my girlfreind is the bread winner in our relationship and I am currently unemployed. I take care of the housework and shopping. She is getting very bossy and recently told me that since she wears the pants I have to wear panties until I find a job. I like my girlfreind but this seems unfair, what should I do?
2007-01-22 22:48:53 · 15 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she sounds hot. just submit :]
2007-01-22 22:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♫ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What you do is get a job, so actually everyone could be equivalent. She carry out a little chores, you carry out a little chores. She pay a invoice ,you pay a invoice it extremely is the way it is going to artwork. it extremely is the explanation she sounds like she is the boss, because of the fact she is paying all the charges.I guess if it grow to be any incorrect way around you're able to could have been the comparable way.once you ahve a pair and one is putting out greater effective than the different one they think of that they are in value. the only element i will assert is discover some thing so you might do. it may worsen so come across a job that way no longer something wll be thrown on your face.
2016-11-26 20:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully she does not mean this, (the pantie thing) if so, leave. Even though she is bringing home the bacon at this time does not give her the right to belittle you're contribution taking care of things at the home front. Tell her so!
If you let her run over you, she will loose respect for you (right or wrong) it happens like that. It's human nature to act out, especially her thinking, you're not contributing enough.
If you're Love is real, this should be settled soon or you're resentment will grow and you both will NOT survive this relationship.
2007-01-22 22:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a job, she is jus frustrated, most probably because you are not serious about finding a job, you enjoying yourself playing the nanny, we all know the solution here FIND A JOB QUIcK BRO and dont confront her, get your act right first then confront her, women are generally weak and its emotionally disturbing for her to be carrying the whole load by herself. make sure you distribute at least 3 CVs everysdday to enhance your chances of geting a job. Jus get a nice reasonable job for starters and fom that job you will meet people who will offer you a better one or even a promotion if you are samrt. staying at home doing chores ant gonna do you good
2007-01-22 23:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
geez dude....It's obvious she doesn't repect you. That's just degrading! Take your nads back, get a job and quit being the wuss. Men wonder why women treat them badly, it's because they wuss out. It's one thing to help out and share responsibility around the home that you both are responsible for, it's another to become this "thing" that you've become. You're a slave to her "goodies" and have wimped out. Thats so freaking disturbing I just don't even know what to say! Be a man dude. Grow up and open your eyes!
2007-01-22 22:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a guy done this to a girl there would be an outcry and probably a rescue center for her to go to. Stand up for your self and tell her to take the strap on off.
2007-01-22 22:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds more to me like an outburst of frustration - not bossy-ness.
Stick to what you're doing, and you'll nail a job soon.
Good luck
2007-01-22 22:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by daniel_156 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, with her earning all the money, she's pretty much calling all the shots (and it sounds like getting her ego on at the same time).
I'd get a job if I were you; if her tune doesn't change, I'd get a new girlfriend as well.
2007-01-22 22:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Julia A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dosnt seem like your happy about it so I cant say deal with it.. if you dont like it then thats what matters the most. Try to tell her your feelings. Your doing the best you can do, maybe she wants you to try harder to bring money in and thats why shes like this. Open up to her it might help.
2007-01-22 22:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
break it off its abvious she does not respect u no more, money is not everything for a man to go out of his way to do the house chores and all that i think he should be appreciated. And who says the breadwinner wears the Pants.
Look for a job ASAP and leave her, its tym to move on.
2007-01-22 23:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with her tell her you dont like that she's being unfair to her and tell her maybe you'll find a job?
2007-01-22 22:53:14 · answer #11 · answered by I love Mirra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋