He totally waits on his mom, makes her feel ultra important, always dotes on her, basically acts as her husband without sex. But NEVER dotes on me, never loves on me, we rarely have sex (I am only 32, he 45), he never opens the door for me like he does her, never takes care of me the way he does his mother. It is almost as though I am in the way of their relationship. I feel like the second woman. My husband does not indicate this type of love to me like he does her.
I know that not all men are perfect (dang it, lol) but how many of you ladies feel second in your marriage?
I feel it 24/7. I don't know how to leave this marriage. I am so far in debt.
He needs to be with his mother rather than me. I don;t know why he stays with me, IT AINT THE SEX NOR THE COOKING, COULD IT BE MY CREDIT SCORE?
I mean, I have never seen anything like this, he WAITS ON HER HAND AND FOOT, "are you ok, is the bed soft enough, do you want me to move the tv, want me to cut your food? "
2007-01-20
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