i am in a bad situation please help i am 36 and disabled i live with me mom and she calles me name almost every day here r the name she calls me " slut, whore, skank, pig, lazy, retard".......her favs are lazy and whore she control's my money or i would leave i asked her for it to leave she said NO......HELP WHAT DO I DO......to comment on my disability i am just a slow learner i got all my parts and they work i am just slow
2007-01-23 01:01:38 · 11 answers · asked by trina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she is 60 i love my mom i was taught to repect her but i do u respect some one that dont repect u i cant get out i am in a small town with no services
2007-01-23 01:33:34 · update #1
Call Social Services in your area and ask them for help. They can put you in your own place and help you take care of things, plus they'll make sure you get your disability check instead of the poor excuse for a momma you have. If you don't know how to find social services call the police--NOT 911--and ask them to help you find the right people. It sounds like she only keeps you around for your disability check, so get out and make her start supporting herself.
2007-01-23 01:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds horrible, al b, is right. There are always people out there much worse off than you. Sorry for the cliche but it's true. I am not going to preach but this has helped many in your situation, God. OK I'll preach for a second, and I don't do this often but somehow your question has bought us two together in this messed up world and in a strange way I might add. That being said, is there a church in the town that you live? Try to seek help there. God works in very strange ways sometimes. So if you are truly desperate he is always an option. It might not solve all your problems but it might help you get started with a new beginning. Good luck.
2007-01-24 04:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but you mom is trying to take over your life what is little of it. now here is what you do. completely ignore her as you are trying to get every single penny she takes from you. then you save up NOT in a bank, but some where you know she doesn't know about or she doesn't ever go in and hit it there. then leave live with a Sib or a friend or maybe your other family members. with the money you saved you can pay for food and gas and bill till the day you can get your own house/apartment. until that day comes completely say it back to her and remember from you pic. you not that whore like at all. take care-xoxoxo
2007-01-23 17:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by LIlSis K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, I think that your mom is too old, this is called oldest marazm, so she needs to be put at the house for senior citizens. This will help u in 2 ways: your mothet will find a proper care and than she won't be complaining. You r disabled, so you need find also someone who will take care of you. Anyway, if u know that your mom is in good hand, u will be fine. I think, disability is a problem, but when someone aggravates it, it becomes a disaster.
2007-01-23 01:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by David B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your biggest handycap is your mother's attitude, it probably was a big player in your situation if she never encouraged you at all. You nay have to ask Social Services to intervene to help you move out and find a new place to live. Thee are lots of poeple like you and much worse off than ou doing just fine out in the world. It won't be easy, but you will be happier.
2007-01-24 02:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your local health authority. Tell them you need to be rehoused. Move out and leave her. You are not slow, you just need some extra help with things. Take steps to start improving your self esteem. Don't let this woman ruin your life.
2007-01-23 01:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by Bitzer Maloney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, sure... you speak English, French, and Spanish, according to your 360, and we're supposed to believe you're a slow learner. Nice try.
2007-01-23 01:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother as a big problem try to get out of that situation
2007-01-23 01:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Neil G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to try and get out of there, you're in trouble.
2007-01-23 01:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy Lilian B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I call shenanigans.
2007-01-23 01:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋