Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

I have an amazing girlfriend, whom i have been seeing for 8 months, which is the longest relationship i have ever experienced. Yet recently, i have had feelings for someone else, and things have been getting worse between myself and my girlfriend. I am so uncertain about what will happen. I don't know whether to leave her and start afresh or to try and patch things up?!

2007-01-20 12:26:25 · 16 answers · asked by Jay69 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 12:26:15 · 12 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy, and he is really good in my eyes, but tells me he is with someone. He will not let me come to his house, but he calls my house ours. What to do?

2007-01-20 12:26:14 · 15 answers · asked by Ms.Midwest 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 12:26:02 · 18 answers · asked by goldfreeblue 3 in Singles & Dating

hubbie will only have sex if i suggest something really fun and new

2007-01-20 12:25:51 · 3 answers · asked by young_at_art 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to help my father in law get his birth certificate because he is having a hard time trying to getone because they are saying there one with his name that was born in 1932 or33

2007-01-20 12:25:40 · 2 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Family

I am just generalising here, my fiance' is oversea's (middle east) for 12 months working in a holiday resort, she is the secretary of administration.

Since she has been gone we often use IM live cam to keep contact, we can see & talk to each other two or three times a week, one day she had finished work & on IM I noticed no ring, she said she forgot to put it on after her shower, then the following week it was on her right hand fingure, again her explanation was she forgot what fingure/hand it went on after 4 months of being engaged?

I often see her shared photo's of her & friends, & she is more often not wearing it?

Now the other day she had been to a staff party, for the afternoon/evening, I sent her text messages but unusually I got no reply? I spoke to her on IM last night, she was very insistant that she did not have the time to send me a reply? She refuses to explain to me why, & says its her own secret!?

What are your thoughts, I am confused & ready to pull the pin.

2007-01-20 12:25:05 · 4 answers · asked by devilinme 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months and i wanna do something really special, but im just not sure what to do. Anyone have any ideas?

2007-01-20 12:23:36 · 12 answers · asked by Aras A 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this boy, and He always plays games wid me, for example 'say if IM holdin a ruler, he would snatch it off me, and say 'come get it' so den we would be tryna get it off each other lol (stupid i know but its the truth)

So i get the impression that he likes me.
Coz he asked for my number, but i said, 'nah i cant give it 2 u' but then i asked for his, and he said 'ONLY IF U GIV ME YOURS'

so i said nope.
But he got my number of my friend lol. But theres this thing. Hes ALWAYS around this other girl! like 24/7... i asked her if they was going out...But they wasnt. but they seemed 2 me that they was. Anyway when shes not around he is like that with me..but then when she comes around he dropps me for her. So i just walk away. I DONT KNOW WHY BUT I WANNA KNOW IF HE LIKES ME? coz its weird! wots ur oppinion?

(I asked this question a few minutes ago, but i never explained it properly.)

2007-01-20 12:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Paris 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm in 8th grade and my boyfriend is in 6th grade.i rode his bus and this 11th grader like one of my friends.so i was goin2hook them up.long story short, now he likes me.i'm goin2ride my boyfriends bus and i'm scared that the 11th grader is goin2get in the middle of my relationship.i'm scared that he might break up me and my boyfriend.i really really like my boyfriend. i don't know wat2do now.HELP!!!!!!thx peoples

2007-01-20 12:22:39 · 13 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Singles & Dating

I've had like three girls that have gone out with me and i really liked them and they all broke up with me within a couple of weeks

2007-01-20 12:22:36 · 12 answers · asked by th781024 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a man who grew up in a trailor park (run down) and lived in a trailor full of cats, cat crap, dead cats, **** all over the floor, pee smelling clothes and sheets...anyways, his mother was a total pig and so was he.
The thing is I am with him in his house he bought before me, and I am very clean and the house is always clean, yet when we figt he says I dont clean it and I dont do enough, yet everyone else says this house is always clean and nice.
The scary thing is he beleives what he says, and thinks he is perfect and the one who cleans...he doesnt.
I dont know what to do, I am really fed up with him, its been 3 years and I dont know what to do, I am also a stay home mom so i TAKE care of the kid too.

2007-01-20 12:22:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I always hear women saying they want a nice guy but they are always sleeping with these 'players' and ignoring us nice guys. Then, when you're in your 30's, you want to marry the nice guy who couldn't get none only after you've slept with dozens of these players. It doesn't seem all that fair. What gives? Is this what feminism has done to women. (Now I'm not pinning this on every single woman out there, just the ones who know who they are)

2007-01-20 12:22:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughters father has never been around. Plain and simple...we haven't hid from him...i haven't kept him from seeing her....he just isn't interested! we have had a wonderful man in her life for the past five years so she isn't out anything. anyways... he hasn't mad a single attempt for at least two years, not a phone call, nothing. can i file for child abandonment to get his name of her birth certificate? i don't want his money for child support so that's not an issue. how does that work? will it cost a great deal in legal fees? where would i even start?

2007-01-20 12:22:07 · 6 answers · asked by CA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My 14 yo son was cast in an educational tv pilot summer '06. He filmed the opening & was told he'd be called in Oct for more filming. We didn't hear from them, and he figured great opportunity anyway.

In October, my mom invited our son to Europe with her and his cousins. She has paid 1200 dollars down toward the trip and must pay the balance in April.
Yesterday, we got a call and learned our son was selected for the lead role in that tv pilot. Filming will be in Feb and the pilot will be announced on a nat'l talk show. there will be a world premiere of the pilot, complete with limos and a red carpet, and black tie and 'the media.'
Director says premiere might be 3 days before the Europe trip, but she hasn't been on schedule yet. When mom heard the news, she didn't even congratulate my son, just said my son has an obligation to go w/her to Europe, even if more filming started. My son said he'd hate to miss Europe, but would want to chose the show.
What's right to do?

2007-01-20 12:21:41 · 4 answers · asked by t jefferson 3 in Family

i had a crush on this guy i and finally told him so my friend told him then we started talking on the phone at school but i never really new if he really liked back me then we messed around and after he told my friend he wasent attracted to me and didnt like me then over the summer i started talking to his friend and he called me out of the blue one night and told me that he was in love with me so i dropped the other guy after i did that he didnt want anything to do with me again why do duys do this????????/and guys do you no how he really feels

2007-01-20 12:21:23 · 10 answers · asked by kara w 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 12:21:00 · 21 answers · asked by Selena G98 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 12:19:48 · 18 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

WHO WOULD LIKE TWO BE FRIENDS I GET REAL LONLEY

2007-01-20 12:19:47 · 7 answers · asked by CUTTIE 1 in Singles & Dating

last nite me and elizabeth were on the phone and we called randy to ask him where taylor worked and so we called and asked and it was HIS DAD! he said "this is randys dad and yall need to stop bothering him and tell lindsey to leave taylor the hell alone!!!!" she was like "yes sir" and i was like omgggg as soon as we hung up...i couldnt believe it....i rly think i need to break up with taylor bcuz i can tell his parents dont want me and him talking/hanging out/thinking about each other or pretty much anything else...this is going to TOTALLY ruin my hopes of being in band/flag corps. next year bcuz of his parents....they HATE me....=[
i have NOOOOOO clue what to do....i didnt do anything to them...why do they hate me so much?

2007-01-20 12:19:43 · 8 answers · asked by lindseyy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it doing anything with a girl that you don't have feelings for??? If so, would you call it cheating if your girlfriend did the exact same thing??? Be honest!!!!

2007-01-20 12:19:07 · 35 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday on a night out I was with my friends and two of them really started to annoy me, kept on about my shyness and all that stuff which is a sore point with me. I really like them as friends but because I got drunk when I got home I just wrote a very, VERY angry and insulting message and posted it to their myspaces whilst drunk.

Today I saw it and was shocked at the stuff I wrote and couldn't believe it, it was as if I HATED them and I regret it so much, whilst barely remembering even writing it.

Needless to say the two friends I sent it to sent incredibly unfavourable replies and said they never want to talk to me again +a block delete on myspace and msn, I did apologise as soon as I saw what I'd done ove myspace but the sheer nastiness of the message dispelled the apology.

In addition these two will definitely spread what I've said right round my only friend circle, including this girl I've sort of started going out with.

Any ideas to remedy this bad siuation, fast?

2007-01-20 12:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by RedFox 1 in Friends

I have a very new relationship started...about a month now, I'm very nervous about Valentine's Day! Should I wait for him to bring it up? Should I buy him something? We haven't really had any REAL conversations about what we are to each other, but I know that we are getting pretty close. We see each other at least 2-3 times every week...

2007-01-20 12:18:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

apparently im 22 going on 23 soon and i still have my eye over a guy i knew since i started freshman year in high school... can someone relate and how do i move on?

2007-01-20 12:17:55 · 9 answers · asked by anniemax 1 in Singles & Dating

we'd been together for 2 and a half years and have a bit of history together, so I gave him another chance. The problem is, we are supposed to be patching up our relationship, but he always runs off with his "crew" a group of guys who do I don't like because they do illegal things. He started hanging out with them when we were apart and now he can't stay away from them. Any suggestions?

2007-01-20 12:17:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 14 going to be 15 in march

2007-01-20 12:17:12 · 7 answers · asked by William CURTIS 1 in Singles & Dating

they think its fun to make fun of you and are only there for you when they get something in return. . . .

2007-01-20 12:16:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

All wemen sould check the datting sites for sure to bad that they did not have a list of cheatters on any sites so wemen can check on men that cheat or wemen that cheat too WHY IS THEIR NO SITES FOR THAT ?

2007-01-20 12:16:10 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a good girl myself. It doesnt mean I live a boring life. I still love going out to parties and bars on the weekends with my friends. But I never do one night stands with guys I meet...I feel like thats just slutty. I've been told by many guys that I am attractive. And I know how to have a fun time. But when you're 20 years old and living in a college campus...a lot of guys have one thing in mind when they're partying.

So guys, do you prefer good girls or bad girls?

2007-01-20 12:15:48 · 15 answers · asked by shymegan008 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months. How do I know if it's gertting serious?

2007-01-20 12:15:08 · 8 answers · asked by La Flakita 1 in Singles & Dating