2007-01-22 23:02:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Depends on what you want to say to her & how well you know her. Have you already been introduced? Does she know that you exist? Or are you simply the strange guy on the bus who stares at her every morning? Do you want to introduce yourself?? "Good morning, my name is ..... and i was wondering if you'd like to meet me for a coffee sometime?" Give her your number and leave..... Do already know her and you want to ask her out? "Hi ........ I was wondering if you'd like to get a coffee sometime?" Or if you simply want to let her know thats she's beautiful: "Hi there... I'm really sorry to bother you but i had to let you know that I think you're really beautiful." And walk away... Good luck!!
2007-01-22 23:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10. know your guy and what sets him apart. good books for that are ones that describe personalities, The Five Love Languages, and Love and Respect. 9. just know that guys have different needs tham women. (see books listed above) 8. know that a guy often communicates best side by side, and for women, its face to face. lol therefore go for a walk with him! 7. be ready on time when he arrives for a date (i was once 10 min late for a date, when the desaganated time came, she called and wondered were i was. [I didnt mind because being on time shows importance for a person] but when i got there, SHE still wasnt ready and we left about 20 min after i got there- to me thats a double standard) 6. Call the guy sometimes- and if you are one who dosent believe in that, then spacificly tell him to call you, maybe to the day and time- and then answer. 5. Dont use PMS as an excuse to be moody or mean 4. dont get offended easily- it is impossable to tell you everything we notice about you. 3. Always be honest- we hate it when the truth gets skiped for the sake of our feelings (and in the end, it dosent help, its just irritating) And when girls lie- it maked me feel betrayed, and i just dont understand why they would do that. 2. Love unconditionaly thats the easier one for you- the hard one you might not understand is: 1. Respect him unconditionaly. trust me, a lot of things girls do that can tick a guy off, (and probably make him quiet and withdrawn) is a PRECEVED lack of respect, not that its meant that way, just how it comes across. (and what you do to try to get him to show that he loves you actualy drives him away. and while im at it, in his quest for respect, he often appears to be unloving, so you can just repeat this cycle again.
2016-05-24 00:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey, how about you sit on my lap and we'll see what pops up."
That's oldschool right there. I wonder if it ever actually worked. But anyway, I've found that in most cases when it comes speaking us guys usually have a nacks for looking stupid.
But try and play it off. Go up to her and say, "I just couldn't stop staring at you when I first saw you. You're just so beautiful. And I'd like to know if you have some free time, would you like to go out?"
And stay away from that hip-hop $#!+. You know, the "A shawty, waz happenin' baby? You wanna come kick it wit me?" For most girls they'll reject you and laguh at you so hard it will feel like they kicked you in your nuts and still haven't taken their foot away. That's from first hand experience.
2007-01-22 23:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Hewitt, R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chat up lines don't really work and sound a bit cheesy. Just start talking to her:ask if she's enjoying herself or been to some place before.
2007-01-22 23:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that bothered, don't say anything. Just get touchy feely - you'll soon know if you've pulled. Frankly, if I fancy a bloke, he can say anything - I won't be listening, I'll just be waiting for the opportunity to shove my hands down his pants.
2007-01-22 23:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by madonnas_minge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eyes speaks louder than the mouth. Just give her an appreciative look and a mesmerizing smile, she will melt!
2007-01-22 23:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try Hello or Hi. It has always worked for me. Don't try using some line unless it is totally unique and original.
2007-01-22 23:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say whats on your mind. but yoou have to mean it. if you say something that you didn't really mean just something out of the blue than it could ruin a relationship. have a great day.
2007-01-23 00:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Perfection 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[with a big smile] Hey, I 've been stood over there for half and hour and you still havn't come over to say hi
2007-01-22 23:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by Girugamesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we LOVE compliments - so just say it straight out that you think shes looking lovely or compliment her clothes or something!
Just make sure you dont come across as sleezy
xx
2007-01-22 23:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋