I met this cool girl the 1st week in college and we hit it off very well for a month. Then she basically started ignoring me for a couple months. Then I started hanging out more and more with her (girl) friends. One of them even likes more more then a friend.
Now,Once she realized her friends think i'm the ****, she started paying me more attention again.
So now, the friend of hers that likes me keeps asking me to hang out, yet I am reluctant because I really like this 1st girl.
The thing that bothers me though is that we will be cuddling for awhile and then suddenly she will get up and leave, and start doing something else.
She claims I am her best guy friend she's ever had and that she likes our relationship as it is. Thats why I haven't ever made a move. So is what she said awhile ago true, or is she having 2nd thoughts now. I'm starting to think she might just be jealous of the other girl, because its her friend. So do I take her word for it and date her friend or no
2007-01-22 21:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by Rindo-Saki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what she wants is to have what other people want.
If she hasn't explained why she left in the first place then perhaps it would be better for you to have a relationship with someone who really likes you for you.
2007-01-22 21:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well It does sound like the 1st girl is jealous but it also sound like she is having second thoughts. i think you are smart not to have made a move she seems too be maybe content with your relationship as it is. Yeah I'd get involved w/her freind.
2007-01-23 05:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by kathmrc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to be concentrating all your energy on one girl. Go out with as many girls as you can. Don't get hung up on what you think they are thinking, leave that to the opposite sex. Have fun an stop being so dam serious.
2007-01-23 05:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by fatherf.lotski 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date her friend, if she's not giving you the attention you need date some one else.
2007-01-23 06:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date the friend dawg, the 1st girl doesnt like you like that she even told you
2007-01-23 05:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont date her that will be a wrong decision
2007-01-23 06:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋