Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

I LOVE HAVING A BOY FRIEND, BUT NOT FROM MY COUNTRY.PERSONEL DETAIL;HEIGHT 6.1FT ,CHOCOLATE IN COMPLETION,UNDERGRADUATE. WHAT SHALL I DO TO MAKE MY DREAMS COME TO PASS. I NEED SUGESTIONS, PLS HELP .I DON'T HAVE ACCESS TO TRAVEL OUT NOW.

2007-01-16 22:26:31 · 6 answers · asked by Obioma E 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30+ and he's 20+ older than me. I live here in Philippines and he's from U.S.A.. we used to talked(thru computer/with cam) 2 times a day, after a year become once a day coz he said i shouldn't be tired bec i'm studying, so i understand him, but then after a year and 8months things have change.. i know he loves me coz he's always there even were miles and miles apart. i asked him if theres someone new atleast letme know, but he said hes not looking, theres nothing to worry about, ilet him know that not seeing him one day seems to me forever.. and not seeing him a week seems the end of the world...he change for awhile and there here we go again... not seeing him again.. he was tired i undersand that bec of the time diffrent... i dont know what to do... gezzz.. i don't even know what i wanna asked here....

2007-01-16 22:24:49 · 3 answers · asked by the choosen1 2 in Singles & Dating

Is my relationship ending? I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we live together. I'm not sure he was ready for the move because it wasn't something we talked about, it was because of a situation I was having at home. Anyway, I constantly catch him on craigslist looking at their personals site and I've confronted him about it. He tells me that he just wants to see what's out there. I told him that if he continues looking at the site then I was leaving. Recently, I caught him looking again. Does he even care? He tells me he loves me but he does stuff like look at personal sites and stuff. Then when I talk about our future, he starts "joking around" saying we're not getting married or having kids. what should I do? I love him but i'm looking for someone I can have a future with. Someone please help!

2007-01-16 22:24:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think my boyfriend got a bad attidude with me
lst night i could reach the cats biscuits so i asked him to help me
he was talking on skype with i don't mind it gives me some peace from him
and he said you just called me up just to get these buscuits what are you jeaulous or some thing
then his aunty was around and i thought he was asking me and he said what do you want to go town for
i said i need to go bank
and he said i not just talking to you all the time
what should i do
he says i got a bad attidude and i am selfish
it the way he speaks to me he talks to me like **** and i getting sick of he family coming round and he think he is mr superman or something please help
and some kids was outside getting drunk i was alsleep at the time and he said they was drunk but he said your mates was drunk
but i only know there brother so someone who i know and mates are a differnt thing right ?
sorry about my grammer

2007-01-16 22:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently I have been given the opportunity to work things out with my childs mother. We have both been trying hard and we are very close to being together. I told her that I didn't want to have sex with her until we are together as Im afraid my emotions will run wild and I don't want to get hurt if something happens in which we don't end up being with eachother. I know she wants to have sex with me but I honestly want to build our relationship so that its unbreakable...what should I do? What do you think?

2007-01-16 22:20:53 · 10 answers · asked by Ghost 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it a guy can sleep with as many women/girls they like but when a women/girl does it she is called a s**t? The reason I ask is I have a friend who likes me more then a friend and he asked how many guys I have slept with, when I told him he said I was a s**t. Its only 2 guys!! Any way he has slept with over 15 women/girls and he thinks thats ok....what the hell? Please explain!!

2007-01-16 22:18:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 22:18:01 · 19 answers · asked by Mr. Kinky 1 in Friends

Im having trouble thinking straight at the mo and Im regreting a lot of things already and Im only 19! I wanted to go away to uni, but I stayed here becuase of a boyfriend which I have now split from. I cant afford to go now so im stuck somewhere I dont want to be. I also wanted to move away to make new mates. My mates have different interests to me and I feel as if I want to make new ones and Im frustrated becuase I dont live in halls. This is probably so rediculas but its how im feeling. I need to geta life I think and wake up beucase there are plenty of people worse off then me.

2007-01-16 22:17:59 · 4 answers · asked by lozziebach 1 in Singles & Dating

This happened some six years ago. I always ate over noon with this girl who was from the same rural area as me (we went to school in the bigger city). Her friend joined us regularly and one day she said she had feelings for me. Now of course I know what she meant, but back then I didn't. I was just seventeen-eighteen years old back then. So I told her I didn't understood and all that, and a little later she said those feelings were gone because she said she heard something about me (people thought i was racist back then, but they were wrong, I am a socialist and hate racists, but that's beside the point) but the only mutual friend we had was that girl we ate with. A little later I sent her friend an email stating I was looking for her (the one that had feelings for me) and I got a reply from her that she was felt good about me not having forgotten her, and she thought I'd never look for her that way and thought I'd forgot her. What would you've done when you had the chance ?

2007-01-16 22:15:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say you ladies hook up with a guy and want to see him again. Do you make the call the next day to let him know this was not just a one night stand or wait for him to call?

What if he doesn't call you?

2007-01-16 22:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

why.. without lovemaking its not possible,, as a relationship should depend on trust n commitment.

2007-01-16 22:10:47 · 30 answers · asked by K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

beauty is in teh eye of the beholder....you find someone attractive no one else does it's just something about them that you really like and you really cant explain it?

2007-01-16 22:10:45 · 9 answers · asked by CJL18 1 in Singles & Dating

say I meet some guys on the net and then start to going out with a couple of them, up to what stage I should say "ok, this is getting further ahead in a relationship so I can only date one person" ??? I mean prior to kissing .
having a very conservative background and now knowing I have to be open-minded about certain things, am not sure where is the boundary. most my friends married to the their first love so cant ask them. I really need to know and want to do the right thing, before I start have drinks with them, so I can be relaxed and not worry too much again.

I guess some people aware and probably seeing a few at the same time as well. I dont know what to say when someone shows strong interest after the first drink but am not though dont mind just be friends. but I feel so bad when later he realise am not interested in relationships at all.

2007-01-16 22:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

during an arguement with my boyfriend I suddenly blurted out that I wanted us to take a break, I immediatly regretted it but to my surprise he said he wanted one too now im freaking out and scared he'll break up with me, how do I fix this??

2007-01-16 22:06:32 · 14 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Singles & Dating

Victoria is my bestfriend. She wanted to dance with Jaime my close friend. I was eager to please victoria coz there was this incident. whatever. so i sort of forced jaime to ask her to dance with him in the batch party. but then jaime told maki (victorias other bestfriend who i hate coz she is a ******' pimple faced biyotch) maki told victoria and im trapped. what should i tell victoria? should i apologize? what should i say? is there another option for me to do? HELP!

2007-01-16 22:06:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-16 22:05:43 · 16 answers · asked by coolbuddy 1 in Friends

so there's a new girl at my church. she is so beautiful that that night i couldn't sleep at all because all i could think about was her.

so then i find out she's a transfer student, and will only be here for a month or two...

i'm feel devasated because i know there's no point in starting anything...

what should i do? did i just fall for her too easily?

2007-01-16 22:04:44 · 4 answers · asked by peter 1 in Singles & Dating

I need love because life is love and i dont want to spend it alone i want a girl with a soft smile and saying to me good morning and good night and all these stuf that we knew , i am asking any girl that she think that i am suitable to love her to E-mail me at kns446@yahoo.com or she can advice me to knew some one qute.

2007-01-16 22:04:12 · 4 answers · asked by man in love 1 in Friends

2007-01-16 22:03:46 · 22 answers · asked by doctorr327 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say you sleep together and she calls u the next day. What does that mean?

Does it mean she wants to see u again?

Does it mean she wants a relationship?

Does it mean she doesn't want u to think it was a one night stand?

2007-01-16 22:03:39 · 9 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 22:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by daltog1970 1 in Weddings

2007-01-16 22:01:58 · 27 answers · asked by storm.axed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Divorce in Washington State. If a couple lives in one county and the spouse leaves the other and fiiles in another county and a motion if made to move the case to the county where they actually lived and the motion is denied, is there a possibility of an appeal to a higher court? If not and if a final determination on porperty division etc. is made by the judge, is there a way to appeal?? help!!!

2007-01-16 21:59:50 · 2 answers · asked by stu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1. He spends more time with his friends' child (6 years old) than he does with me. - taking her to school, to his nan's, shopping etc..
2. He has loads of child psychology books.
3. If he has been to visit a friend, he will talk about their child and not mention anything about his friend.
4. He says 'I can tell she fancies me' (a five year old child)
5. He says random comments like ''my daugther keep climbing on top of me'' . With nothing else to add to the statement he has made. He has also said ''my daughter giggles when I wash between her legs'' - (his daughter is a toddler)
6. I asked him if he would like to work with children and he said NO.
7. He has insisted that I should have his baby and that he would be happy to be a house-husband. We've not been together long enough... and why would he want my child when he will not commit himself to me? (see point number 1)
8. Love making feels detatched - feels like he wants to get it over and done with!!

2007-01-16 21:59:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-16 21:59:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 21:57:18 · 13 answers · asked by ash 1 in Friends

I have been dating an older gentlemen for about 8 months now. There's a nine year difference in our ages. He has been married and divorced twice. He says that he loves me but he also love both of his ex-wives. I became upset when he told me that. He tried to reassure me that he is in love with me and does not love them the same way he loves me. He says I am overreacting and being insecure about the whole thing. I say love is love no way around it there is no difference in being in love and loving someone. If there is a difference I would like to know what the diffference is. I am beginning to think that perhaps he may decide to go back to one of them. I really don't know if I am blowing this out of apportion and overreacting. I need some solid advice from someone mature enough to understand where I am is coming from?

2007-01-16 21:55:48 · 18 answers · asked by Denese 2 in Singles & Dating

Im in my job for a year and a half .. Im a sectary ..

no one gives me a face, im nice , quite.
Does everything for anybody..

I dont know wheres the problem .. they all invite each other to thier offciec make an order from restrunts eat together will neve include me and if they do i will be the last one to know about it so i tell them no thanks.
i feel very bad .. I really cant get on with them i find it very hard they are the kind that will geer , say bad things behind your back .. do things to put you in trouble .. what do i do ??

2007-01-16 21:55:03 · 6 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have a dilemma about getting married, waiting, or not getting married at all. Im 22 my girlfriend is 21 and we've been together for 3 years and everyday I feel more and more pressure from her to get on my knees. Verbally she's mentioned it a few times but this past month she's been dropping more and more hints like 'it would be nice to get married in 2007'. I want to be with her but im not sure im ready for marriage, thats not to say I wont in the future. But im scared to say anything because she's likely to reconsider our relationship as she's a very fiery person. I've over heard her saying to her friend that she's with me to get married and has no intension of staying gf and bf any longer. To me that sounds like an ultimatume. Im just scared that if I say im not ready she'll want to leave. What do you think people? (especially girls).

2007-01-16 21:54:51 · 22 answers · asked by Max 1 in Singles & Dating

gals/guys do u think so ??

2007-01-16 21:52:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce