There a this man or boy (can't really tell) who keeps coming to my bus stop and keeps talking to me! Every morning I get ready and go to my bus stop to catch the bus and there this guy who always coming up to me and trying to have conversation wit me. But im scared cuz he wants 2 go out wit me and I gave him my number (it was'nt my real #) but I really don't like him and I want to tell him in a nice way without hurting his feeling. what should I tell him??? I wanna tell my but my mama and my daddy but they gonna blow it into somethin big!!
2007-01-20 12:07:55 · 16 answers · asked by Rayraygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him to leave you alone, then walk a few steps away. Threaten to tell your Dad if he keeps bothering you, and do it if he does. Don't worry about his feelings; worry about your safety.
2007-01-20 12:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Husker41 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with these others this man is more thnan likely a pedafile, and you should tell your parents as soon as possible, as all this man needs is to over heara your name and he COULD track you down. I know this sounds far fetched, but i am a teenager myself and am lucky enough to have over come an attempt from a predator. a man called me and apparently had been around me without my knowing because my parents first answered the phone and my mom attempting to sound like me was told to give the phone to me that it was not me.
If this goes any farther you may also wach for this man when you are out as an FBI agent told me, these people genraly will stalk their targets and learn about them before they make a move. what ever you do your parents need to know about this and you should also not be alone as that is when anyone is most suseptable top an attack or abduction
2007-01-20 12:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should bring a friend to take the bus with you. That way youll be more comfortable and it would be easier to ignore him. You also might want to tell him you have a boyfriend, or say your crazy dad (who is a Police Officer/ Military Guy/ Karate Black belt/ or just plain psycho) wont let you date.
2007-01-20 12:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by NOOOWAAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a BIG deal!!!! Your only 14 and some older guy shouldn't be trying to go out with you. You need to tell him to get lost without tring to be nice. You almost need to tell your parents about it. This man could hurt you and you need to get help.
2007-01-20 12:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by flowerintherain02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone 2 tell him that u moved out of the country and maybe switch bus stops 2.
2007-01-20 12:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by brunette babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur parents...this is a big deal..he is a paedophile.....get ur dad to walk u to the bus stop and scare this pervert away.
2007-01-20 12:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hon you need to tell your Mom and Dad. This guy could be dangerous, a stalker or worse!!! Dont worry about his feelings if necessary you tell him to leave you alone!
2007-01-20 12:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say that you're flattered but you should focus on your schooling right now. Maybe in a couple of years and then walk away. If he persists in bothering you, notify your parents--because then that's a dangerous sign if he won't leave you be.
2007-01-20 12:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by zoastriastar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would stay away from him. Or I would try to ignore him. If you keep letting me talk to you and giving him your fake #, it could cause some issues. He sounds like a freak to me.
2007-01-20 12:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be alone in the bus stop for your safety. Tell him u'r not interested and just ignore him.
2007-01-20 12:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by pianodude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋