wat actually happened was that my boyfriend said that he wants to break up with me. then when he saw my obvious reaction(broken, sad) then he asked me to forget whatever he had just said. that was becoz he still had feelings for me, i guess. well, then i said OK, i will forget (what else could i do???).
ALL THIS HAPPENED IN JUST 3 MINUTES!!!!!!!!!!!
so now what do i do? i am not comfortable with this break up and then patch up system. i dont think the same spark will be there between us now.
I AM A STUDENT OF CLASS 7 AND SO IS MY BOYFRIEND.(EX MAYBE)
PLZ DONT THINK ITS EARLY / TOO SOON ETC...........
...................i just need all the advices i can get. i m a very sentimental person and a very very sad person now.
plz all of u, rest my confusedness.
i seriously beg of u.
2007-01-22 21:59:08 · 16 answers · asked by anku 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend likes you a lot but I don't think he loves you anymore. He wanted to get out of the relationship and took pity on you when he saw your reaction.
Ask yourself if you seriously want to be in a relationship like this. Or do you want to move on and find yourself a new boyfriend? I know I would.
2007-01-22 22:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 23:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax about it. Hopefully by the time you are ten years older you will not have this situation, because if he stays with you that long, then I will say no more,,,,,if you find that he is not with you in ten years, then you are still young, beautiful, and able to attract the type of guy that will not do this to you.
Just bear with him a little, ok? We ladies tend to advance faster then men your age and those men tend to do what the other men do. Seeing you cry, or get upset might have caused a little feeling to come out of him, so be encouraged that he had the sensibility to express that. Not all guys are that sentimental. It sounds like you know how to pick them! :-) I would too, if I were back in your shoes. The insensitive ones hurt and would not ask you to forgive them. You have the chance now, so don't hurt his sensitivity by shooing him off.
My suggestion is to give him a chance, buy don't be so attached emotionally. It's great that you are seeing guys and exploring what you like and don't like about them, but don't hinge your life around them.
2007-01-22 22:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's behavior sounds to me that he still cares for you and also that he has empathy for you're feelings, ( he saw you hurt and that hurt him as well) but, yes, there is one.
It's possible that right now is not the right time for him to go steady and needs a bit more freedom. That doesn't make him a bad guy, just bad timing.
You might take the Bull by the Horns and suggest to be friends at this time. I found that if one takes charge, more things will come you're way.
It's never a good idea to hang on to some one or thing, if it's not a mutual need. Love needs to be equal to survive!
2007-01-22 22:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, first thing first, start believing in yourself and stand with self respect. ok, moving on, look at your own values. if you think the spark is not there, wait for a little longer time. stay away for a few weeks or a month or two and see how you feel for him. if it persists after that for both of you, good. if not, better. move on. just remember this philosophical (but extremely helpful) phrase.... THIS WILL PASS !! cheer up !
2007-01-22 22:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety i think he is as confused as u r , i think u should giv him some time , n u guys r 2 small 2 b so worried , u seem 2 b a smart gal u will be fine whatever happens
2007-01-22 23:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by guitara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really did want to break up with you but after seeing your reaction, he probably felt horrible and had pity for you.. so he patched things up quickly to make you feel better. my advice would be to break up with him... tell him that you just don't want to be with him anymore. break up with him before he pulls that move again because i guarantee you that it will come back up soon and you will be left heartbroken. instead, flip it around and let him know that you don't NEED his pity and that you will be just fine without him. take charge.
2007-01-22 22:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just likes the fact that you were sad when he broke up with you. Makes him feel good. Tell him you're not gonna take it any more.
2007-01-22 22:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was just testing you.but the thing matters in love is that he should have beleived in your love. but he failed. he is suspicious bout your relationships and thats not o.k. if you have to sail a long way in a relationship it is beleif that leads you a happy journey with your partner. and by the way its not your age to fall in love. oksssss .think and believe.thats its..
2007-01-22 22:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by baadshahskingdom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear,dont think otherwise about him, he must hav thought its too early an age to hav a reln, or sumthing else.......and asked u for a break up........but immediately by luking at ur reaction he patched it up, that surely means he cares for ur feelings, if not he wud hav left u for ur fATE to sit and cry.........dont get upset, such small things happen in these reln........u shud not take them to heart..........try to be wat u were wit him before.........make him realise that his decision was wrong.
2007-01-22 22:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋