Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

So my best friend is a year younger than me, we obviously share a lot of the same interests because we're great friends, but i honestly want more than that, and I'm not sure how to go about it... because he's a virgin, the type of guy that would never pursue someone of the opposite sex, very religious, and really shy when it comes to talking about anything like that. He makes suggestions sometimes, but they're not very clear... like we talked about it one day, and his answer was "i would never tell you if i like you only because i'm not that type of guy". when we're together, we're both extremely happy, we're on the phone at least 2 hours a day, and we know EVERYTHING about each other, he buys me flowers on special occasions, we're pretty much dating but without the title or even knowing if we have feelings for each other... what should i do?

2007-01-22 23:03:15 · 4 answers · asked by Please Help 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 23:02:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2007-01-22 23:02:35 · 10 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend I treat her as my bestfriend she and I are members of volleyball team of our school. One day our coach said to me that I can't join in the coming competition. I became angry to our coach because she include the freshmen in the competition I am a sophomore student in our school.....I am not practicing now then she is not talking to me anymore my classmate said that I have done something wrong to her.....but I can't remember it.....I tried to apologize to her but she refuse to forgive me.......do you think I should have second chance....can she forgive me?.......what do you think?.......please help me.....I want back my bestfriend.........

2007-01-22 23:01:10 · 6 answers · asked by ChoEEy ChocO 3 in Friends

Sounds a bit like a soap my life. A few years back my boyfriend went Awol, he started hanging around with a few girls in their teens. At the time i found out i went ballistic, and had a slanging match with many. He apologised for his behaviour and i forgive him. We built a new life, new home and are very happy. But every so often i go out, i happen to see one of the girl members.. she often makes smug remarks at me and laughs very childish. I try my hardest to ignore her and not let her get to me. How can i get over this. Sometimes i wonder if im simply being just paranoid. Why has she got a problem with me, if they were just friends back then?

2007-01-22 23:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Family

2007-01-22 22:58:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u think i should give him a hint? or just wait till that day?...cuz i really dont want it to be spoiled :(

2007-01-22 22:56:21 · 14 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Singles & Dating

The US has a reputation overseas of not knowing much about other cultures and countries and being a bit of a bully. I am still not sure if toppling Saddam was good foreign policy as there are other threats and dictators out there who are just as dangerous. Totally confused by the whole issue. Just hoping that the world gets more leaders who speak peace talk like Mandela and Kofi Annan. An inspirational pacifist would be a nice change

2007-01-22 22:54:32 · 10 answers · asked by rosebud 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have not lot of money.

2007-01-22 22:54:11 · 15 answers · asked by anil367074 1 in Friends

He stares in my eyes, smiles in times we talk to each other, once hold my hand unexpected, confident with me and he ( I think) loves to talk with me. What do you think???????

2007-01-22 22:53:32 · 11 answers · asked by Micz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 22:53:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know i will get a girl one day but i dont want it to be a compromise, can a girl genuinely love a 5'7'' tall guy???

2007-01-22 22:52:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He moved far to be with me Ive known him since i was in highschool. We are both 24 now. 2 weeks ago i had a friend here and she found a note in her smoke pack that said " hey wanna play" with a little heart beside it. Im confromted my fiance and he said it was written for our two year old daughter. A week later he has a regualr routine and came home 2 hours later and said he did the exact same thing he normally does, but it usually only takes 15 mins not 2 hours. 2 days after that I came down stiars and he was outside in the freezing cold on the phone, as soon as he saw me he hung up and lied and told me it was my brother but when i pressed redial it was a long distance number. Now as it sits hes taken off 5 hours away to visit his parents he hitch hiked there and decided with in two hours thats what he was going to do and left. He acts like im his worst enemy on the phone. R theese signs of cheating? Hes a perfect man otherwise, i mean perfect loving great father and i love :(

2007-01-22 22:50:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you people do if you had no parents except for a lost dad which people say he's , and you were sent to a place which treated you like dirt, and you ran away, now everyone is looking for you and chasing you. and your siblings and step siblings keep getting hurt. What would you people do if that happened to you, because that's the situation i'm in right now.

2007-01-22 22:50:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a fairly cynical 20 something and have trouble accepting that long and HAPPY relationships are actually poss. Was hoping that people who are living in such relationships can explain what they still love about their partners after all this time and what keeps them together...

2007-01-22 22:49:58 · 8 answers · asked by Gillgidaan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have interview next week and wont to go full time in this care home but i dont wont to work nites days eve and wekends i dont mnd any 1 work in a care home and no how it works do i jus do every other weekdn and like 1 nite shift a month ?

2007-01-22 22:49:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy has kept in contact with me now for over a year. i met him through my ex.

whenever he is out in town, he texts me to see if im out too to meet up. we live in different cities. This happened when i was with my ex too.

we have met up a few times and have only kissed, despite him wanting more!

after we have met up i dont hear from him for a while and he ignores my messages. i then dont contact him anymore. but, after a while, he comes back texting me again just like before and the whole thing starts again!!

i have been abit of a tease by staying over his place.

i really like this guy but i dunno whats going on.
he knows i ended my 6 year relationship with my fiance 8 months ago who i had my own place with. he knows my ex has moved away. he did know of my ex but they were not friends.

i have heard that this guy likes the chase.

hes 29 and single.
when we are together we get on great and he always compliments me etc etc..

2007-01-22 22:49:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 22:49:01 · 20 answers · asked by Sanjay Bhavsar 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfreind is the bread winner in our relationship and I am currently unemployed. I take care of the housework and shopping. She is getting very bossy and recently told me that since she wears the pants I have to wear panties until I find a job. I like my girlfreind but this seems unfair, what should I do?

2007-01-22 22:48:53 · 15 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Singles & Dating

when dating?

2007-01-22 22:48:44 · 11 answers · asked by Just Me. 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently a guy who I know for years (but just as an acquaintance) came up to me and started telling me compliments and that he really wished for both of us to get to know each other better. I said "yes" because I thought that we could hang out with him and his wife and other mutual friends. The next day he called me (he didn't know my number, so he must have asked some of my other friends for them to give him my number) and asked me to come and have coffee with JUST HIM! I was a bit taken aback and said I would have coffee with him next week. Now I hope that he really wants friendship and nothing else (because he is a Christian and I don't think he wishes to cheat on his wife), but once I had a friendship with a guy and it turned out that he fancied me, so now i am a bit cautious with "friendship" between males and females because I just don't believe in it. So what should I do?

2007-01-22 22:48:36 · 27 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with this gut for a year we have moved out but he seems more interrested on his lap top on things like face party i keep askin him who does he chat to he says i should trust him shal i? he said he did it to anoy me coz i had an acount on faceparty a year ago he has jus dleted a week later?

2007-01-22 22:48:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we joke around heaps calling each other nicknames and at time well talk on msn for ages and at other times she wont reply my messages and sometimes shell message me sometimes it seems like she flirtin ive only known her for about three weeks but i dont want to ask her out and she rejectes me and spoils our friendship dont know what to do

2007-01-22 22:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by Ray T 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 22:46:42 · 3 answers · asked by Sanjay Bhavsar 1 in Weddings

I'm 27 and still a virgin. Don't get me wrong, I love women but I want to have a wife and a loving ,stable marriage with children. It saddends me to see the children born out of wedlock and all the people who just sleep around with anyone for a cheap thrill. I was rasied in a very religious household so I know better. The problem is women get mad because I don't want just a casual one night stand and my buddies hassel me and make jokes. I'm happy to say that I'm not stuck paying child support to several different women like most of them are and I never had an STD. I want a loving meaningful relationship but I'm having trouble finding a woman who feels the same. Are there any women out there today who can settle for a guy with my values? Thanks for all the respectful responses!!

2007-01-22 22:45:09 · 14 answers · asked by STEVE15 1 in Singles & Dating

do u really think so... ???

2007-01-22 22:44:21 · 9 answers · asked by G C 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a divorced mother of one teenager. I have been chatting with this guy online on and off for several months, maybe since Sept, and he seems to like me and is very attentive online, but he lives 75-80 miles away from me.I am eager to meet with him but because he has his own business he seems to be always working, although when we chat he sends me hugs and kisses and calls me sweetie and hun.What should I do to get him to come for a visit? Or am I wasting my time?

2007-01-22 22:44:14 · 12 answers · asked by hthrgyrl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 22:44:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... when we finally met, he hugged me really tightly and for long. and it was a movie date, so the whole time he was trying to make me kiss him (we havent kissed as yet). he said that he was thinking about doing that the whole time whenever he was thinking of me, and so thats why he was kinda pushing for it.

i want to know if he really likes me for long term, or if he only infatuated or partly interested.

btw, i didnt kiss him and he not mad at me, thankfully!

2007-01-22 22:43:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well...im bi and i kanda like both sexes and my friends say that i shouldnt be like what i am now....they say i should act like a girl and stop liking both...

2007-01-22 22:42:53 · 9 answers · asked by xpsihateyou 2 in Friends