I've been dating this guy, and he is really good in my eyes, but tells me he is with someone. He will not let me come to his house, but he calls my house ours. What to do?
2007-01-20 12:26:14 · 15 answers · asked by Ms.Midwest 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I AGREE WITH EVERYONE THAT SAYS DUMP HIM, GIRL. HE IS A LOW-LIFE SCUMBAG, WHO SHOULD SIMPLY GET THE THUMBS DOWN FOR '07!!!!!
2007-01-20 12:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by alleykat1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hhhmmmm? R u really saying u like the soup bone but u know he's married? You not ready 2 more on yet? Well u r not stupid if u can't go by the house there's someone else there! What is it that u like? Do u think u going 2 push her out? or is it that u don't mind sharing? sharing is good 2,but she has control of him, and she made it clear 2 him she don't want 2 share. If your happy with what u get out of this relationship u know ur role! If u want more "meaning u want 2 b the 1 he come's home 2 and tell lie's 2" just sit in the cut she will find out sooner then she want's, and u will get ur turn !
2007-01-20 20:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not letting you come to his house because he is either a) living with another woman, or b) married to another woman. His calling your house "ours" is just weird. You need to get to the bottom of his marital status. I see some people suggested following him home, do you really want to be viewed as a stalker? I'd be careful entertaining those ideas. Ask the guy point blank, if he isn't straight with you, then he's hiding something, and you certainly don't need to be strung along like a second fiddle.
2007-01-20 20:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"With someone" is with someone, whether he is married or not. Your gut must be telling you something is wrong here for you to ask the question, so trust your gut and run. You can do better than a cheater, right? If he's cheating on "someone" he'll cheat on you, too.
2007-01-20 20:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is with someone else, it puzzles me how you can say he is really good in your eyes. What about that other unsuspecting woman? Put yourself in her place. Sounds like he is trying to keep parts of his life separate from other parts and you should find someone who will love only you.
2007-01-20 20:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Helen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least he was honest with you and told u he's with someone else.
You need to just get out of the relationship. Explain to him you don't want to come between anyone or cause any trouble, so you need to leave him.
2007-01-20 20:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Chip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hiding things from you, mostly the truth. Not a good basis for a relationship. Find someone else.
2007-01-20 20:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Franz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really not sure, find a way to follow him to his home and watch what happens. If there is in fact a woman in his home, drop him. Don't date married men. It's bad for you and for them.
2007-01-20 20:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by zoastriastar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with zoastriastar, find out his home phone number and call, if a there is another woman then get out of the relationship, if he wants to cheat than thats fine but you dont to be the one that he is cheating with, it's bad for your reputation.
2007-01-20 20:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by SoCal Paramedic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he won't let you go to his house then he's married&tell him that your house is yours not ours.
2007-01-20 20:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋