Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

This guy I've been seeing is my complete opposite. I'm an educated professional career woman and he's, for lack of a better term, a bum. He can't hold a job, he stays up all night and sleeps all day. He has no car, lives off his parents, and has absolutely nothing.

The upside is he's incredibly sexy, charming, fun to be with, good in bed, and he makes me feel good when I'm with him. He's extremely attractive. I've never met anyone that made me feel this way.

What do you think, should I keep seeing him, and just take the bad with the good? Thanks for good answers, no judgemental comments please. 10 points for best answer.

2007-01-18 01:32:15 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean, should we, no matter what has happend in the past forgive pople just because they are family?

2007-01-18 01:31:37 · 25 answers · asked by Nigi-magic 3 in Family

I have done the whole sexy lingerie , games , new stuff in bed , video cameras ever since I first discovered the porn in our computer so he would lay off of it but he just doesn´t respond to that , not that he does not respond to sex itself ..he does not respond to those gimmicks made by me ...somehow I think the women in the porn films doing that stuff do arouse him ..to me he just sticks to regular stuff and does not like when I bring new stuff to the bedroom ..Most of the times I do initiate the sex ...I need some perspective

2007-01-18 01:31:10 · 17 answers · asked by Good goo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 01:30:44 · 1 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Singles & Dating

Have recently split up with boyfriend.... due i thought to circumstances his lives in the North and i am in the South.... But this was not the case there was more to this saga.... There were a few reasons he said i was to demanding in bed for 'oral sex' and i was not shy giving it back so there was no issue's there with me.

2007-01-18 01:30:37 · 21 answers · asked by Carlette D 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister-in-law is constantly leaving her husband because of his drug/alchohol problems. Everytime she comes to our house, asometimes for a day or two or sometime for a week or two. Once it was for two months. But my husband and I and everyone else in the family has noticed a pattern that she goes through. She leaves, then he starts calling (most of the time it's because he's broke and she's about to get paid), she then starts going to see him behind our backs to give him money for "bills" or to buy him groceries. Last night we saw her at home with him, then she came home to our house and lied about where she was. Within the next week, I'm sure she'll go back home. This happens like every couple weeks. She goes back and forth between house dragging their daughter right along with her. She claims that she wants a divorce, but never files for one. What can I do or tell her to help her leave him already and break the cycle she is so used to?

2007-01-18 01:30:18 · 16 answers · asked by ... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 01:30:09 · 11 answers · asked by evangelist s 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend's daughter, a great girl, asked for my advice. She's wonderful, but has some difficulties to deal with time, she often comes late for lunch or keeps talking w/ friends and forgets to come home. She agrees she should change. Yesterday she was late for lunch. Her mom wasn't mad, treated her w/ love but gave a small punishment. She had to write some lines, nothing harsh, but sure embarrassing for a 15 yo. Her mom said she'll have to write lines whenever she comes late The girl is a bit resentful and thinks her mom messed up. Her reasoning 1) She's a good girl, she just has difficulty to deal w/ time; 2) Punishments are for "moral" mistakes, which certainly wasn't the case; 3) Instead of punishment, she thinks she should just abide by the consequences, like not having lunch. Though I see the girl's point, I said her mom, out of love, would never deny her lunch. Though I don't agre w/ the punishment, I think her mom showed love, and denying the girl her lunch might be traumatic

2007-01-18 01:30:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Anyway in the college lobby last night, there was this really hot guy I like, we rarely talk unless we are put in a group together in class.

Anyway as I was walking past him I would let my eyes trail down him, checking out his arms, abs and chest and legs and back to his arms and sometimes face. Everytime I do this he looks at me and I look away.

Is he noticing that I am checking him out? Suggestions?

How do I know if he has a girlfriend and what age he is?

2007-01-18 01:29:45 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

I have cheated on him too. So why is it so difficult for me to forget it and get past it. When i cheated...he forgave me and the only reason i had the littlest faith in love was becasue of how true he was to me. And how much he loved me. i cant seem to trust him anymore. but i cant live without him either. Maybe he could forgive and forget. i am ready to forgive...but forget i dont think so! i want to trust him when he says he loves me , but i cant! what should i do?

2007-01-18 01:29:38 · 22 answers · asked by a lil birdy 1 in Singles & Dating

I love the build-up, the tension and moment when you know it's all been worth it and you take some dish back to her place.

Don't get me wrong coitus is great too, but you can buy sex or pick up someone desperate.

2007-01-18 01:29:19 · 14 answers · asked by fact_hunt_1970 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 01:28:54 · 4 answers · asked by EDWIN K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 01:28:53 · 13 answers · asked by Dominic W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have strong feelings for a man whom I've known since I was 15 (I'm 22 now), and he's married. We aren't having an affair, but I would like to know, what's the best way to get rid of my feelings for him so that it won't get to that point?

2007-01-18 01:28:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anybody got any suggestions for a good night out. We are wanting to organise a nights entertainment for 50 - 100 adults and want some good ideas. Not pubs, meals or clubs but more along the lines of a race night, a casino night, 70's night, etc. Something that's a bit of fun. Any ideas??

2007-01-18 01:27:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we dated for 3 months, he said he loved me. then we broke up over stupid stuff. we talked lately, he said he still loves me ( i do too) but if i dont start any sort of comunication he'll ignore me. i want to see him again, he said we may this week, but he hasnt call to make plans. i sent him an im a day ago and he hasnt replied...

2007-01-18 01:27:01 · 13 answers · asked by DaintyCutie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 01:26:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My partner was always hanging out with a girl at work. he would meet her for lunch even when he knew it annoyed me and used to phone her a lot (I know because I sit beside her at work). Then he said he wouldnt see her but did and lied about it. He went out for a drink with her when he said he was at the gym but then admitted it later (he hates going out drinking). He never misses the gym and two days later on my birthday was out all day and then wanted to go to the gym - so he didnt want to miss the gym for me. He would say that he didnt phone her but then i would find out that he had. I know they see each other at the gym - everyone says she is very attractive. What do you think?

2007-01-18 01:26:20 · 19 answers · asked by Islandgirlss 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel as though I loved my ****** ex more so than I do my new boyfriend. My last boyfriend I was jealous of and was drama-filled. This one is very relaxing and calm but I feel as though I dont love him as much for some reason. Is it because this relationship is calm and in my previous relationship I was always on edge and trying to prove my love? This is my first drama free relationship and I care about him ALOT. I am 24 and we have been together for 5 months. The first 4 months WERE WONDERFUL! and now I feel as though I dont love him as much?!?!?!

2007-01-18 01:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 01:25:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this has gone on 3 years, but I'll make it short as space here is limited. I am 34 my husband is 54. We lived together the last 2 and a half years and became married just this past Dec. His oldest son now 22 lived with us a short time and moved in with a girlfriend here in our town. His mom began harrassing me as soon as she learned my age 2 and a half years ago. She calls my family, my ex husband and his family. She threatens to call social services saying my husband is a molester if we don't give her our address and phone numbers. She has said she hired a private investigator to follow us. The son moved back to WA. in Aug. I cringe knowing she was less than 20 minutes from me, she didn't know our new address at the time we have moved 3 times to get away from her. She said in an email she would just pay to find out where we live and she did. I recieved certified mail telling me to get a job, and just insults to me. She mailed this reg. and cert to our po box and to the house. HELP

2007-01-18 01:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by bevy.jo99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 01:24:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a girl named katie brunkhorst.Shes my bestest friend and she alreday said i could put her stuff out online i know its the wrong thing to do but if you do know her will you please tell me just her hair color and if she has frekles or not cuz then i know if you no her!!thnx,

2007-01-18 01:24:34 · 3 answers · asked by meg_brat2006 1 in Friends

I am 170cm, dark, handsome and build. Is this considered "short" -dark & handsome-? "Average" -dark & handsome? If it's short is it "too short"? How short is "too short"?

I am so confused because only a few people (males) have called me short, I still get girls, I feel like im the same height as most other males around me & I am taller than most girls.

2007-01-18 01:24:30 · 12 answers · asked by sam z 1 in Singles & Dating

She never gave me a reason, just...goodbye. Now I'm known as an asswhole and jerk, I didn't do anything. She won't even talk to me and she blames me for her problems with her friends recently.

2007-01-18 01:23:01 · 28 answers · asked by Freezer 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not about you when a guy sees other women that attract his attention. Don't take it personally? He's not saying that you're not good enough. He's just showing you what he likes. Be smart about it....Hint!!!

2007-01-18 01:21:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what the hell i love how people dont go to friends i need more advice in the friends department its called bestfriends plzzzzzzz reply

2007-01-18 01:21:30 · 6 answers · asked by ~Shan~ aka Shannon B 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you watch CSI:Miami? Who is your favourite character? My favourite character is Jonathan Togo! Do you have his e-mail adresse?

2007-01-18 01:21:27 · 9 answers · asked by Hannah 3 in Friends

Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years.

2007-01-18 01:21:25 · 15 answers · asked by tmang0502 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you like my idea (please, I need help!)?
I have made a birthday card for this girl I like and her birthday falls this weekend. I have told her my feelings few months b4 and she said just want to be friends.

Look, if I just put that card in her bag (as an anonymous) tomorrow, then few hours later I text her to ask her what she thinks of the card (then it might be a surprise for her; I never made a card for someone before), will it be good? Seriously, I can't give her personally because all the time she is with her friends!

No, it is not mushy!!! I just say a birthday wish! That's all! And lots of decoration! Yeah, I just want to make her day!

What would she think of that? Angry?

We are 14

2007-01-18 01:21:22 · 9 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating