Help!I need serious not stupid advice and what u think.My partner is cuban, understand cubans have diffrent cultures.More fun.Well he just went to cuba to visit his family.As im quite a jealous type.I checked his mobile 4 pictures.And found one of his ex's on there with her in her knickers.and then covering her ****.What a whore.I questioned this to him and he said:-She came round to my dads house and for a laugh as she is a v good dancer.aND my bf SAID u could b a pole dancer.ha ha.and then she said.oh take a picture!take a picture!So he did.I said why did u do it.He said:-just fun im a man.I asked if he had slept with her five times.he said no he hadnt.Which i finally said that was ok then.However, i went to wash his jeans yesterday and found condoms in his pocket.do u know how many they come in packs of twinlotus?there spanish?there is 3 in this pack.I rang him.And he says i like to collect them.However he nevers uses condoms with me as he says he is sensitive to them.im preg.what
2007-01-22 22:04:43 · 19 answers · asked by lucyhot21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you are a man, then you have no right to cheat, if you are a women, then sista, it is your privledge and birthright ;-)
2007-01-22 22:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by dee 'the harpoon' harper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your man is cheating on you. If you love him, stay with him but remember life is too short to live it misery. What are the chances that this will make you very happy? Theese incidents are are likely going to be coming one after the other until you get him red handed. What will you then? Maybe it will be too late and much damage would have been done to you. Its unfortunate that you are already pregnant and to make matters worse, with someone that you really do not know. According to the information you gave, this man is undoubtedly playing you and the question is, "Does he really love you".
Sometimes we fools ourselves thinking that we are in love, when the other party does not feel a thing. Make sure that you are loving someone who also love you but remember, love does not cheat!!!
2007-01-23 06:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He collects condoms? Give me a break.
I've always been under the impression that cheating is anything you wouldn't do if your partner were standing next to you. However the severity of cheating varies highly, anything can be forgiven, it depends on whether or not it will be.
Basically you need the truth, punish him or forgive him, your call.
2007-01-23 06:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you for sure. kick his lying *** out of the house. If i was in your situation I would not be putting questions on here but packing his bags and ;leaving them out for the bin man!! I am a tollerant person where things like this are concerned but it is totally obvious that he is playing behind your back. Don't let him make a fool of you. Good luck and be strong with your decision xxx ps people shouldn't stay together in unhappy relationships just for a childs sake because they will be worse off seeing you both fight.
2007-01-23 06:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Banny Grasher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a girl who married a Cuban and cheated like made on her - Crazy
Good luck RTC
2007-01-23 06:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by raythecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I t sounds like he is definitely cheating. How else would you explain the condoms?
He’s also disrespectful! How dare he keeps pictures like that on his phone for you to find
2007-01-23 06:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't rust him dump him . if you don't have trust you will never get though your realationship. say good bye and tell him your reasons why. I think I would be confused in the same situation and weather or not he has cheated he has not respected you and your feelings..
sorry it can't be better news
2007-01-23 06:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hooked up with the human version of a dog sad but true remember were living in the era of aids
2007-01-23 06:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I think you need to take a better look at things. Open your eyes, and see wha'ts happened here. I do believe he's cheated.
2007-01-23 06:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by K.W. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, i hate to say it but he's cheating!
If you can't prove it yourself just hire a PI to tail him, you'll know in no time.
Sorry
2007-01-23 06:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely he is cheating you plz find some1 better to make you happy~!
2007-01-23 06:07:42 · answer #11 · answered by Vani R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋