She never gave me a reason, just...goodbye. Now I'm known as an asswhole and jerk, I didn't do anything. She won't even talk to me and she blames me for her problems with her friends recently.
2007-01-18 01:23:01 · 28 answers · asked by Freezer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be glad you're out of that relationship. Chances are, there was a lot she never told you about how she feels about you. Something probably happened that was just the last straw, and it all came pouring out because she didn't express it properly at the time.
Women THINK they communicate better than men.
2007-01-18 01:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she never loved you with all her heart so, move on its not worth the stress that it can cause. You sound fairly young so workout get fit and take your shirt this summer and you'll be just fine. As for me personally i would be hurt depending on how i feel about her but the best thing i would do is let it go even if i dont want to the worst thing for me or anyone to do is to dwell. If she wants this then let her have it what goes around comes around and another thing God dont like ugly so theres a better loving sexier woman coming your way trust me on this one.
Some woman are like that it could be defined in her sign or she could of got it from one of her parents when it comes to attitude.
If its another guy then she never loved you with all her heart
if it was sex you wouldnt of last that long or even had another chance so dont think that.
but if you were the jerk then its only fair you jerk off
2007-01-18 09:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by gigahits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you might have just answered your own question here unfortunately. Even though you said you didn't act like that around here, MAYBE you did and YOU didn't think you did, but she did; plus when others become part of the equation; they see things that the person who's involved directly do not. I went through that last year myself and I was engaged. After five months; I broke up with him. I saw how things were really going to be and realized I'd be smart to get out. Things like this; you just never know.
2007-01-18 09:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she felt like she had to choose between you or her friends, or you did something that you THOUGHT she didnt know about and she found out, or she has found interest in someone else and is just try ing to make up anything as an excuse so SHE wont be made out to be the jerk for leaving you for another man.
2007-01-18 09:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on man are you kidding me? Give more information, I am sure you had some arguments and there was something to show that she was heading towards that decision.
Notice the she is seeing someone else or has found someone else comments and notice it is mostly from women... they know the deal.
Otherwise the chick has brain problems cause PEOPLE don't usually leave their significant others without someone in the wings unless they are a head case.
2007-01-18 09:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by Willie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 3 possibilities: (1) You are a jerk and as*hole and the source of all her problems; (2) You aren't and there is no reason why she dumped you; (3) She found another guy who "swings a better bat".
2007-01-18 09:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...u probably took her away from them in your own guy way and didn't even know that u were doing it.... she probably needed them around as well and she feels that u stopped her from being with them...or something like that...give her some space and time..but in the mean time write her a letter and tell her that you didn't realize that u caused her so much pain and you would change if she gave you a chance.
Good Luck
2007-01-18 09:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Natz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Changes in attitude. Just steer the course and forget her, after all, is she's so shallow to depart without giving a reason, it better to discover her ego now.
2007-01-18 09:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if youre known as an assole and a jerk, dont you think thats why she left?
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2007-01-18 09:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got another guy. Say goodbye, get on with life, and stop moping around.
2007-01-18 09:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋