I am a divorced mother of one teenager. I have been chatting with this guy online on and off for several months, maybe since Sept, and he seems to like me and is very attentive online, but he lives 75-80 miles away from me.I am eager to meet with him but because he has his own business he seems to be always working, although when we chat he sends me hugs and kisses and calls me sweetie and hun.What should I do to get him to come for a visit? Or am I wasting my time?
2007-01-22 22:44:14 · 12 answers · asked by hthrgyrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, you should talk to him about what you want but do it honestly. If he agrees and he is okay with the idea of traveling 80 miles to see you then great, and if he doesn't you have to accept it and move on and try to find someone closer to you.
2007-01-22 22:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by sebastian l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are letting a mere 90 minute drive keep you from meeting the man of your dreams (perhaps). Surely, your teen can stay home alone for a few hours.
Tell him you are going to have lunch with him in his town nearby his work. If he makes up excuses or doesn't offer an alternate day of the week, he is married. Otherwise, he could easily spare a mere 30 minutes to have a cup of tea and light snack?
Let's see...3 hours driving, maybe 45-60 minutes of tea time...a mere 4 hours of your life. What are you afraid of?
2007-01-23 05:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Thundercat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive herd soem realtionships can work over the internet but i also know from what my aunts going throught right now. She been talking to this wonderful man.. even on the phone now. He send her songs that makes him think of her and sys shes so beautiful and perfect and just two days ago he had to confese, hes married. Hun you need to get out go have fun, your aloud to you know. Meet some real men not some made up guy on the computer.
2007-01-22 22:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls dont get ur hopes up the guy might not be who u wish him to be just look for some1 around u. But if u still insist give him a call not on his cell fon, a landline will be more ideal. All the best
2007-01-22 22:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tough one! I would say go and see him, just don't build your self up for any kind of disappointment. If he's 80 miles away get to meet somewhere half way, if he agrees to that then at least your getting some commitment from him.
Go get him tiger!!!
2007-01-22 22:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would find out definately if he's attached. But sure, why not ask him to come down and visit and see what progresses from there. But be 'real' careful. Good luck and I hope all works out okay.
2007-01-22 22:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a good idea to get involved with someone online...its not real he is probably married..find another guy not on the computer..maybe a friend or family member can set you up.
2007-01-22 22:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be just flirting with you or he hasnt reached the stage were he feels he wants to see you or he could be a shy guy.As him why he cant see you.Work shoild not be an excuse for seven months.If he really wants to see you he could spare some time.Start thinking of establishing another friendship with another person.
2007-01-22 22:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online hugs & kisses are not real!
invite him to spend the nearest weekend or holiday with you to know him better!
good luck sweety!
2007-01-22 22:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ide try chatting to him on the phone first.or msn with web cam on so you will get a better picture of him,good luck though
2007-01-22 22:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋