with you head high, and never respond, or waste energy, even speaking to this snake again.
2007-01-23 01:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY appologise for what you have said to him. You have every right to say what ever it was you said. At that point in time you felt betrayed and humilitated. And he did the dirty on you. And he deserves everything he gets..............Joey and Prince you two sound like real scum bags yourselves and are probably used to treating women like this anyway.
2007-01-23 01:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wants you-tell him that you want to be FRIENDS for a while. If he shows that he is loyal then start back with a more serious relationship-you won't get hurt this way and he has to prove is is there for you.
A cheater is a re-peter
2007-01-23 01:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 01:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a fool?? aren't you still by thinking you owe him being a FOOL?
This guy was so wrong to wrong you and now he's being this puppy dawg turning the tables on YOU!!
You don't owe him ****!!!
You deserve better!!!
2007-01-23 01:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋