I'm 27 and still a virgin. Don't get me wrong, I love women but I want to have a wife and a loving ,stable marriage with children. It saddends me to see the children born out of wedlock and all the people who just sleep around with anyone for a cheap thrill. I was rasied in a very religious household so I know better. The problem is women get mad because I don't want just a casual one night stand and my buddies hassel me and make jokes. I'm happy to say that I'm not stuck paying child support to several different women like most of them are and I never had an STD. I want a loving meaningful relationship but I'm having trouble finding a woman who feels the same. Are there any women out there today who can settle for a guy with my values? Thanks for all the respectful responses!!
2007-01-22 22:45:09 · 14 answers · asked by STEVE15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are the kind of man I would want for a friend and a husband. Not only do you have intergrity but you value yourself. What more cana woman ask for.
You are absolutely true to yourself and you do not succumb to wordly trends or to peer pressure. Which is a very good thing.
I belive you are a inique being and your body is the temple of teh Lord. I would appeal to you to stay this way. the woman of your ldreams is out there. It is believed you always marry your soulmate. There are so many people like you out there it is only that no one wants ot be honest so they pretend to move with the crowd. Bravo and keep this on.
2007-01-22 22:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think you're odd, that is, different from the rest of the guys on Earth. You are absolutely right to wait for a loving, meaningful relationship. Our generation is definitely seeking a cheap thrill that just isn't cheap anymore. There are all sorts of diseases and emotional concerns, let alone the aspect of conceiving children. I know the wait seems long, but hold on and the right girl will come along. I didn't meet my husband until he was 27, and we are perfectly happy!
Try finding a girl in church. There are often so many women who want a meaningful relationship as well and they are afraid there aren't any distinguished guys left. Maybe you could try a Christian singles group, or a coffee shop. I wouldn't settle until I found a guy with very strong, uncompromising moral values. They're out there, keep looking and don't worry! Pray that God will lead you to the right one!
All the love in the world -
2007-01-22 22:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by maude3746 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I do believe you are the PERFECT man! Seriously, I give you a pat on the back for that... and no there are not any women out there that have the same values as you... like myself i'm 21 and i'm still a virgin, i've had plenty of offers but i want a meaningful relationship before i hope in the sack, and i am also happy to say that i have never had an std and unlike all of my friends that had to drop out of college because they got knocked up, i'm graduatin at the top 100 of my class! email me if you'd like... wishinonastar2o9@yahoo.com
2007-01-22 22:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Please Help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Stevie, you're not odd. You may be a bit different than those with whom you've associated and you may well need to think about your role because it's pretty unusual for a woman to get made because a guy wouldn't participate in a one night stand.
That aside, there are sites such as eharmony and others where some background matching is done that you might check out.
2007-01-22 22:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure most people now a days dont wait till marriage but i think it's very good you respect yourself and possible children born in the future to wait for a loving respecting home to have them.
2007-01-22 22:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by I love Mirra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sure you will find a woman who has the same opinions as yourself..not every woman and man goes out and has sex with lots of different partners..you are friends with the wrong kind of people.
2007-01-22 22:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is the most amazing this i have ever heard....im 16 only and i wish rellly really wish i had never lost my virginity cuz i regret it so much i have been used by guys so much cuz of it.....i think ur the sweetest guy around...
THnak u
uve inspired me
2007-01-22 22:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 29 and have had a lot of women in my life. I would hate to live without sex. However, if you choose to stay a virgin then I respect you for it.
2007-01-22 22:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you are not odd!
I think you are wonderful. Not a lot of men think the way you do. You are very rare. Stick to your beliefs and the good Lord will bless you.
2007-01-23 04:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by TINY822 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i respect you very much for your decision ( a very wise one)... i too am a virgin. so i think we need more of them since the age of ppl losing their sacred virginity is getting younger & younger. i too would like a stable career & house & (married)... i think you are being smart where you are coming from...
2007-01-22 22:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋