Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

I met this guy almost a year ago, well we see each other almost everyday because we work nearby. Anyway during this time he has given me a lot of signals that he likes me and we were ready for a night together when I had an emotional upset at home. Once he knew he then backed off from me. I am attractive and can get a guy easy but I only like him, do you think he cares for me?

2007-01-22 22:09:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl is so clingy (to me) and i dont like her at all, ive even tried to show her that i dont like her, whenever she is standing next to me i just leave and she'll follow me!!! and whenever shes speaking i act totally bored and just get out my phone or ipod or something, whenever she comes and sits with me i would be like why arent you sitting with your FRIENDS to prove to her that shes not my friend, but she just says that she cant find them, and u know what they actually like her so why doesnt she sit with them, i wanna tell her to just get the hell away from me but i dont think she would!!! i know u probably think im mean, but i just want my own space, what should i do to make her get away from me?

2007-01-22 22:09:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-22 22:08:03 · 24 answers · asked by persian gal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why do you use it and what does it mean???

'hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back'

2007-01-22 22:07:45 · 10 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Singles & Dating

Some time ago, I met this woman at my work. She was the whole package:hot, intelligent, hard working, and always full of fun stories.
Not too long ago, she and I went to a convention. She and I had a rough day but we managed to survive. We had several drinks afterwards and talked about it while walking down the boardwalk. I then put my arm around her shoulder and she reciprocated. I gave her some other hints that I like her.
After we returned, I would ask if she wants to hang out, but she would turn it down saying she was too busy. She also didn't send the typical vibes of interest. Also, she recently quit the company.
Perhaps that special night was a fluke or a very lucid dream.

My question is how to deal with the rejection. Im older but it doesnt get easier. I know there are other waves in the ocean but my mind is racing thinking about the possibilities of a happy ending. Im worried that it will affect my work performance. But just typing this seems to help. Thanks.

2007-01-22 22:06:17 · 8 answers · asked by stevenc925 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to contact Maggie Sottero Bridal?
I had a HUGE problem with the Bridal Shop I ordered my dress from. I need to contact the company but I cannot find a phone number anywhere and the lady at the shop will not give it to me. Can anyone help me?

2007-01-22 22:05:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Help!I need serious not stupid advice and what u think.My partner is cuban, understand cubans have diffrent cultures.More fun.Well he just went to cuba to visit his family.As im quite a jealous type.I checked his mobile 4 pictures.And found one of his ex's on there with her in her knickers.and then covering her ****.What a whore.I questioned this to him and he said:-She came round to my dads house and for a laugh as she is a v good dancer.aND my bf SAID u could b a pole dancer.ha ha.and then she said.oh take a picture!take a picture!So he did.I said why did u do it.He said:-just fun im a man.I asked if he had slept with her five times.he said no he hadnt.Which i finally said that was ok then.However, i went to wash his jeans yesterday and found condoms in his pocket.do u know how many they come in packs of twinlotus?there spanish?there is 3 in this pack.I rang him.And he says i like to collect them.However he nevers uses condoms with me as he says he is sensitive to them.im preg.what

2007-01-22 22:04:43 · 19 answers · asked by lucyhot21 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 22:04:41 · 10 answers · asked by sheepmindweour 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

"Like this guy, we are going out "as friends" he doesn't want to get involved with someone with children due to a previous bad experience (he got too attached to the kid and then the relationship went sour), how do I change his mind?"

2007-01-22 22:03:25 · 17 answers · asked by Christi 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad has a friend who born in 1971 & i born in 1993,my friends wanna know how old is he than me,how many years older than me?

2007-01-22 22:02:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The hottest blonde vs the hottest brunette? Blonde all the way.

2007-01-22 22:01:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do? i tried everything, the exam is after tommorow and i havent studied i dunno why, but there is something in my head which i dont know, i think because i got bored from studying for previous exams.....the next exam is important, please tell me how to regain my interest, i tried most things..

2007-01-22 22:01:36 · 6 answers · asked by 123 3 in Singles & Dating

I went to see an old friend who I used to like a couple of years ago, and we had a great time... we ended up sleeping together, but now he seems distant, and the texts have changed, even though he said he doesn't do one night stands, and was really caring... has he had second thoughts?

2007-01-22 22:00:59 · 21 answers · asked by Lola* 2 in Singles & Dating

wat actually happened was that my boyfriend said that he wants to break up with me. then when he saw my obvious reaction(broken, sad) then he asked me to forget whatever he had just said. that was becoz he still had feelings for me, i guess. well, then i said OK, i will forget (what else could i do???).
ALL THIS HAPPENED IN JUST 3 MINUTES!!!!!!!!!!!
so now what do i do? i am not comfortable with this break up and then patch up system. i dont think the same spark will be there between us now.
I AM A STUDENT OF CLASS 7 AND SO IS MY BOYFRIEND.(EX MAYBE)
PLZ DONT THINK ITS EARLY / TOO SOON ETC...........
...................i just need all the advices i can get. i m a very sentimental person and a very very sad person now.
plz all of u, rest my confusedness.
i seriously beg of u.

2007-01-22 21:59:08 · 16 answers · asked by anku 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents and i had a nasty fight a few days ago. I'm really starting to dislike them now. When i was a kid,my dad used to hit me with his belt and my mum wouldent say anything. They do get me whatever i want but when it comes to fulfilling my emotional needs....i have nothing to say. Not even once have they asked me what i wanna do in college. When i was 17,i told my mum that i was sexually abused as a kid and she quickly hushed me up. She thinks that it's a shameful thing. Am i being ungrateful in disliking them?

2007-01-22 21:58:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love my boyfriend, and he loves me (i know that) but he doesn't pay much attention to me. We been dating almost a year now, and i dont nag him, or hound him, but i do let him know when i'm unhappy, sometimes he listens and tries to be good for like 2weeks and then he slips back to old manners. He recently got transfered to Scotland, and i'm in london, i dont see him often and when he comes down for the weekend, he spends it all with his family...he seems to pay more attention to his work and family than me...i dont know what to do?..am i being unreasonable? should i accept it as part of him, or leave him?

2007-01-22 21:57:00 · 9 answers · asked by Luxoire 1 in Singles & Dating

ever get acused of trying to or being some kind of sex pervert,by neighbors or even people you know,and does it inflluence and effect your life,employment and social contacts marriage, relationships, even when it is not true

2007-01-22 21:55:56 · 10 answers · asked by chinpingmei 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sisiter is the golden child, i am the scapegoat, what shall i do, i am now 25 yrs old

2007-01-22 21:55:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok heres the story
my ex john and i broke up about three months ago and i never chould get over him. Then yesterday he wrote me a note and it says this:
Good moring Kelsey how are you. I know it's werid for me to write you but i am.There was this song that came on last night at church it's called "Love Song" when i herd that I cried terribly in my heart cause everytime i herd the song it brought up you. Espesically that night on halloween, it just chouldn't stop. I was telling the truth that our love will always be together. And I know you feel the same way just by the way you look at me and call me and yours always woried about me and you can't let me go. I know how you feel because i feel the same way. Thats why I act like I don't care any more. I still love you but I just want to love Kyleigh now. I promised to two people that I won't go out with you,but i didn't say i'll never so you never know what will happen.

thats the note said and now i don't understand it!!!
plz help!!

2007-01-22 21:54:05 · 12 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Singles & Dating

He come to my house every day lets do naked wrestle, so i say its so gay but hes like no its not so we do but hes so easy to pin down i always win its not even fun for me is this normal thanks.

2007-01-22 21:53:37 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

my ex and i have been broken up for 10 months recently he has been calling me everyday at work sometimes 2 times a day and then i asked him if he wanted to go to the movies and then he kept making excuses. i told him i dont have time for a phone relationship and i havent heard from him for a week. he left me and i still love him. why is he calling all the time then? why is he doing this? he is getting jelous and asking where i have been who im with and what i have been doing. what is with this?? should i send him an sms and tell him i miss him?

what should i say to him? and how do i say it?

2007-01-22 21:52:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this cool girl the 1st week in college and we hit it off very well for a month. Then she basically started ignoring me for a couple months. Then I started hanging out more and more with her (girl) friends. One of them even likes more more then a friend.
Now,Once she realized her friends think i'm the ****, she started paying me more attention again.
So now, the friend of hers that likes me keeps asking me to hang out, yet I am reluctant because I really like this 1st girl.
The thing that bothers me though is that we will be cuddling for awhile and then suddenly she will get up and leave, and start doing something else.
She claims I am her best guy friend she's ever had and that she likes our relationship as it is. Thats why I haven't ever made a move. So is what she said awhile ago true, or is she having 2nd thoughts now. I'm starting to think she might just be jealous of the other girl, because its her friend. So do I take her word for it and date her friend or no

2007-01-22 21:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by Rindo-Saki 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep dreaming of being impregnated by one of my arched nemesis' lol. Let's call him Rex. Rex and I were once really close. I was really really attached to him. Fine... I was in love with him. He swore he had feelings for me too. He told everyone that I was an annoying b itc h who was a s lu t that everyone should try out. We never did anything... I was humiliated for months and stopped talking to him. Recently he started trying to make amends and apologized, it was via email and then I saw him quite unexpectedly. With that said he has been on my mind quite a lot.
Now to the dream; I dream that I wake up seven months pregnant, knowing somehow that it was his child. The dream centers around me telling everyone that he is the father. I freak out the most when I tell his best friend... even more than when I found out I was pregnant even though I was seventeen. I never encounter him in the dream though... the dream ends with me suddenly not being pregnant anymore. What could this be?

2007-01-22 21:52:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 21:51:53 · 12 answers · asked by Evtm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i never had a bf but i want to find out that if some one ask me out for dating and wants to be my boy friend, what should i say because sometimes i think that having a bf might not give time to study but on the other hand you can have fun with a bf. would you please tell me that does having a boy friend in teen agers is bad or good? thank's.

2007-01-22 21:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by cuty pie 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever walked into a pub etc and saw your ex with someone new,how did you deal with it?

I just know it`s going to happen to me sooner or later and i honestly dont know how i`ll cope.We were together 6 years and have a child together and the thought of it is killing me,i truly think i`d kill them both.

2007-01-22 21:50:45 · 30 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

im in dire need of a name for a bridal consulting business any advice would be appreciated

2007-01-22 21:48:37 · 6 answers · asked by queen4clewis 3 in Weddings

I have a g/f. i don't want to have sex before marriage. but I do frenching and kisses and whenever I do that she trys to seduce me to F#@K her which I haven done uptill now. I do feel do feel like f#@&!ng her. what should I do? Should I **** her or not before marriage?

2007-01-22 21:46:26 · 6 answers · asked by wilddude 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

My wife and I have an agreement that who ever cooks the other does the dishes. When I cook my wife seems to think its normal to leave dirty dishes for more than one day - Is this common for people to do because I really don't like it?

Thanks for the reply... :-)

2007-01-22 21:45:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I have this friend and she's changed alot in the last couple of weeks. Its really annoying coz she has put her Ex, who is a good friend of mine through alot and she treats him like absolute dirt. Its ALWAYS about her! She makes up stories about herself to make herself look good in frount of others, and she ALWAYS has to be in the picture if your taking photos. She angers easily so I cant talk to her about it.
It was even my birthday today and she knew full well that it was today and I thought she would have texted me or talked to me on IM but...nothing...
She is in year 9 this year and Im in year 10, and she was talking to a mutual friend of our about bullying and beating up the new years 8's at school this year which in my books is NOT ON
Im really mad at her, there is alot of other stuff like making me the third wheel for 4 hours with hr Ex's best mate and stuff
Im really annoyed and would like some of your opinions!
Thanks heaps!

2007-01-22 21:45:23 · 7 answers · asked by -Ashlee- Eeeep! 2 in Friends