ok heres the story
my ex john and i broke up about three months ago and i never chould get over him. Then yesterday he wrote me a note and it says this:
Good moring Kelsey how are you. I know it's werid for me to write you but i am.There was this song that came on last night at church it's called "Love Song" when i herd that I cried terribly in my heart cause everytime i herd the song it brought up you. Espesically that night on halloween, it just chouldn't stop. I was telling the truth that our love will always be together. And I know you feel the same way just by the way you look at me and call me and yours always woried about me and you can't let me go. I know how you feel because i feel the same way. Thats why I act like I don't care any more. I still love you but I just want to love Kyleigh now. I promised to two people that I won't go out with you,but i didn't say i'll never so you never know what will happen.
thats the note said and now i don't understand it!!!
plz help!!
2007-01-22 21:54:05 · 12 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
John sounds very confused. Why did you separate?
There is a fine line between Loving someone and Being in love with someone.
You both have a lot of history together.
I think John need to decide between you and Kyleigh. He is not being fair on either of you.
I know it is hard but you need to level with him as he cannot keep putting you through this. If he wants to be with you then he should leave Kyleigh.
If he wants Kyleigh he should leave you alone.
If he is still undecided then my advice to you would be to tell him to go away.
You need to distance yourself from him so the healing process can begin.
Don't let him take you for a fool. At the moment it seems as through your his SAFETY NET!!! It sounds to me that he does not like being alone. If things don't turn out with Kyleigh he has you to bounce back to.
Don't allow this to happen. You deserve better Kelsey.
Good Luck with whatever you decide.
2007-01-22 22:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no gf, then merely be your self and talk over with him. grow to be selection sturdy acquaintances first, dangle out, discover out what he likes. Be truthful with him. Ask him out for a soda pop. Then as time is going on consistent with danger he will see you in a diverse way. in case you have the midsection, ask him out on a date. it extremely is once you get to appreciate him somewhat. sturdy luck.
2016-11-26 20:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with someone from another religion.
He's not a very good christian.
Try a Pagan or Muslem.
It's ok for them to have lots of wifies.
2007-01-22 21:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by satnee2003 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've been in a situation like this before. ignore him!! he's a loser. i'm sorry but it's the truth. i really do hope you listen to the advice all of us give you and move on. when people told me to move on i didnt (even though i completely agreed with them) and i regret not listening.
2007-01-22 22:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl tell him to go jump off a bridge some where, he don't know who he really loves. sure wouldn't hold my breath for that one
keep on keeping on
2007-01-22 22:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by COUNTRY GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kesley move on with your life let your ex remain EX
2007-01-22 22:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer to have a 3 way with him. then pin him to the wall and extort him for alot of valuible gifts in return for this :)
bilk him dry, exploit his wallet, your a women and deserve this =)
2007-01-22 21:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by dee 'the harpoon' harper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FORGET ABOUT HIM! This is just going to cause many MANY problems. Just forget about him and move on while you still can.
2007-01-22 21:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by x-Cool Girl-x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to be a player. He has to dump the other girl to be with you. There's no negotiating this.
2007-01-22 21:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him really you can follow your heart and he will told you if he love you really don't stay far from him
2007-01-22 22:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ice princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋