"Like this guy, we are going out "as friends" he doesn't want to get involved with someone with children due to a previous bad experience (he got too attached to the kid and then the relationship went sour), how do I change his mind?"
2007-01-22 22:03:25 · 17 answers · asked by Christi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ieven if you looked like a playmste you dont ta have a chance of his crotch.
2007-01-22 22:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by ihateacaf0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you can change his mind. Just continue being friends and hang out with him. Maybe he'll change his mind in time. It might take a while to get over the hurt from the last relationship. If you really like this guy you'll have be patient until he can make a commitment. Its also possible he may never change his mind. I guess its up to you to decide if you want to find some one else.
2007-01-23 06:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change his mind, I also am surprised that his reasoning is that he got to attached to the last kid, are you sure he is just not trying to sleep with you and then move on. If he really likes kids which from his statement he does than he would want to get involved with you becuase he likes kids. Dont waste your time. move on.
2007-01-23 06:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by searay092003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. He has to for himself.
This is why I'm so glad I don't have children. Many men say that they are afraid of the same thing. If he really likes you and wants to be with you, he will come around. Don't force the situation on him. At least he is being honest.
2007-01-23 06:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by TINY822 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a real tough one. If either of you two would like to talk it out with a guy, I am ramses8p on yahoo IM. I can give you my point of view as best I can.
2007-01-23 06:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by daddyspanksalot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u hav kids are u ashamed of ur kids u carried for months coz of a man pliz tell him if he cant handle you then let him leave he probably didnt know what he had in the first place a woman not ready to sell out on her anything
2007-01-23 06:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the oldest kid at the biggest dump on earth she has good taste it that is what she want then I will let her swallow like the pigs and no I am not looking for anyone but a friend from school who is bryt
2007-01-23 06:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't change his mind. If he's not "together" enough to accept you AND your kids, then there's not much you can do. Either you get over him & get on with yourlife with some one who's ready to accept you and your kids or you wait untill this guy is ready....IF he ever is.
2007-01-23 06:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by "Meredith" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is so bad .
you don't need to change his mind you just need to leave him because if he loves you really he won't care about the children
2007-01-23 06:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ice princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel and if he stops seeing u then move on its better now than latter. You love ur kids stick with them, there's the saying that "love me, love my dog" if he loves u he'll give this a chance.
All the best!!
2007-01-23 06:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I don't think there is much you can do in this situation. I have had the exact same situation and would be very , very cautious of ever getting in that situation again.
2007-01-23 06:10:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋