we dated for 3 months, he said he loved me. then we broke up over stupid stuff. we talked lately, he said he still loves me ( i do too) but if i dont start any sort of comunication he'll ignore me. i want to see him again, he said we may this week, but he hasnt call to make plans. i sent him an im a day ago and he hasnt replied...
2007-01-18 01:27:01 · 13 answers · asked by DaintyCutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why be treated like this..he is a scumbag ratbag..u deserve better.
2007-01-18 01:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it sounds like he is seeing someone else and is maybe wanting a physical thing on the side with you. His not answering your communication suggests a distancing is taking place by him, which sends a clear signal that he is at the very least hesitant about getting back together with you.
Even giving him the benefit of the doubt on seeing someone else, his lack of response indicates quite clearly that he is reluctant to get back together, and you should probably just move on and let him make the move at this point.
2007-01-18 01:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting back with someone that you've broken off with is usually a bad plan.
There was some reason the break occurred, it may seem to be over stupid stuff. But the break occurred and it will most likely occur again. Steer clear and find someone that is better suited to you and you to them.
best of luck.
2007-01-18 01:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him be. If he really loves you, he'll come around. If you are putting a lot of pressure to communicate or meet, then he may just say he still loves you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings and is not sure what else to say at this point.
2007-01-18 01:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by cupidscorner6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn’t replied he obviously may still care for you, but isn’t willing to get back together with you. You have reached out to him. Call him once more about getting together this week and then just leave him and the situation alone.
2007-01-18 01:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took the intitiative now its up to him. You did what you could. Dont chase him though. If he wants to work things out and give it another shot, he will get back with ya. Dont do so much as to seem desperate. Be patient....he may not have checked his email yet. Good luck.
2007-01-18 01:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u need to move on. heres the deal, if he told u he loved u when he was trying to have sex with u, im sorry to tell ya but he is just trying to get in your pants. ok heres the next thing u need to know, he prolly is scewing someone else and he told u he loved u again cause he wants to keep u on the side in case the other girl(s) arnt available.
IM sorry to tell ya, but everything IS ALL ABOUT SEX
2007-01-18 01:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by cameljumpdawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a bloke knows you're after him, he can afford to ignor you. If he doesn't anything from you, he'll worry you're having much more fun without him, so he'll be contacting you! . You then act cool!
2007-01-18 01:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by wgbh67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants u back he will probably try to make u jealous and make u want him back. and if he does try it again but first become friends and become good friends and then maybe try the whole dating thing and if u suspect anything check it twice with a trustworthy friend and spy.
2007-01-18 01:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by shorty_baby_girl15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it may seem and as much as u dont want to leave him alone. if he truly loves u he will be bac k but stop initiatin conversation that could get on his nerves and make him not want anything to do weth u
2007-01-18 01:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by *~*~*BABYDOLL*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋