He moved far to be with me Ive known him since i was in highschool. We are both 24 now. 2 weeks ago i had a friend here and she found a note in her smoke pack that said " hey wanna play" with a little heart beside it. Im confromted my fiance and he said it was written for our two year old daughter. A week later he has a regualr routine and came home 2 hours later and said he did the exact same thing he normally does, but it usually only takes 15 mins not 2 hours. 2 days after that I came down stiars and he was outside in the freezing cold on the phone, as soon as he saw me he hung up and lied and told me it was my brother but when i pressed redial it was a long distance number. Now as it sits hes taken off 5 hours away to visit his parents he hitch hiked there and decided with in two hours thats what he was going to do and left. He acts like im his worst enemy on the phone. R theese signs of cheating? Hes a perfect man otherwise, i mean perfect loving great father and i love :(
2007-01-22 22:50:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I personally think he couldn't be any clearer than if he rented a billboard.
Is he your husband or your fiance?
Let me address just the note. A note stating "hey wanna play" in a pack of cigarettes (smoke pak?) for a two year old? Come on does he think your stupid? Does the two year old read? Does the two year old smoke?
Alternatively... What adult male makes that sort of "come on" to a two year old?
Wake up and smell the coffee sweetie.
What you've just shared is very suspect of cheating, or at the very least thinking about it.
And if he's serious about the note being to a two year old little girl, I shudder to think of the much worse thing it could be.
2007-01-22 23:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by thankyou "iana" 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After me and my husband went through a simular deal! So while we were split up I bought this book SCRIPT the 100% Absoutely Predictable Things Men Do When They Cheat!!! I am so sorry sweetie because u seem really nice but hes cheating your whole story is almost word for word in the book!!!!!
2007-01-23 07:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, it sounds like he's cheating. At the very least he is lying and acting very strangely for a "perfect man".
"Hey wanna play?" notes aren't given to two-year old children, and not hidden in other women's cigarettes, nor do faithful spouses take cell calls outside in the cold: These are all huge red flags.
2007-01-23 06:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Julia A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, those are signs of cheating but, what does your gut tell you? Usually your gut instinct about a cheating mate, is right. Maybe you guys can work it out, even if it's true that he's cheating. Just don't let it keep happening. Another sign is strange phone calls that you didn't receive before. Hope it all works out.
2007-01-23 06:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't take it so hard on your self.
It could be or not be, none of us here can tell for sure
If you truly love him, give the relation a chance,
give him the space he is taking, don't drought his actions as cheating as of now.
ask him indirectly if there is/was something which has created a gap between you both
wait and watch his reactions
Notice when does he act strangely, on who call, or when he dials this number you saw try calling that number and find out who this person is
its going to be taxing times for you to go through this, but be strong
all the best , take care
2007-01-23 07:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by AV (Avinash J Welinkar) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so sad sweetie i know men can be dogs id try talking it out most of the time they just come out and tell you whats the problem i know its hard when you cant give your man what he wants but its only because he doesnt say anything!! try talking thats the key in relationships...yesterday some random girl tried telling me my boyfriend asked her sister out i seen her sister and i was like ohhh nooo!! he would not leave me for this!!?? haha but we talked about it and he explained everything to me i hope all is well it breaks my heart to see you like this :(
2007-01-23 06:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he is..unfortunately. I think the note left in your friends cig pack was for her, and the calls outside sound very sus. I reckon he is cheating.... Sorry
2007-01-23 07:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is definately cheating on you. he also wishes that when he gets back he doesnt find you there. Just go visit your parents or stay with a friend and see how he reacts. you should be ready tof ace the truth.
2007-01-23 07:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he maybe the perfect man but you may not be perfect enough.
you may ask him to sit down and talk about this. bring it up. take it calm and be ready for surprises. tell him to be honest. if he happen to be cheating, it's up to you to work on your relationship with him or just dump it since you think it doesnt worth trying. i guess whenever we have problems, confront it.
2007-01-23 06:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by williams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's cheating on ya. But, you can't accuse him of it until you actually catch him at it. Sit down and have a talk with him and let him know of your concerns on his recent behavior.
2007-01-23 07:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋