last nite me and elizabeth were on the phone and we called randy to ask him where taylor worked and so we called and asked and it was HIS DAD! he said "this is randys dad and yall need to stop bothering him and tell lindsey to leave taylor the hell alone!!!!" she was like "yes sir" and i was like omgggg as soon as we hung up...i couldnt believe it....i rly think i need to break up with taylor bcuz i can tell his parents dont want me and him talking/hanging out/thinking about each other or pretty much anything else...this is going to TOTALLY ruin my hopes of being in band/flag corps. next year bcuz of his parents....they HATE me....=[
i have NOOOOOO clue what to do....i didnt do anything to them...why do they hate me so much?
2007-01-20 12:19:43 · 8 answers · asked by lindseyy♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They don't hate you. They just love their son. You'll do the same one day with your kids. Then you will understand why parents do what they do.
2007-01-20 12:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by SCORPIO 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie it doesn't seem like they hate you at all. It seems like they are just looking at the best interest for their son. Maybe they want a girl better suited for him and they don't think you're it. Just because they don't like you, doesn't mean that you have to break up with him. Re-examine yourself and make sure that they don't have a reason not to like you. You sound pretty young, so don't let him be the only guy. You'll have many others. If his parents don't like you, it could be pretty hard for your future. You'll probably be the next Parental Control candidate when you turn 18. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-20 12:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it was a Dad not Dad and Mom.So you don't know that his Parents hate you.Second what does this have to do with the band/flag corps? And your question is a little confusing...are Randy and Taylor brothers?Why would Randy's Dad worry about Taylor and who he is seeing?
2007-01-20 12:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like they hate you. It sounds like they'd prefer that you leave their son alone, or not bother him so much. Don't call people while they're at work or become a distraction to them, since they're supposed to be working.
Talk to whomever at school and if it's supposed to be he will call you when he can.
Relax.. you're young. You'll have LOTS of time to talk with the boys.
Go out for flags... you'll enjoy it.
2007-01-20 12:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by tobiemonterrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now. Step away. And wait until you grow older. Once he's gotten out of the Parental Units Clutches. You both can decide what to do. Life is too rough, to be going through all of this, now!
2007-01-20 12:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sucks, but some parents just don't like their kids friends/girlfriends.
Just be as nice to his parents as you can (the "smother them with kindess" type deal) and ignore their remarks.
If its really really bothering you then you could ask him directly: but be prepared for him to say very mean and hurtful things to you.
2007-01-20 12:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Chip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe taylor doesnt like you and wants his parents to do the dirty work for him?
or if he does like you, then TALK TO HIM and tell him that this really bothers you and that you can't handle it anymore...or just talk to his dad to find out why he doesn't like you.
2007-01-20 12:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if they don't like you. Don't let them control your life. You should be in band if you really want to.
2007-01-20 12:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋