during an arguement with my boyfriend I suddenly blurted out that I wanted us to take a break, I immediatly regretted it but to my surprise he said he wanted one too now im freaking out and scared he'll break up with me, how do I fix this??
2007-01-16 22:06:32 · 14 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps his reply was in defense so you wouldn't see how bad he felt. I would talk it out with him. Tell him just what you told us. It would be a pity to ruin something because you are both too proud to admit a mistake. If again he really does want to split then you will at least know how things stand. Good luck
2007-01-16 22:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by Fellina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend did the exact same thing, and a month later I realized how big of a mistake I made and how much I wanted her back. I asked her if she was ready to get back together, and she said God told her it wasn't right and he broke us up for a reason. I finally figured out the reason. It was so I would learn from all the stupid things I put her through and all the things I should of went out of my way to do for her and didn't. Well turns out she started talking to another guy, and didn't want me back. Well the guy is gone now, and we still see each other all the time, talk on the phone, kiss, and say I love you to each other everyday, but we are still not together. It is very confusing, and I don't know what to do to make things right again, and get her back. So my advice is tell him as soon as possible how you feel and how sorry you are for what you did. Tell him how stupid the fight was and you want him back. The sooner the better don't wait a month like I did.
2007-01-17 06:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. It may be good for both of you. Remember the best part of an argument is making up. Give him a call in a few days & go from there.
2007-01-17 06:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya don't. Just go on with it. A break could be a good thing for both of you. Take the break, and then resume. It's that easy.
2007-01-17 06:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by andrei . c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go straight down to the nearest mechant marine bar and chum jup with a fellow with enough for drinks and tie one on. plan to take him home with you and get busy. get so busy the other bloke won't come back and you will forget is dorky name. keep moving or they get you all tangled up. move on and keep; mvoing.it dosn't work. never did. i have to scramble to get a meal or a corner to slee;p. bet you can do better if you keep out theslammer and get no record. men will get you ruined like me -- and millions of ohers. cannot win. impossiblel the bastards will dirve you crazyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!
2007-01-17 06:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he breaks up with you it's b/c he isnt happy. tell him how you feel and if he still wants to take a break, the you dont have many options. I'm sorry your hurting right now but, you dont want to be with someone who isnt happy with you
2007-01-17 06:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Even if you havent asked for it, since he did admit that he needed a break he would have. If he comes back to you its great else move on with life.
2007-01-17 06:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Coolguy_punjabi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may have, during an argument, came out with your true feelings.
2007-01-17 06:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Teacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him calmly explain that you said it as a reaction to the argument. The only thing you can do is talk this one out...
2007-01-17 06:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is power in your words.....they will either condemn or justify your actions. Next time control your tongue (if there is a next time with that boyfriend)
2007-01-17 06:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋