Have you ever walked into a pub etc and saw your ex with someone new,how did you deal with it?
I just know it`s going to happen to me sooner or later and i honestly dont know how i`ll cope.We were together 6 years and have a child together and the thought of it is killing me,i truly think i`d kill them both.
2007-01-22 21:50:45 · 30 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn`t end it with him,he has walked out on me and our son for the 2nd time,we were only back together 5 months,he says he`s not seeing any1 and i know it`s none of my buisness anyway but it`s eating me up inside.
I just can`t bear the thought of him walking away from our son who has learning difficulties for some1 else.
2007-01-22 22:04:59 · update #1
act like it doesn't bother you. go up to them and say hello... introduce yourself as the mother of his child and then keep moving. express confidence and don't let them see that it bothers you to see them together. it will make you look like the better person and it will leave them in shock. if you let them see you bothered, you will just look crazy in their eyes and she will feel proud that she has your past man... then that will just drive you even more insane. just act like a lady and have your confidence shine through. let them be jealous of YOU. not the other way around hun :)
2007-01-22 22:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, happened me at weekend, i was goin out with ex for 6 years and even though i knew all the girls he has been seeing since we split i never saw him with one until this weekend. Its a year later and i have no intention of gettin back wit him but it was still upsetting, best thing to do is just smile and say hi and then if possible make a quick exit or keep them out of eyeshot so ur not torturing urself. Try and stay strong and dont fall to pieces, leave that till u get home if necessary, few tears never hurt anyone but dont blub in front of him, ul be very unattractive :) Good luck!!
2007-01-22 23:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mind ur business!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to hard theres no doubt about that. But I am sure once you have seen them once, the hardest part will be out of the way. I still find it hard seeing my long term ex now after 5 years of us being seperated, and I am with someone else! You have the added sadness that you have a child together so you are going to have to see him and he may even want "her" to be part of your childs life eventually too, that will be harder I should imagine. When you find yourself a new fella though it should be much better. Good luck!
2007-01-22 22:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, try not 2 think like that.
it's not good 4 u, him, the new girl or ur baby.
if u ever come across this situation, u'll need 2 take a step back & 4 the sake of ur child resist any temptation 2 kill.
u have 2 get on 4 the sake of ur child & it's really not worth lowering urself 2 fisty-cuffs!
is it?
go find urself some1 better & move on.
2007-01-22 21:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violence is never right.
So just imagine if the opposite happened. A great mistake
could be made. Try to take-on-board what those four words
mean. Re-temper ur attitude, and try to hone that learned skill
again. Join the minority, try to adjust against the worst majority
instinct.
Good luck.
2007-01-22 22:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by peter m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to ponder on the fact that you must have broken up with this guy for strong valid reasons.and keep those reasons rite in front of your mind. then it wont bother you too much. so what if he is with some one else,ignore it and move on. there should be no looking back .keep fit and be confident.unless you close old doors,the new ones wont open. his chapter in your life has ended,so wether he's wid tina ,rina or his grandmom it should not matter to you.now relax and good things will happen to you and your kid.
2007-01-22 23:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I seen my ex in the pub with someone else,I was livid,but thats life,Im also the mother of a young adult with learning difficulties,are you scared of what the future holds for you,,please dont be, you will come through this and it will make you a stronger person,the very best of luck to you in the future.
2007-01-22 22:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by LYNDA M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw my ex with another woman at a restaurant. I had the waitress take them drinks from me. When he looked my way, I told him, "Bottoms up." We both laughed. Later that night he called me and thanked me for the drinks. We're friends and I had no problem seeing him with someone else. Life goes on.
2007-01-22 21:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it happens just smile.
Dont let him see its hurting you, strut you stuff and let him see what hes missing!
Grab the nearest bloke and flirt with him, it will piss him off and make you feel better!
Then sit back and watch the look on his face when he see's your not botherd.
Try and take your mind of thinking about him by having great nights out with the girls and find a new person for yourself!
2007-01-22 22:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
da hell...kill em both? dang u guys are no longer together so u shouldnt be mad....well 6 year relationship ud prolly still have feelings w/ him/her,wtf why did u break up wit da person...just get someone new and tell ur ex u guys had sex 2 times a day...for 5 hours ea time u guys did have sex...
2007-01-22 21:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋