my fiance of only 3 months now still has his ex fiances engagement ring. He told me he never got rid of it cuz its expensive, so whats he planning on doing with it, giving it to me? plz!!!! I also noticed he had her on his buddy list, i know he doesnt talk to her anymore and i trust him completely but im starting to think that he still has feelings for her and is not over her yet. I know she was his first love and she cheated on him so he was hurt by her. am i being overly jealous or is my intuition right?
2007-01-20 12:04:49 · 9 answers · asked by Angelina A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been dating much longer than 3 months, we have been together almost a year. we have only been engaged for 3 months and he broke up with his ex over 2 years ago
2007-01-20 12:16:45 · update #1
u have every right 2 b jealous..he obviously thinks its funny to see u this way..tell him to get rid of the ring and her addy or else u r leaving....the ring should b pawned.
2007-01-20 12:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep dwelling about the past you will be the past. This man has been hurt in his past he don't need someone who being insecure. If you say you trust him there shouldn't be a problem. If he does give you that ring or if he is using it a momento then that's fine. A man is going to always think of there first love. I'm sure you have done the same thing but you didn't act on it. he may be keeping that ring as a reminder of what went wrong in that relationship and don't want to follow the same pattern again. you are engaged to this man don't ruin what you have over something as petty as that. Marry the man of dreams and live happily ever after.
2007-01-20 20:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by doodie315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fiance! in just 3 mons. you don't really know him yet how long have him and the ex been broken up if it just 3 mons then he may not be over her 100% but just hang in there he will be over her soon.
2007-01-20 20:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by ashlee s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really see signs of jealousy and trust me i am a scorpio-Queen of Jealousy- but i feel u i wouldn't want no hand me down ring either but u can tell him to get her up off that buddy list though. If they were still friends and u were aware of it then fine whatever but u know they not so...
2007-01-20 20:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope u have reason for concern so keep an eye out. ask him some questions and do some investigating but dont push the issue to far. and u only been with him 3 months and he is engaged to u? thats too soon for all that.
2007-01-20 20:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not being too jealous..sounds pretty weird to me. Tap the phone and hack his account. ANd then get rid of the dirty scoundrel.
2007-01-20 20:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by ħ Ì Wêår M¥ Mê?ål Må§k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all have had previous relationships and always carry some kind of baggage be it big or small. Just because he may still love her doesnt mean he cant love you.
2007-01-20 20:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound like your on the right track
2007-01-20 20:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2007-01-20 20:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋