It's not about you when a guy sees other women that attract his attention. Don't take it personally? He's not saying that you're not good enough. He's just showing you what he likes. Be smart about it....Hint!!!
2007-01-18 01:21:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women do not have the sex drive that men have. They THINK they do, they do NOT. (excluding guys who have some kind of problem.)
Our sex drive is insanity, pure and simple. Right now, I'm looking at my coat in the corner.....wondering...if...I...could....somehow....
2007-01-18 01:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dear Chask,
I realize that you are probably not going to pay much attention to what you see here, but on the off chance that you will actually read and absorb some of what I say:
1. If you are not in a marriage, you are not "cheating," per se, but you are fornicating.
2. Sex before marriage causes major mistakes by both parties.
3. STDs are passed along by people of your ilk.
4. Your attitude is selfish and immature.
5. Plan on being alone for a long time.
6. Get smart yourself....Hint!!!
2007-01-18 09:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to make it clear to her from the beginning that you want an 'open' relationship. That way, you can have all the "variety" you want and so can she. No hurt feelings in the end.
Besides, if you really respect and love the woman you are with, your "appetite" will be limited to only her. If being monogamous is frightening to you then you should look for other women who are open to you behaviours...trust me they are out there. Check the internet.
2007-01-18 09:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by SupaDupaWoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean hint... not all girls like things like that. Grow up!!!
Women don;t always mind men looking, but touching is a whole different story. Why do you say men want variety, don't you think women also like variety. You are making men sound really bad, i wouldn't be surprised if they also told you to grow up!!!!
2007-01-18 09:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Roxxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about just looking at other women, or having sex? I would consider it cheating if it involves touching or kissing, etc. But just to look? I have no problem with that, unless it is very obvious. Such as my father in law would stop talking during the middle of a story and turn his head to watch a woman. I thought that was disrespectful to my mother in law.
2007-01-18 09:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as he understands that when she's cheating on him, she's only trying to show him what SHE likes. And he shouldn't take it personally.
He should be smart about it...Hint...
2007-01-18 09:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you are in a committed relationship and you do your "variety" thing, It IS cheating.
2007-01-18 09:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Variety??? Of course it's cheating, so then do you not mind your girlfriend eyeing up other men, & saying 'check out the crotch on
that one' I don't think you'd like it, or do you??
2007-01-18 09:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by pinkydixie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your woman is not feeling confident about herself.
Are you just :"looking at the menu"? Or are you ordering?
If you are acting on your impulses, then you are a loser and she needs to dump you and move on to someone who'll treat her right.
2007-01-18 09:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bullfeathers.
2007-01-18 09:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Casperia 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋