Sounds a bit like a soap my life. A few years back my boyfriend went Awol, he started hanging around with a few girls in their teens. At the time i found out i went ballistic, and had a slanging match with many. He apologised for his behaviour and i forgive him. We built a new life, new home and are very happy. But every so often i go out, i happen to see one of the girl members.. she often makes smug remarks at me and laughs very childish. I try my hardest to ignore her and not let her get to me. How can i get over this. Sometimes i wonder if im simply being just paranoid. Why has she got a problem with me, if they were just friends back then?
2007-01-22 23:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like she is jealous. There are probably details that your boyfriend hasn't mentioned. Maybe he lead her on and she developed feelings for him. Who knows? But she sounds like a home-wrecking, scumbag !#$@$.. I know the type.
It would be nice to slap the living hell out of her next time you see her in public making remarks.
Remember karma though... and the law. She's not worth screwing up your own life for.
Remember this: Hurting people hurt people..
I'm sure she's a sad individual otherwise she wouldn't be spending energy trying to hurt others to make herself feel good. It probably drives her crazy that she's lonely and pathetic and can't find someone to love her in the right ways. Negative people attract negativity into their lives.. You won't really have to do anything to her to watch her get hurt. Maybe she'll hit on someone else's bf and get murdered by another jealous girlfriend. Who knows?
Something bad is bound to happen to someone as evil as she is. Just laugh back AT her next time she says anything. YOu know it's coming to her.
2007-01-22 23:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they were not "just friends", or perhaps "she" wanted to be more. In any case you got the prize and she is jealous. Smile if only on the inside and know the best man/woman has won. She'll grow up one day, but please don't let her pull you down to her level. Life is short, enjoy what you have and don't let anyone rob you of it. Good Luck
2007-01-23 07:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should just pity her because she is just jealous of what you have and what she cant have if she feels the need to make comments then try making one back like stop being so pathetic or maybe there is a deeper reason for her dislike towards you maybe you should have a chat with her and maybe your b/f hasnt told ya everything
2007-01-23 07:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short for drama. Make the most if it. Why waste it on other peoples shortcomings?
..It will be over before you know it.
2007-01-23 07:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her some people have matured in life and some haven't. Doesn't take a genuis to figure out what catagory she's in.
2007-01-23 07:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
at a certain point you realise that holding onto grudges n h8ing ppl n all the resst of it just takes ur energy n makes u feel like ****... hold ur head high n kno that ur betta than that
2007-01-23 07:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use your Secret Weapon
2007-01-23 07:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by scummibear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋